Needing help

[Violent_Placebo]

Being only 19 am not very experianced but i am into the whole whips and chains thing but this leads me to a problem, being more of a submissive than anything else and my current boyfriend being quite "White Bread" how do I introduce anything like this =/ and I have very little ideas of things to do that arent too...full on...
anyone with any ideas?!

 

[Marquis]

Being only 19 am not very experianced but i am into the whole whips and chains thing but this leads me to a problem, being more of a submissive than anything else and my current boyfriend being quite "White Bread" how do I introduce anything like this =/ and I have very little ideas of things to do that arent too...full on...
anyone with any ideas?!

I have some very general advice that I think applies well to this sort of question (which comes up a lot).

The first thing to do is to figure out some idea of what you want. Next thing to do is to figure out what your boyfriend wants. Once you have those two things figured out, the rest should be easy, but just in case...

The idea is to motivate him to give you what you want by giving him what he wants. This is essentially how it all works, on the most base level.

Let us know what you come up with.

 

[~His Kitten~]

Being only 19 am not very experianced but i am into the whole whips and chains thing but this leads me to a problem, being more of a submissive than anything else and my current boyfriend being quite "White Bread" how do I introduce anything like this =/ and I have very little ideas of things to do that arent too...full on...
anyone with any ideas?!

I'd love you forever if you didn't refer to the bdsm lifestyle as "whips and chains thing". Please

But...If you do not feel as if you can talk to him about it or introduce this in your relationship, perhaps you need to take another look at your relationship and yourself. How important is this to you? Do you need it? How much do you love your bf and how much do you want to be in the relationship?

Once you can answer those truthfully to yourself, then you will know what to do.