ding, Dang, DONG - a Dildo poll

[Chicklet]

So, I'm curious.

I was looking at the pictures of some of the men's dildo preferences, and noticed that the majority of them have balls. When I buy a dildo, it never has balls attached. I even prefer ones that don't necessarily look like dicks.

Here's my question, folks: What do YOU look for in a dildo?

 

[blklthrjkt]

For me it al lhas to do with how I plan to use it. On someone else, I want a handle, for me I want a suction cup so I can stick it to the wall or a chair. Balls? interesting if it's a realistic dildo, but otherwise who cares?

 

[bi golly]

So, I'm curious.

I was looking at the pictures of some of the men's dildo preferences, and noticed that the majority of them have balls. When I buy a dildo, it never has balls attached. I even prefer ones that don't necessarily look like dicks.

Here's my question, folks: What do YOU look for in a dildo?

I have found that for anal penetration, the smoother the better. Dildos with lots of veins on the outside tend to irritate the soft and tender tissues of my anus.

 

[Bicuriousone]

Stories

I have found that for anal penetration, the smoother the better. Dildos with lots of veins on the outside tend to irritate the soft and tender tissues of my anus.

I just read all of your stories and they are really hot. The one with the couple was fantastic. I would love it if my wife would do that. To be in a threesome with her and another guy would be great. That is one of my favorite fantasies.

 

[Etoile]

I prefer non-realistic, I don't really like them to have balls. Fun colors are the best. I don't mind if it evokes a penis shape by having a head, but I generally prefer non-realistic.

 

[bi golly]

I just read all of your stories and they are really hot. The one with the couple was fantastic. I would love it if my wife would do that. To be in a threesome with her and another guy would be great. That is one of my favorite fantasies.

Thanks.

 

[etoile_filante]

For me, the feel, the texture of a "realistic dildo" is more pleasurable, but since its not real it doesn't have to have balls (unless I want something firm to grip onto...)

 

[Vail_Indigo]

I'm with the first etoile. I'm not interested in a realistic dildo. I don't find a penis to be erotic or attractive (no offense, guys).
I like things like
http://store.babeland.com/dildos-hard/transfer
but, as someone mentioned, its all about the intended use.

 

[rawkchik]

I haven't had many dildo's other the years (I don't own one now), and they've either been gifts or shared with a partner. So I don't really have a preference, don't really see the point of realistic ones though...

 

[south_florida_bicur]

depends on the use

I agree with the posts above that say "it all depends on what it is being used for".

As a male that likes anal toys, you obviously want something that has either wings or something that stops it from getting lost...lol

That being said dildos are out of the question. Dongs are nice and the balls are a nice touch but I prefer plugs for that area because they tend to be thicker then a dong and more comfortable.

Also, dongs slip out.

GF's in the past always preferred dildos. They never liked the toys to have balls.

my male 2 cents...

 

[human_male]

All the ones I've tried have had a sort of rough texture, that tends to grip if you don't use a bucket of lube. Which is bad. I'd like ones that are smooth and just slide in. One fairly big, firm one for fucking, one smaller and soft for sucking. Realistic.

Someone will tell me if I ever get too personal on here, won't you.

 

[sunandshadow]

I've seen guys write that they enjoy the sensation of their lover's balls slapping against them during sex, so maybe that's why people would prefer ones with balls. Me, I agree that the sticky ones are unpleasant without a ton of lube, I want a smooth fairly hard 'fantasy/abstract' one with beads or ridges. Some day I have to get a pyrex one. I have a stone one which is nice in summer but too freaking cold to use in winter. A water-filled one might be really neat.

 

[zekealicious]

I like long and slender..would love to try a realistic one, but havent yet acqyuired anything that fits the requirement of long and slender...usually the shaft is slender enough but then the head is too bulbous..or the head is fine but overall girth is too much...so for now I'm enjoying the not realistic...my all time favorite is called a tulip wand...yowzah!!

Really like your pictures and stories Chiklet..and the idea for this thread!

 

[Chicklet]

I really appreciate the responses to this poll. It was hard for me to decide on the options for this poll, especially since I was on my way out the door, heh.

I thought I'd come back and post a pic of my favorite toy:

http://www.bedroompleasures.co.uk/sex-toys/images/tantus_faerie_med.jpg

 

[StrapFantasy]

I find smooth and non-realistic more appealing. Those of you who said you don't find a penis erotic or arousing? I'm with you there. And, nope. I don't need a set of balls slapping me in the ass.

Chicklet, your favorite toy is just about the perfect illustration of what I'd look for in a toy.

 

[lonelyhornyboi]

My toys

My first set of toys was s blue 6 inch vibrating waterproof dildo, and a set of translucent blue 10X beads. The dildo has an interesting story behind it... but thats for later. I then got a thicker 8 inch blue dildo which is my new favorite, a slender 11 inch baby blue dildo, and a set of purple swirl 6 anal beads. I also have a very soft ribbed yellow dildo... but I dont use it that often and it isnt waterproof, so I dont count that one.

 

[Svejk]

I'm thinking of getting my first dildo soon, any recomendations?

I'm not exactly a virgin anally, having taken my fingers plenty of times a even a couple of bananas, so I'm not scared of size, and I have found an ejaculating one online for about £15, so I might go for that. If not i'm pretty sure I want a realistic style one, rather than a butt plug, because, tbh, I kinda want to suck on it too

 

[Etoile]

I'm thinking of getting my fist dildo soon, any recomendations?

I'm not exactly a virgin anally, having taken my fingers plenty of times a even a couple of bananas, so I'm not scared of size, and I have found an ejaculating one online for about £15, so I might go for that. If not i'm pretty sure I want a realistic style one, rather than a butt plug, because, tbh, I kinda want to suck on it too

I would suggest you try a regular dildo before getting a fist. It will probably be wider than you are expecting! This one is 3.5" diameter which is about 11" around.

 

[Svejk]

lol sorry I meant fiRst not fist, no, I'm definitely not ready for one of those yet

 

[Etoile]

lol sorry I meant fiRst not fist, no, I'm definitely not ready for one of those yet

ROFL! Sorry, that was my misunderstanding too! Well, maybe the link will be interesting to someone anyway.