Lady_In_Black
Really Experienced
- Joined
- May 18, 2006
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So I am getting married in around 20 days, and all is honestly well, and I am happy, just not to interested in sex with him, and here is why.
He has no fetishes. No interests, nothing that seriously makes him sit up and take notice. He's straight, he likes women, and sex, and he claims he likes everything. He's COMPLETELY open minded, will try anything I ask him about but he's almost neutral in the fact that he likes everything on the same exact horizontal line.
I try dressing up in all sorts of outfits, completely naked, completely clothed, I let him spank me and be rough and do all sorts of things, I do it all back to him, blow jobs, I've offered anal, on both ends. Plenty of vanilla sex, he doesn't seem to prefer anything!
I get off on him enjoying things, I like it when the person is enjoying them self. He always cums, is always smiling and hot and sweaty for ten minutes afterwards. He just never starts things, never asks me to do anything, or not to, I've never caught him looking at porn, he can't/wont tell me any interests he has, he doesn't seem to care about sex at all, as long as have have it at least once a week.
I am ranting cause I don't know how to explain this exactly. He just doesn't care what I do, or if I do anything at all. I can't do anything special for him, 'cause it doesn't seem to matter.
Is there something I am missing? Something else I could try? I've mentioned this to him and he just says he likes everything, in this neutral, disconnected way. Thing is, when you like everything, nothing is special or means anything. I can't get him hot and bothered at all.
What do you men, and skilled women, suggest?
He has no fetishes. No interests, nothing that seriously makes him sit up and take notice. He's straight, he likes women, and sex, and he claims he likes everything. He's COMPLETELY open minded, will try anything I ask him about but he's almost neutral in the fact that he likes everything on the same exact horizontal line.
I try dressing up in all sorts of outfits, completely naked, completely clothed, I let him spank me and be rough and do all sorts of things, I do it all back to him, blow jobs, I've offered anal, on both ends. Plenty of vanilla sex, he doesn't seem to prefer anything!
I get off on him enjoying things, I like it when the person is enjoying them self. He always cums, is always smiling and hot and sweaty for ten minutes afterwards. He just never starts things, never asks me to do anything, or not to, I've never caught him looking at porn, he can't/wont tell me any interests he has, he doesn't seem to care about sex at all, as long as have have it at least once a week.
I am ranting cause I don't know how to explain this exactly. He just doesn't care what I do, or if I do anything at all. I can't do anything special for him, 'cause it doesn't seem to matter.
Is there something I am missing? Something else I could try? I've mentioned this to him and he just says he likes everything, in this neutral, disconnected way. Thing is, when you like everything, nothing is special or means anything. I can't get him hot and bothered at all.
What do you men, and skilled women, suggest?
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