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welcome back rose. how have you been?

it's good to be back. i've been good. working alot and my stupid computer finally went, but all is well now, i should be sleeping however. i have to work in the morning, but i cannot sleep cause i'm up playing with my new computer ,trying to get all of my programs and stuff back..arrgghh
 
welcome back rose! glad you finally got a new computer. i hope you and MP are making it through this holiday season.....know that i'll be thinking about you guys!

we are making it. not alot of time to talk with both of our work schedules, but we're managing, as always ;)
 
Glad to here it rose!! hopefully after the craziness of the holiday you guys will get to spend more time on the phone together! Best wishes to both of you for the holidays!

we've been doing it for 4 years now, i know we can make it through. it's not so much the holidays, it's more that when i'm going to work He's sleeping, when i get off of work He's going to work, and when he gets off of work, i'm sleeping....*sighs* ah well, such is life i suppose
 
Holidays are suppose to be the happiest time of the year but personally imo in a ldr they make things that much harder.
 
No desire to start drama over something that is useless anyways. :)

i don't think he was trying to start drama. *shrugs* i think it was a sarcastic comment about 'the holidays are supposed to be the happiest time of the year' again if you've worked retail you would understand what he was saying. the holidays are NOT fun for those who work at places like wal-mart, target, etc...i truly believe that's what he was saying, not trying to make drama in any way ;)
 
i don't think he was trying to start drama. *shrugs* i think it was a sarcastic comment about 'the holidays are supposed to be the happiest time of the year' again if you've worked retail you would understand what he was saying. the holidays are NOT fun for those who work at places like wal-mart, target, etc...i truly believe that's what he was saying, not trying to make drama in any way ;)

I meant my reply to his comment was sarcastic, thus why I edited it.

I know what he meant Rose but it came off wrong. *shrugs* Men can be so hard to understand sometimes *tease*
 
Hi Mp and DR...
I am fully INVOLVED now in a LDR we live 2800 miles apart.. but I got an impropmtu visit yesterday into today.... saying goodbye sucks but I wouldbt change a thing except maybe to have had more time,,
 
Still in LDR here too..Just nothing to report...we talk every day on the phone and catch each other online when he isn't working...
 
Still here.. still in a LDR.. looking at February for the next physcial visit.. if he can swing the time from work.. but we talk every day, all day
 
I'm still here, too. Still in a LDR. December always seems like when we have issues to deal with. It must be because we both get so busy and there are so many demands on are time from others. I will be getting a new job early next year (hopefully) Which is good because I need to get back to work, but on the other hand it will seriously decrease how much time I will have available. But we've been together almost 3 yrs so we're get through it. We are hoping to get together sometime before spring. I'm hoping Jan. :)
 
I'm still here, too. Still in a LDR. December always seems like when we have issues to deal with. It must be because we both get so busy and there are so many demands on are time from others. I will be getting a new job early next year (hopefully) Which is good because I need to get back to work, but on the other hand it will seriously decrease how much time I will have available. But we've been together almost 3 yrs so we're get through it. We are hoping to get together sometime before spring. I'm hoping Jan. :)

How.. how do you get through it. Not that we're having issues.. I'm just curious..and sometimes I get scared.. right now, even though its been a year.. it still feels like the honeymoon phase and I just get nervous of what happens if/when it ends. I'd hate to lose my friend..

sorry.. not what you want to see in a support thread, I know.. but I just miss him..
 
i see A on friday night when im home for winter break.

im looking foward to seeing him, but know that there will be some overdue punishment from throughout the past few months
 
How.. how do you get through it. Not that we're having issues.. I'm just curious..and sometimes I get scared.. right now, even though its been a year.. it still feels like the honeymoon phase and I just get nervous of what happens if/when it ends. I'd hate to lose my friend..

sorry.. not what you want to see in a support thread, I know.. but I just miss him..

How? The issues are never about how we feel about each other, it is outside forces causing the problems. As he always tells me we are "airtight". I feel very secure and safe in my relationships, so I know we can get through anything.

I try very hard not to think of the when/if it ends. I know what you mean about not wanting to lose your friend. There are many many days that I talk to my Daddy more than my husband. Just because of the way our schedules all work out. I can't imagine not being able to share the day-to-day going ons of my life with him. He and my husband are my best friends. I intend to keep them both happy and satisfied well into old age. :)
 
I can't imagine not being able to share the day-to-day going ons of my life with him. He and my husband are my best friends. I intend to keep them both happy and satisfied well into old age. :)


you just described to a "T"... how I feel about my men...
 
Awwww Fi.. Your sir is always going to be there.. It is okay... {{{FI}}}}} and Estatic I know what you mean, my life has taken a drastic change and now I have 2 men in my life whom I adore more than life itself... You two give me hope that LDR work.. ;)
 
How.. how do you get through it. Not that we're having issues.. I'm just curious..and sometimes I get scared.. right now, even though its been a year.. it still feels like the honeymoon phase and I just get nervous of what happens if/when it ends. I'd hate to lose my friend..

sorry.. not what you want to see in a support thread, I know.. but I just miss him..

*huge hugs* Its exactly what we expect to see on a support thread and we want to know and help however we can Fi, because I am certain that at some stage we have all gone through it and no doubt will again!

Now I'm nearer to my M I have the luxury of seeing him more than I ever thought I would, but I do know how you are feeling and even now...though I'm here I feel that same 'if/when' uncertainty. Its scary eh. Perhaps it lessens with time...

Just keep doing what you are doing Fi because it works and i am certain you will have many wonderful years together :rose:
 
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