SheMales and cocksucking

[curious476]

For some time now I have had fantasies about being with an attractive shemale. It's strange for me though because although my main reason for wanting this relationship is to suck cock, but, I have no desire to suck a masculine males cock. I suppose at some point if I don't meet a lady who has a cock I will settle for discrete encounters with a masculine male. Whta the hell is my problem?? Am I some kind of freak who is neither hetro or homo? I want, no, I need to suck cock, I need to feel a cock in my mouth and taste cum. I think I developed a taste when I was married as I loved to eat my girlfriends cremepies and on a number of occasions I sucked the cocks of her lovers. She has moved on now so I am without and companionship.
I have been with one professional shemale and it was very exciting except that she didn't seem to be all that aroused. I guess I am a little disappointed that my fantasies seem to be the kind that never really gets done. Has anyone had simular feelings like mine?

 

[FazilKotuk]

For some time now I have had fantasies about being with an attractive shemale. It's strange for me though because although my main reason for wanting this relationship is to suck cock, but, I have no desire to suck a masculine males cock. I suppose at some point if I don't meet a lady who has a cock I will settle for discrete encounters with a masculine male. Whta the hell is my problem?? Am I some kind of freak who is neither hetro or homo? I want, no, I need to suck cock, I need to feel a cock in my mouth and taste cum. I think I developed a taste when I was married as I loved to eat my girlfriends cremepies and on a number of occasions I sucked the cocks of her lovers. She has moved on now so I am without and companionship.
I have been with one professional shemale and it was very exciting except that she didn't seem to be all that aroused. I guess I am a little disappointed that my fantasies seem to be the kind that never really gets done. Has anyone had simular feelings like mine?

I like transgender women, too, but I try to avoid the term "she-males". Any transgender girl can explain that better than I can.

Wait, you were a cuckold? No wonder you're wanting to break free and find something new. Just try to be nice to transgender women and not mistreat them how your girlfriend mistreated you, okay? You know, the whole double standard and humiliation shit? And were you married, or did you have a girlfriend? Or both? Because that's nice revenge if it was both. Good penalty for the cuckolding shit.

 

[alonrev1]

simple answer to confusion

You can be with a person that looks like a female, and get them excited easily and quickly as males do. sex with a woman takes work and guessing. If your partner has the same plumbing as you, you can make it work with no problem. The female look, says your not gay

 

[Hitchiker69]

Shemales are hot!

First, I don't think that human sexuality is as simple as black and white; straight or gay. There is a range of sexual expression, and it's not un-natural to be attracted to same sex, or to feel a desire to suck cock.

I think shemales are hot! They've got it all...boobs and cocks. They are complete sexual beings!

Also the psychology of the shemale attraction is interesting. You want cock, and her/his femininity is what makes it OK. They are attracted to men, and resolve it in their minds by becoming almost female.

Unusual, yes. But what the heck. Consenting adults can enjoy each other any way they like. If shemales turn you on, go for it.

 

[Etoile]

I like transgender women, too, but I try to avoid the term "she-males". Any transgender girl can explain that better than I can.

Thanks very much - "shemale" is a porn term that makes most transwomen cringe. I am not trans myself, but it makes me cringe too...there are so many other possible terms - t-girl, transwoman, mtf, two spirit, etc - but "shemale" has always been used in the pornographic/sex work sense. You can learn more about this here.

For some time now I have had fantasies about being with an attractive shemale. It's strange for me though because although my main reason for wanting this relationship is to suck cock, but, I have no desire to suck a masculine males cock. I suppose at some point if I don't meet a lady who has a cock I will settle for discrete encounters with a masculine male. Whta the hell is my problem?? Am I some kind of freak who is neither hetro or homo? I want, no, I need to suck cock, I need to feel a cock in my mouth and taste cum. I think I developed a taste when I was married as I loved to eat my girlfriends cremepies and on a number of occasions I sucked the cocks of her lovers. She has moved on now so I am without and companionship.
I have been with one professional shemale and it was very exciting except that she didn't seem to be all that aroused. I guess I am a little disappointed that my fantasies seem to be the kind that never really gets done. Has anyone had simular feelings like mine?

You are 100% normal, I promise! Thousands (probably millions) of men feel the same way you do: they want to suck a cock, but they want there to be a woman on the other end. Some of them are satisfied with their girlfriend putting on a strap-on and sucking her cock, but some of them need the real thing. You are not a freak, you just have a fetish...it's perfectly normal! (By the way, "some kind of freak who is neither hetero or homo" is a bit harsh word to describe bisexuals, don't you think? )

 

[FazilKotuk]

Thanks very much - "shemale" is a porn term that makes most transwomen cringe. I am not trans myself, but it makes me cringe too...there are so many other possible terms - t-girl, transwoman, mtf, two spirit, etc - but "shemale" has always been used in the pornographic/sex work sense. You can learn more about this here.

Yes, it's a very unfortunate term, given that it puts too much emphasis on their erstwhile status as male. That's my understanding of their principal objection, which is understandable for those who consider themselves female. I do with that the adult film industry, whose products I mostly enjoy, could show some leadership and progress on this issue. But evidently, money still talks too much on this matter.

You are 100% normal, I promise! Thousands (probably millions) of men feel the same way you do: they want to suck a cock, but they want there to be a woman on the other end. Some of them are satisfied with their girlfriend putting on a strap-on and sucking her cock, but some of them need the real thing. You are not a freak, you just have a fetish...it's perfectly normal! (By the way, "some kind of freak who is neither hetero or homo" is a bit harsh word to describe bisexuals, don't you think? )

Indeed. Far too much emphasis is placed on "picking a team" and having "clear boundaries" between homosexuals and heterosexuals. As a bisexual male, I find this most tragic and reactionary. Not to mention insulting to me. I think that people on both sides are scared of bisexuality because it makes them wonder about fidelity issues and such. Well, while many of us are swingers (including me), many are poly, and there are bisexuals who practice the "down-low" lifestyle (which is cheating, make no mistake- gender is immaterial to the deceit involved), bisexuality is not in itself an automatic bar to exclusive arrangements to those who prefer them. There are those that I have noticed who practice serial monogamy and simply don't let the sex of their partners at the moment bother them.

I see no reason why someone being transgendered shouldn't appeal to a lot of men who are repressing their bisexuality and a bit uncomfortable with accepting the homosexual side of their psychosexual makeup. It makes a lot of sense, like you said, from the comfort angle. That doesn't necessarily mean that anyone is a "freak". Or that someone is solely interested because of the cock or the female body. That's a personal taste issue, is all.

It's just too bad that people don't get that sex with a person is fundamentally still sex with a person, whether casual or romantic, gay or straight, poly or monogamous. People are people, no matter if they are male, female, transgender, or hermaphrodite. And cheating is cheating, regardless of what kind of deceit is involved. Just my mindset about it. Labels often conceal as much as they reveal here.

 

[limplizzard]

I picked up a woman in a bar a few years back and when we got to my hotel room I found that she still had a cock. I enjoyed the experience and wouldn't mind doing it again.

 

[sarpedion]

I've never met one,but share your desire to be with one.As long as they are attractive-nothing is as big a turn off as seeing some guy trying to be femenine and not quite pulling it off.

 

[leylagirl4u]

shemales versus transgendered

First, I don't think that human sexuality is as simple as black and white; straight or gay. There is a range of sexual expression, and it's not un-natural to be attracted to same sex, or to feel a desire to suck cock.

I think shemales are hot! They've got it all...boobs and cocks. They are complete sexual beings!

Also the psychology of the shemale attraction is interesting. You want cock, and her/his femininity is what makes it OK. They are attracted to men, and resolve it in their minds by becoming almost female.

Unusual, yes. But what the heck. Consenting adults can enjoy each other any way they like. If shemales turn you on, go for it.

You make a very interesting point. The term shemale is offensive to many transgendered, including myself, mainly because it did originate in the porn industry as a sensational way of introducing transgendered. In doing this, unfortunately, they overlooked the fact that those who are transgendered are not all about sex. It is the deeper desire that they develop their bodies to reflect how they feel on the inside. I have been on hormones a few years and have developed nice breasts. The hormones, however, have all but killed my ability to achieve a true hard-on.

 

[Wolfman1982]

leylagirl4u. No worries, it also irritates me more than a hemoroid every damn time I hear that word. And it is in reality the same as calling every MtF transsexuals, hookers and that is NOT a great thing.

So I hear you on the cheek

 

[Catytheghost]

hmm

Acutaly most all of the words to describe us came form the adult film industry.Me I like shemale as it describes me perfectly then Ladyboy is a good one to Tranny has been used way to offen in the negative but its good when we use it but not when others do.Tgirl is new not sure where that got its start but is good as well .

 

[mac_46_46]

I have had fantasies about sucking shemale cock for a long time. Never had the chance yet to it, but I sure want to. A good looking shemale with nice tits and a nice hard cock, don't get no better than that.

 

[evi1monkey]

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[DarkBee]

A transgender girl is appealing as she has to offer "the best of both worlds". A female form (curves, breasts, etc) - with a secret surprise. It is little wonder that these special girls are the object of lust and many a fantasy.

Definately! My best rated and most commented stories are about shemales.

 

[Etoile]

A transgender girl is appealing as she has to offer "the best of both worlds". A female form (curves, breasts, etc) - with a secret surprise. It is little wonder that these special girls are the object of lust and many a fantasy.

There is a thread from about 4 years ago that has my thoughts on this topic: see here

 

[Wolfman1982]

translation = there are people of the MtF transsexuals who doesn´t mind being called hungangels, shemales , chicks with dics, ladyboys and so forth. And then there are those MtF transsexuals who would fucking be at your throat. The minute you mentioned a word like that. Other than transsexual, or woman. But as I have admitted before , yes the woman with something extra is a fetish even at my mind sometimes (well I dreamt this last night, that I went down on a MtF transsexual, and sucked her to orgasm, and I swallowed everything).

But ultimately I call them women and see them that way, if they are MtF transsexuals. And men if they are FtM transsexuals and I see them that way.

 

[SEVERUSMAX]

True....of course, I'm very turned-on by them....but it's admittedly more ass than cock. But I don't forget that they're people. Just very sensual and alluring people.

 

[Tymeless]

well everyone did the informing of the offensiveness of she-male for me so i'll just see where this thread goes. I am a person and while i have sexual desires and all that it isn't what drives me to make my decisions since i prefer women if that was my true desire i wouldn't change because well my equipment is right to be with women but i'm a woman and want to present myself as such.

 

[vividimaginings]

well everyone did the informing of the offensiveness of she-male for me so i'll just see where this thread goes. I am a person and while i have sexual desires and all that it isn't what drives me to make my decisions since i prefer women if that was my true desire i wouldn't change because well my equipment is right to be with women but i'm a woman and want to present myself as such.

Good for you Tymeless, I admit I always thought transgender girl was only attracted to males. I learn something new every day.

 

[gagginforit]

I too am stuck in between. I'm really, really attracted to women, and just long for a relationship. But I only get really sexually excited by the thought of getting it from nice big dicks. Don't know why that is as I'm not really attracted to men, although some types I do quite like and might do something if I met the right person.

It all makes me very confused and sad.

And yep I'd love the idea of a transgender girl too. Or a woman with a strap on. All sounds lovely.

 

[Tymeless]

Good for you Tymeless, I admit I always thought transgender girl was only attracted to males. I learn something new every day.

thanks! no transgenders sexual orientation usually doesn't change from hormones or anything else.

 

[BetterTogether]

What would i be called?

If it had to be stereotypical terminology, how would I be labeled?

I mean no offense to anyone. I am merely being honest.

I am a (straight?) white male who has never been with another man, strictly females (typically african american); however, I have a fantasy (please dont laugh) of merely grinding and kissing an african american tgirl. I dont picture it as boring. Im speaking of passion and romance and, yes, sexual release. Of course, as passions heat up I would most likely allow myself to be unselfish and please her as she wishes. This confuses me. In a sense, i feel as if this would be an insult to the everyday tgirl due to the fantasies that the not so nice porn tgals, escorts, etc. portray.

Is it wrong to be with someone simply to fulfill a fantasy? Am I no longer "straight"?

Once again, i am NOT trying to offend. I would never trivialize an entire sex or consider one above another. This is simply a fantasy that popped out of nowhere, similar to everyday fantasies about a french maid, a secretary or whatever pops into peoples desires.

Holy cow i wrote alot. Sorry, Im new.

Take care!

 

[Tymeless]

If it had to be stereotypical terminology, how would I be labeled?

I mean no offense to anyone. I am merely being honest.

I am a (straight?) white male who has never been with another man, strictly females (typically african american); however, I have a fantasy (please dont laugh) of merely grinding and kissing an african american tgirl. I dont picture it as boring. Im speaking of passion and romance and, yes, sexual release. Of course, as passions heat up I would most likely allow myself to be unselfish and please her as she wishes. This confuses me. In a sense, i feel as if this would be an insult to the everyday tgirl due to the fantasies that the not so nice porn tgals, escorts, etc. portray.

Is it wrong to be with someone simply to fulfill a fantasy? Am I no longer "straight"?

Once again, i am NOT trying to offend. I would never trivialize an entire sex or consider one above another. This is simply a fantasy that popped out of nowhere, similar to everyday fantasies about a french maid, a secretary or whatever pops into peoples desires.

Holy cow i wrote alot. Sorry, Im new.

Take care!

No its not wrong as long as you respect her and she understands thats what she is doing. Don't lead her one. One night flings aren't wrong if both parties agree to it.

 

[noisymother]

Indeed. Far too much emphasis is placed on "picking a team" and having "clear boundaries" between homosexuals and heterosexuals. As a bisexual male, I find this most tragic and reactionary. Not to mention insulting to me. I think that people on both sides are scared of bisexuality because it makes them wonder about fidelity issues and such. Well, while many of us are swingers (including me), many are poly, and there are bisexuals who practice the "down-low" lifestyle (which is cheating, make no mistake- gender is immaterial to the deceit involved), bisexuality is not in itself an automatic bar to exclusive arrangements to those who prefer them. There are those that I have noticed who practice serial monogamy and simply don't let the sex of their partners at the moment bother them.

I see no reason why someone being transgendered shouldn't appeal to a lot of men who are repressing their bisexuality and a bit uncomfortable with accepting the homosexual side of their psychosexual makeup. It makes a lot of sense, like you said, from the comfort angle. That doesn't necessarily mean that anyone is a "freak". Or that someone is solely interested because of the cock or the female body. That's a personal taste issue, is all.

It's just too bad that people don't get that sex with a person is fundamentally still sex with a person, whether casual or romantic, gay or straight, poly or monogamous. People are people, no matter if they are male, female, transgender, or hermaphrodite. And cheating is cheating, regardless of what kind of deceit is involved. Just my mindset about it. Labels often conceal as much as they reveal here.

Hope this is going to appear in the right place - my first ever posting in a discussion thread - but what FazilKotuk says is the most sensible thing I've read in a long time - I've been trying to say this in many different situations - this is just perfect.

 

[lindahotstuff]

I have gotten into trouble on Lit before for saying this, but here goes. Hubby and I have never livd out our fantasy to be with a shemale/transgender person, ie we both would love to be in bed with someone who looked feminine, with breasts but also had a cock. We would both love to play with him/her, satisfy him/her however s/he wants and be staisfied, a full-on orgy of sexuality. Now Im sure someone will again tell me off for this but who cares, its our fantasy, shame we dont know anyone who fits the bill.