Best Edging Techniques

[Britva415]

The reason I started this thread was to hear various techniques men and women use to Edge

Right, so, in other words, just the techniques edgers use to masturbate.

Not special techniques for accomplishing "edging" versus just achieving pleasure.

 

[Britva415]

I still don’t get it. The closer I get to orgasm, the more difficult it gets for me to hold back from cumming. Nor do I want to. How does a guy masturbate for 3-4 hours and yet hold back from cumming. I can’t do it. For me, the object of masturbation is to release my white cream and hopefully to feed someone with it. It takes me to the highest level of arousal. Holding back my sperm is not an option.

I have a different problem, which isn't about backing off from the edge, but about keeping going after I do. Doing that just ends arousal for me.

 

[Don_private]

I still don’t get it. The closer I get to orgasm, the more difficult it gets for me to hold back from cumming. Nor do I want to. How does a guy masturbate for 3-4 hours and yet hold back from cumming. I can’t do it. For me, the object of masturbation is to release my white cream and hopefully to feed someone with it. It takes me to the highest level of arousal. Holding back my sperm is not an option.

Takes awhile to master it…just exactly like fucking…I can fuck a woman for 1 1/2 hours and then orgasm…staying hard, concentrating on her, when I get close to cuming, I pull out or think about something else,…or, I can fuck a woman in 4 minutes and quickly orgasm…same EXACT principle …not sure why the concept of edging is hard to grasp …in both cases, fucking for an hour or jerking off for an hour or so…you’re still hard the whole time…you’re still turned on…and you still hold back your orgasm. Getting high before hand and watching porn does the same level of arousal…when I get too close to cuming, I switch to a different porn site tab and search a different category…that pause and search allows me to come down a little from cuming…and start again.
Clearly it sounds like some guys and women know exactly what I’m talking about and enjoy it…and some don’t.

 

[Theatreslut]

I have a different problem, which isn't about backing off from the edge, but about keeping going after I do. Doing that just ends arousal for me.

I experience that problem at times. I find it takes finding a balance. How frequently should I touch myself? How much other stimulation? What toys should I use and how?
All of those factor into a different experience

 

[Theatreslut]

Of course it is the same as ‘jacking offs’…but the primary goal of jerking off is simply to cum…the primary goal of edging is seeing how long you can pleasure yourself before cuming…WHY?…well, several reasons that I’m sure others (men and women alike) can attest to…when you’re edging…you are turned on. Men are mostly visual and women tend to like using their imagination …so men will mostly use porn and women will use erotica stories…not 100% but ‘generally’. The reason to Edge is first, you stay in a heightened sense of arousal for HOURS…second, jerking off feels great, so that great feeling lasts for hours, third, the end goal of masturbation is to cum for both men and women…100% of men and women (including myself) experience much more intense orgasms and more length of time with the orgasm. If I edge for 3-4 hours…when I finally cum, the initial orgasm lasts a good minute or more…but the after orgasm feeling has lasted for me at least, 30 to 45 minutes of a tingling throughout my whole body. HOWEVER, THAT is when I’m high on sativa smoking…when I do it without getting high, like for an hour…the orgasm sensations are great…but do not last as long, (maybe only minutes), as when I’m high and going for over 3 hours.

The reason I started this thread was to hear various techniques men and women use to Edge…and to really hear women describe their edging routines and how it makes them feel…women have one advantage that men don’t really have…they can have clitoral, vaginal, g-spot and anal orgasms…I’ve given women all 4, although anal is tougher orgasm to give to women…so their edging in many cases can simply be jerking off for hours and having multiple orgasms during that session…I know women that will play with various toys for hours, just cuming over and over. Kinda jealous they can do that…but I do enjoy my 3-4 hour edging sessions…they leave me feeling great for a long time

I don’t masterbate unless I have at least an hour, because regular masterbation means I need to have a ton of orgasms (and often still end with trying not to cum while holding my vibe against my clit). Im just not satisfied if I don’t.

The downside is there are times when I never feel satisfied no matter how many times I orgasm. That’s how I started playing around with edging. The bigger release tends to feel more satisfying though I often still need two or three. I also sometimes need to have a tiny orgasm at the beginning almost to just get my body fully started. I almost force the orgasm by tensing the right muscles, and it is a tiny orgasm that isn’t satisfying just turns up the heat a bit

 

[Don_private]

I don’t masterbate unless I have at least an hour, because regular masterbation means I need to have a ton of orgasms (and often still end with trying not to cum while holding my vibe against my clit). Im just not satisfied if I don’t.

The downside is there are times when I never feel satisfied no matter how many times I orgasm. That’s how I started playing around with edging. The bigger release tends to feel more satisfying though I often still need two or three. I also sometimes need to have a tiny orgasm at the beginning almost to just get my body fully started. I almost force the orgasm by tensing the right muscles, and it is a tiny orgasm that isn’t satisfying just turns up the heat a bit

What do you do to ‘back off’ your orgasm?…just stop what you’re doing or divert your attention?

 

[Theatreslut]

What do you do to ‘back off’ your orgasm?…just stop what you’re doing or divert your attention?

If actually edging, I stop physical contact but keep mental stimulation.
If I’m just masterbating and going for a bigger release, I do intense physical stimulation, as much mental as I can handle, and force my body not to cum

 

[Cultivateddesires]

Grinding my hard cock against a mattress while seeing boxers works for me. Usually while I write, it’s quite rough but the materials moves against material and I can go for a long time.

Never actually timed it though.

 

[bookworm69]

I edge by giving my cock/balls/nipples different stimuli from a variety of toys that I have. This edging produces a quantity of precum, which I love, and makes me want to continue ... until I "lose" it and can't edge any more.

 

[Don_private]

I edge by giving my cock/balls/nipples different stimuli from a variety of toys that I have. This edging produces a quantity of precum, which I love, and makes me want to continue ... until I "lose" it and can't edge any more.

Have you ever done it high?

 

[Don_private]

Have you ever done it high?

I edge by giving my cock/balls/nipples different stimuli from a variety of toys that I have. This edging produces a quantity of precum, which I love, and makes me want to continue ... until I "lose" it and can't edge any more.

What is the typical length of time you edge for?…for instance…I had two sessions this week…one for 3 hours and another for two hours

 

[Don_private]

I edge by giving my cock/balls/nipples different stimuli from a variety of toys that I have. This edging produces a quantity of precum, which I love, and makes me want to continue ... until I "lose" it and can't edge any more.

Do you use porn sites?…what are your two best porn sites , if you do, that you enjoy?

 

[Sgts19]

I seldom masturbate but when I do I try and do this, very hard to do..for me anyways.
I sit forward in my chair towel on the floor, naked of course. I usually listen to some audio recordings I made from the old swinging days, works for me. I get so hard I want to touch myself but hold off as long as possible which varies depending how excited I get. At some point I can't hold off anymore and cum but without touching my cock until I've blown the whole load. Sometimes it feels like my heads going explode but it's worth

 

[Don_private]

I seldom masturbate but when I do I try and do this, very hard to do..for me anyways.
I sit forward in my chair towel on the floor, naked of course. I usually listen to some audio recordings I made from the old swinging days, works for me. I get so hard I want to touch myself but hold off as long as possible which varies depending how excited I get. At some point I can't hold off anymore and cum but without touching my cock until I've blown the whole load. Sometimes it feels like my heads going explode but it's worth

You just use the audio recordings alone or do you enjoy a few porn sites as well?…ever try it while getting high?

 

[Sgts19]

My kinks center around my wife's adventures. When I do watch vids from sites I hunt for some where the woman has the same type of body as my wife getting fucked by a big cock or cocks

I do have vids we made that I get off on

 

[Don_private]

Sativa is my go to also, one edible and I'm good

I’ll have a few hours today…wife is out Christmas shopping…so, around 12:30ill take a 1/4 of one Viagra tablet…let that kick in, then get my edging area set up…paper towel to clean up my precum and cum, except the precum I just wipe off my cock and lick my fingers, Pour myself something to drink, maybe get a piece of candy or some chips to eat during…then, when I’m ready, I’ll put a pinch of sativa flower in my little pipe…going out on back deck and smoke one bowl to start my session. Next, take my sweat pants and underwear off so that I’m naked from the waist down, and get in my comfortable seat. If I had more hours, I would also get lube and my vibrating butt plug, but not for shorter sessions. Next, I pull up my three favorite porn sites and sign in so that I can access my category folders and also save clips that I enjoy. Ill usually start off with women masturbating…it is a great warm up…and then I’ll just go from site to site, watching different categories of clips while stroking my now very hard cock…so…really looking forward to that later today

 

[Crackkerjack]

I seldom masturbate but when I do I try and do this, very hard to do..for me anyways.
I sit forward in my chair towel on the floor, naked of course. I usually listen to some audio recordings I made from the old swinging days, works for me. I get so hard I want to touch myself but hold off as long as possible which varies depending how excited I get. At some point I can't hold off anymore and cum but without touching my cock until I've blown the whole load. Sometimes it feels like my heads going explode but it's worth

Sounds like fun

 

[Sgts19]

Sounds like fun

Intense when I can hold out until the little fella blows lol

 

[Theatreslut]

I’m going to try it high today

 

[Cruelsmile5]

I like varying the edge daily for a submissive with directed edging. Her body responds differently to all sorts of physical & mental stimulation, but if it’s predictable, so is how her body reacts. But if one day is a hard edge then the next is soft gentle stimulation for a time interval then stopping well short of the edge, you allow her mind to wander in all sorts of wonderful directions, and the mental build up makes the process so much more intense.

 

[Theatreslut]

Ý we

I like varying the edge daily for a submissive with directed edging. Her body responds differently to all sorts of physical & mental stimulation, but if it’s predictable, so is how her body reacts. But if one day is a hard edge then the next is soft gentle stimulation for a time interval then stopping well short of the edge, you allow her mind to wander in all sorts of wonderful directions, and the mental build up makes the process so much more intense.

i love it when my dom directs my edging

 

[Don_private]

I’m going to try it high today

Well?…did you try it?…was it Indica, Sativa or Hybrid?…did you smoke it or take a gummy?…looking to compare notes

 

[Don_private]

Intense when I can hold out until the little fella blows lol

My longest session was 5 hours…had to pee mid way, tough to pee with a hardon!

 

[Theatreslut]

Well?…did you try it?…was it Indica, Sativa or Hybrid?…did you smoke it or take a gummy?…looking to compare notes

We talked about it on DM. I took a Sativa gummy. It was just ok. I was too much in my head. So it wasn’t great. I plan to try with indica at some point but I don’t have any on hand

 

[Don_private]

We talked about it on DM. I took a Sativa gummy. It was just ok. I was too much in my head. So it wasn’t great. I plan to try with indica at some point but I don’t have any on hand

Got it…I thought this was another attempt based upon the date…but I read it wrong…my bad…if at first you don’t succeed …try again.