Masculine cocksucker problems...

[meagain23]

I only ever meet up with men to suck their cocks, and I'm often told it's really strange that an extremely masculine guy doesn't want any reciprocation. I don't see why this should be so strange.

The other thing... and my real complaint... almost all the guys I've met really get off on the idea of degrading me and making me submit... specifically because I'm masculine! I haven't sucked cock in months, because... when I meet men this is usually the kind of thing I get...

The last time, the guy told me I had to sit on my hands the whole time, pinned up against a wall, and then held my head and hate-fucked my throat hard while telling me how good it felt to make me his bitch. The only things he wanted to hear were me begging him to slam my throat or how desperate I was to for his cum... and then had me beg him to face fuck me again with his cum all over my face...

This is kind of my usual experience... I'm sucking cock while a man calls me his slut or whatever, and he forced control over the whole thing... Is this just how this goes for masculine guys who don't want reciprocation?

My problem isn't that I mind being used like this, if I did I wouldn't keep doing it! I enjoy feeling slutty and if I'm in the mood I love having a man act powerfully and use me, face fucking me and making me feel like I am a toy for his pleasure... that whole scenario is a huge turn on, but there are times... a lot of times, really... that I really want to suck cock but don't even look to meet someone because I want to slowly, sensually taste and tease a nice cock...

I'd suck cock A LOT more if I could find men that want me to really enjoy sucking their cock and would just lean back and let me act like the slut they love to tell me I am!!

One time... just once, I hooked up with a guy who wanted to relax and let me make out with his cock... it was so sexy and slutty and... I talked dirty and moaned and... it was the sloppiest and wettest blowjob I can imagine, and... I've never had such an amazing, intense sexual experience!!

It's also the only time I've ever even thought of giving in and putting the possibility of more than a blowjob out there. My ass is always strictly off limits and I made it clear to this guy beforehand when he asked (and he was fine with that), but... I got so turned on and felt so sexy and slutty devouring his dick that I asked if he still wanted my ass. When he said yes, I begged him to fuck me... he started fingering me and my moaning with him in my mouth pushed him over, so it didn't happen, but... that's how amazing being able to really enjoy sucking cock was!! It was so good, so sexy, so slutty... for the only time, I wasn't just willing to let a man fuck my ass for the first time, but I was literally desperate for it and begging him to fuck me bare and breed me!!! I felt so sexy and slutty I wanted him to fuck me like a real slut!!!

Why does being masculine mean I'm not allowed to moan and tease and be sexy while I swallow??? I want so, so badly to have another experience that sexy!! Why can't I find men who want me to really treat their cocks right??

Id love to sit back and enjoy what you were doing . had many hot bjs that way

 

[meagain23]

I'm not masculine at all, and I make it very clear that I don't want any reciprocation but some guys still try. Some have even gotten pushy. They cannot understand that for some of us, reciprocation is a total turn off.

i was surprised the first few times but have always been good with just receiving .

 

[Jeph77]

i was surprised the first few times but have always been good with just receiving .

If he's just doing a kindness, no thanks. Maybe next time.

 

[ZacharyFagg]

i was surprised the first few times but have always been good with just receiving .

That's what I love. Just sit back, and let me please you. While I suck you, my own dick will be dripping because I am so turned on. But I don't want reciprocation. I just want to edge it a little while I please my man. Make me goon out while I suck your dick.

 

[sandybrooke]

I jerkoff often while sucking cock.

 

[JiminNC]

Or they are giving us submissive types exactly what we want. For me that is affirming, fun and friendly, and I enjoy it very much.
Most dominant types aren't really assholes at all.

It's the dominance we seek after all, isn't it?

 

[Uncut1969]

Would love to be a cock sucker for a dom man and call me his cock sucker and
Use me

 

[ZacharyFagg]

It's the dominance we seek after all, isn't it?

It is. There's just something so hot about a "selfish" guy who doesn't return the favor.

I also just don't enjoy being sucked by masculine men that much, and I definitely don't want to cum. I prefer to edge myself a little, and tease it. It feels amazing while I'm sucking a nice dick.

 

[Jeph77]

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It is. There's just something so hot about a "selfish" guy who doesn't return the favor.

I also just don't enjoy being sucked by masculine men that much, and I definitely don't want to cum. I prefer to edge myself a little, and tease it. It feels amazing while I'm sucking a nice dick.

t's the implied dominance, actual rough handling not necessary, that's so fucking hot. The ritual assertion of status, such a blissful cascade.

 

[guns4444]

Im very masculine, sucked 2 cocks and found myself wishing they would talk down to me..

 

[Jeph77]

Im very masculine, sucked 2 cocks and found myself wishing they would talk down to me..

It makes your predicament resonate and hit home, some gruff stranger putting you in your place while you hoover his junk.

 

[Himileage]

Im very masculine, sucked 2 cocks and found myself wishing they would talk down to me..

I can identify with this thought

 

[ZacharyFagg]

I haven't read the whole thread but my guess is that men who want their cocks sucked but also want to call you a faggot bitch or similar degrading terms or actions are just expressing barely repressed homophobia.

I mean they might just be assholes who'd treat women exactly the same. I steer well clear of their sort anyway. While I know some have a degradation kink and that's fine for them, I really fucking don't. Sex for me is meant to be affirming, fun and friendly.

It's so strange that anyone would think that someone who engages in this is "expressing barely repressed homophobia."

Lots of out and proud gay men will call a willing submissive all kinds of terrible things, because that's what the submissive wants them to do.
It's no different than a woman who likes for their normally gentle lover to treat them like a nasty whore in bed.

 

[Rodlicker57]

Problem? There’s no problem. I would love a big strong masculine man sucking my cock! Or you would love this big strong masculine man sucking yours!
Either way a masculine guy who sucks cock is a real turn on for me.

 

[Britva415]

Lots of out and proud gay men will call a willing submissive all kinds of terrible things, because that's what the submissive wants them to do.

This isn't about that, though. This is about when the fellator isn't a sub and doesn't want this, and some cunt does it anyway - without even having the class to make sure they're both on the same page.

 

[intrepidgoodtime]

That's what I love. Just sit back, and let me please you. While I suck you, my own dick will be dripping because I am so turned on. But I don't want reciprocation. I just want to edge it a little while I please my man. Make me goon out while I suck your dick.

Well hello…

 

[ZacharyFagg]

Well hello…

Hi!

 

[Larryvant]

I think it's a (slightly misogynistic) myth. I'm in my seventies. I've had a lot of sex in those years. But I've always found it near-impossible to cum from oral sex. I have, though, three times— and two out of those three were with women.

I think there are men who could make you cum from oral sex.

 

[RobLivesInTexas]

I think there are men who could make you cum from oral sex.

Even if a man probably won't cum from oral sex, I enjoy the challenge. At the very least, I'm having a good time, and he is feeling good. The few times I've encountered this, it has been because the man struggles with ED. Sometimes I've been successful at getting him hard, even if he doesn't orgasm. Occasionally, he's had to masturbate himself to the point of orgasm. Then I swoop down and get his load.

 

[Terrylipstick]

I only ever meet up with men to suck their cocks, and I'm often told it's really strange that an extremely masculine guy doesn't want any reciprocation. I don't see why this should be so strange.

The other thing... and my real complaint... almost all the guys I've met really get off on the idea of degrading me and making me submit... specifically because I'm masculine! I haven't sucked cock in months, because... when I meet men this is usually the kind of thing I get...

The last time, the guy told me I had to sit on my hands the whole time, pinned up against a wall, and then held my head and hate-fucked my throat hard while telling me how good it felt to make me his bitch. The only things he wanted to hear were me begging him to slam my throat or how desperate I was to for his cum... and then had me beg him to face fuck me again with his cum all over my face...

This is kind of my usual experience... I'm sucking cock while a man calls me his slut or whatever, and he forced control over the whole thing... Is this just how this goes for masculine guys who don't want reciprocation?

My problem isn't that I mind being used like this, if I did I wouldn't keep doing it! I enjoy feeling slutty and if I'm in the mood I love having a man act powerfully and use me, face fucking me and making me feel like I am a toy for his pleasure... that whole scenario is a huge turn on, but there are times... a lot of times, really... that I really want to suck cock but don't even look to meet someone because I want to slowly, sensually taste and tease a nice cock...

I'd suck cock A LOT more if I could find men that want me to really enjoy sucking their cock and would just lean back and let me act like the slut they love to tell me I am!!

One time... just once, I hooked up with a guy who wanted to relax and let me make out with his cock... it was so sexy and slutty and... I talked dirty and moaned and... it was the sloppiest and wettest blowjob I can imagine, and... I've never had such an amazing, intense sexual experience!!

It's also the only time I've ever even thought of giving in and putting the possibility of more than a blowjob out there. My ass is always strictly off limits and I made it clear to this guy beforehand when he asked (and he was fine with that), but... I got so turned on and felt so sexy and slutty devouring his dick that I asked if he still wanted my ass. When he said yes, I begged him to fuck me... he started fingering me and my moaning with him in my mouth pushed him over, so it didn't happen, but... that's how amazing being able to really enjoy sucking cock was!! It was so good, so sexy, so slutty... for the only time, I wasn't just willing to let a man fuck my ass for the first time, but I was literally desperate for it and begging him to fuck me bare and breed me!!! I felt so sexy and slutty I wanted him to fuck me like a real slut!!!

Why does being masculine mean I'm not allowed to moan and tease and be sexy while I swallow??? I want so, so badly to have another experience that sexy!! Why can't I find men who want me to really treat their cocks right??

I’m right there with you. I’m not a top, I don’t want to be a top, I’m not looking for reciprocation, I’m just looking to give sexual gratification. When I’m sucking cock I don’t want to stop in the middle to switch, I just want you to enjoy the blowjob that I want to give you, if you want to call me names while I’m blowing you, have at it. You won’t call me something I haven’t been called before. Be forceful if that is what you want. If it’s ’too much’, I’ll let you know. When you’re done, we can discuss what comes next

 

[Oldsucker]

Interesting thread. I love sucking cock. I start by licking the balls. Love giving pleasure and feeling the cock cum in my mouth. I like to dress as a slut for suck sessions. My profile makes it clear that my cock is out of bounds. Only my tits can be touched and licked. And that I do not cum on a meet.
I’ve not had the dominance issues discussed here, but several wonderful,sexual encounters. Intense and satisfying. I’m always grateful for the privilege of sucking and swallowing, and say so. Perhaps I ve just been lucky. But I avoid pushy types. Make sure the guy I’m meeting has read and understood my profile. I think prior communication is key to a satisfactory meet.
Because I do not cum, I’m never fully satisfied! I’m always needy for my next suck. I love being a cocksucker. Sucking a needy stiff cock is amazing. On my knees, my head between his legs so I can access balls and cock.

 

[1CuriousCat]

I don't really view oral as a masculine vs. feminine thing here and I won't complain because it's fun regardless. I will say more masculine guys have given me head like they were trying to suck my soul outta me lol

edit: the feeling of my soul being sucked out is a good thing

 

[Jeph77]

Interesting thread. I love sucking cock. I start by licking the balls. Love giving pleasure and feeling the cock cum in my mouth. I like to dress as a slut for suck sessions. My profile makes it clear that my cock is out of bounds. Only my tits can be touched and licked. And that I do not cum on a meet.
I’ve not had the dominance issues discussed here, but several wonderful,sexual encounters. Intense and satisfying. I’m always grateful for the privilege of sucking and swallowing, and say so. Perhaps I ve just been lucky. But I avoid pushy types. Make sure the guy I’m meeting has read and understood my profile. I think prior communication is key to a satisfactory meet.
Because I do not cum, I’m never fully satisfied! I’m always needy for my next suck. I love being a cocksucker. Sucking a needy stiff cock is amazing. On my knees, my head between his legs so I can access balls and cock.

well stated and hot

 

[liqueur]

I think there are men who could make you cum from oral sex.

One, so far, in all these years. But to be fair— I don't receive anymore— only give.

 

[dingdongditchding]

This isn't about that, though. This is about when the fellator isn't a sub and doesn't want this, and some cunt does it anyway - without even having the class to make sure they're both on the same page.

that is why I get to know the man, first