First spanking

The little yelps and wiggling legs…I like to move my hand around to give an even red glow…
 
An older man knows to take stock
Before he knocks you round a lot:
He's resolute and rarely fickle,
Though he may tease and he may tickle
The arms I raise up in the air
As I surrender and prepare
For a result to make me melt
A first hand spank? A cane? A belt?
All increase the rough allure
To lose the innocent and pure
Unsullied bottom, derrière, behind
That's relished by the older mind.

🐳 Méli 🐳
 
My first experience with spanking and paddling was in my sorority in college. There was no sex involved, I didn't admit it, but I found that I loved receiving when I was a pledge. Later , I found that I also liked dishing it out when it was my turn as a big sister.
Sexually, it was when my boyfriend, later my husband, would slap my behind while he was fucking me. I really liked a curled up missionary missionary position with my legs and ankles high. He loved to slap my bottom hard enough to love hand prints. A few good slaps and I would cum in waves.
I love seeing hand prints when I look in the mirror
 
The first time I ever gave a spanking, it was the biggest rush I've ever had to firmly smack a bare ass, hear the moan from pain, but at the same time hear the moan for more because of how much she liked it
 
The first time I ever gave a spanking, it was the biggest rush I've ever had to firmly smack a bare ass, hear the moan from pain, but at the same time hear the moan for more because of how much she liked it
Too bad you’re a man. I’d entertain a few whacks from you. Prefer a big boobed lady. IDK. Maybe I’d like one from you…
 
The first time I ever gave a spanking, it was the biggest rush I've ever had to firmly smack a bare ass, hear the moan from pain, but at the same time hear the moan for more because of how much she liked it
Similar but from the other side of the coin. I couldn't believe how much I liked it, how the pain and heat built up and how it put me into sub space so quickly. A rush indeed.
 
Similar but from the other side of the coin. I couldn't believe how much I liked it, how the pain and heat built up and how it put me into sub space so quickly. A rush indeed.
Even before I delivered my first spank to her, her obedience at me telling her to lift up her skirt and pull down her underwear sent a jolt through me
 
Even before I delivered my first spank to her, her obedience at me telling her to lift up her skirt and pull down her underwear sent a jolt through me
It seems to me that if you are wired to be a D or an s, that initial command that elicits obedience does give you that jolt, that adrenaline hit. Receiving and obeying such commands (especially as the dynamic is getting established) creates a similar jolt on my side of the slash too. At least it does for me.
 
It seems to me that if you are wired to be a D or an s, that initial command that elicits obedience does give you that jolt, that adrenaline hit. Receiving and obeying such commands (especially as the dynamic is getting established) creates a similar jolt on my side of the slash too. At least it does for me.
I can only speak for one side of the coin here, but I think the adrenaline rush is similar based on conversations I've had.

Subspace on the other hand, that part I'm curious about
 
I can only speak for one side of the coin here, but I think the adrenaline rush is similar based on conversations I've had.

Subspace on the other hand, that part I'm curious about
I'm not sure there is a D parallel to subspace.
Do yoy find spanking sessions often elicit subspace in women you have been with? Or is that just me?
 
I'm not sure there is a D parallel to subspace.
Do yoy find spanking sessions often elicit subspace in women you have been with? Or is that just me?

I have taken a sub down into subspace from a spanking alone, but it is rare for me. Much more common is using spanking being one thing on the road to subspace. I've gotten girls to subspace with a combination of both bdsm/pain and pleasure, but the pleasure part has usually be a necessary component.

An occasion where spanking alone did it: I gave her a punishment spanking. Not a funishment one, but a good hard spanking for a mistake on her part. It was delivered with a spatula, and given to correct behavior. She willfully accepted the punishment and acknowledged her wrongdoing, but certainly did not enjoy it in the moment. However, as the spanking was ending, and she was in a good amount of pain, she had a look in her eyes of submission, desperiation, and needing mercy. That me, the only delivering the pain, was also the only one who could also end it and bring her relief. When I finished, she collapsed into my arms, totally mine. The subspace from the spanking lasted the rest of the right, and resulted in some of the best sex I've ever had (she was quite happy with it as too).
 
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