Hotwife Anklet

[TryingTooHard]

@TryingTooHard

Dude, please put your multiple links into one post. It's a violation of forum rules to do what your'e doing and it pushes the (somewhat) interesting discussion off of the first page.

OK.....dude!!

 

[wouldloveto]

Again... Consider me skeptical. In what sort of gathering would a married woman want to convey, via an anklet, her interest and immediate availability for NSA sex - and do it in such a non-selective way?

While waiting for a delayed flight this last weekend I spied an attractive women with an anklet, and prominent wedding ring. I chatted her up since we had a lot of time to kill. She seemed to be alone, so I asked if she was traveling sans husband on her journey while obviously looking at her anklet. Her knowing grin in response excited me, but her verbal response was even better. She told me she was without him on the way to her boyfriend's for the weekend. We had a lovely chat for the next hour, she was very open and frank. This caused a visible physiologic response from me which she teased me about. Teasing is as far as it went, but thank goodness for that anklet, it facilitated a fun respite from the hassles of travel for both of us.

 

[John_Q_Dough]

The necklace has a diamond heart with a h and w on either side of it and her anklet has 2 male 1 female charms on it . When someone recognizes when she is wearing it turns me on so much.

Has she been propositioned in the wild and followed through?

 

[LMWM321]

While waiting for a delayed flight this last weekend I spied an attractive women with an anklet, and prominent wedding ring. I chatted her up since we had a lot of time to kill. She seemed to be alone, so I asked if she was traveling sans husband on her journey while obviously looking at her anklet. Her knowing grin in response excited me, but her verbal response was even better. She told me she was without him on the way to her boyfriend's for the weekend. We had a lovely chat for the next hour, she was very open and frank. This caused a visible physiologic response from me which she teased me about. Teasing is as far as it went, but thank goodness for that anklet, it facilitated a fun respite from the hassles of travel for both of us.

What's your point? That attractive women with nice ankles are more likely to wear an anklet than a frumpy woman who keeps her legs covered? Yes, I agree.

But if you're suggesting that married women, including those who are non-monogamous, will wear an anklet to convey her receptiveness to sexual advances from other men is just ridiculous. It's truly a figment of a porn-addled imagination.

For fuck sake, half the women I know, including my mom and sisters-in-law, have worn an anklet at some point - before and and after marriage. And I've been to high profile Media events where many local pro athletes attend with their wives and some of the wives wore anklets. Are you suggesting that these high-profile celebrity couples are secretly advertising the wife's sexual availability to all in attendance, and doing it right in front of the press? How about actresses attending award banquets with their husbands? ..Are they publicly advertising their sexual availability despite being in long-standing relationships - and again, doing it right in front of the press?

And what you interpreted as a "knowing grin" when you looked down at her ankle could just as easily been an awkward response to you creepily staring at her feet.

 

[wouldloveto]

Wow dude, I was just relating my experience. You were not there, and while I left out details, you missed the obvious point that she was a hotwife, and liked that I knew. This was not a "figment of my imagination", the anklet was a clue that she confirmed in our conversation. I realize not all women wearing an anklet are trying to advertise 'hotwife status', but she was, and liked that I recognized it. SMFH...

 

[pixie07]

Has she been propositioned in the wild and followed through?

Unfortunately no one has ever said anything to her . You can tell by the look in there face that they know what it is but no one’s said anything

 

[LMWM321]

Wow dude, I was just relating my experience. You were not there, and while I left out details, you missed the obvious point that she was a hotwife, and liked that I knew. This was not a "figment of my imagination", the anklet was a clue that she confirmed in our conversation. I realize not all women wearing an anklet are trying to advertise 'hotwife status', but she was, and liked that I recognized it. SMFH...

I'm not disputing that was she off to visit a boyfriend. I'm disputing that people who are in ENM relationships use anklets as a way of secretly conveying to the community of horny men that their relationship status is "Hot Wife" and thus may be receptive to their advances. Please.

 

[wouldloveto]

I'm not disputing that was she off to visit a boyfriend. I'm disputing that people who are in ENM relationships use anklets as a way of secretly conveying to the community of horny men that their relationship status is "Hot Wife" and thus may be receptive to their advances. Please.

But that is EXACTLY what she was doing, and it got the reaction she wanted. Did you even read my post?

 

[LMWM321]

But that is EXACTLY what she was doing, and it got the reaction she wanted. Did you even read my post?

Yes, I've read your post...three times, in fact. All you've told us is that you met a woman at an airport who is in an ENM relationship AND, like a lot of women, wears an anklet. Oh, and that she had the good manners to smile back after you displayed the poor manners of leering at her feet then smiling at her - which is kind of a weird thing for you to do. Did her anklet have a Hot Wife charm or the Pineapple symbol? If not, then how do you know she's a Hot Wife - ie., openly dates other men even though she's married - as opposed to a woman who is married and also has a boyfriend?

Look, even if she told you that her anklet is an expression of her Hot Wifeyness, what does that prove? ..So, you met one woman who announces her open marriage to the world with an anklet, while I've known countless other women who have worn an anklet and were NOT in open relationships.

 

[wouldloveto]

You are dense, aren't you. I stated that not all anklets mean that, and yes, I recognized a couple of the charms, and she was very explicit during our convo. As I stated, I left out the details of that convo, but I am pretty sure the others that read my post understood what occurred without said details. I would not even bother responding to a post like yours, but I like to educate your type. You know, the ones that think they know it all.... bye.

 

[RTFLDGR]

I took my second wife to the Florida Keys. @ a dive shop, she found a basket of home-made anklet bracelets. I knew what that anklet meant to swingers and Bulls. She bought a cute anklet and wore it for the rest of our vacation.

She got alot of attention down at Key West. One man palmed her ass. Another man (I found out later.) drove his fingers deep into her cleft from behind. She dodged him and nothing to me until later. We were approached by a cute couple and talked-up. I think her anklet encouraged these things.

 

[LMWM321]

I took my second wife to the Florida Keys. @ a dive shop, she found a basket of home-made anklet bracelets. I knew what that anklet meant to swingers and Bulls. She bought a cute anklet and wore it for the rest of our vacation.

She got alot of attention down at Key West. One man palmed her ass. Another man (I found out later.) drove his fingers deep into her cleft from behind. She dodged him and nothing to me until later. We were approached by a cute couple and talked-up. I think her anklet encouraged these things.

So you're saying her anklet eventually led to her being sexually assaulted and you were, seemingly, okay with it?? ugh.

Thankfully, I regard your story as a (grotesque) fantasy, rather than something that actually happened.

 

[RTFLDGR]

So you're saying her anklet eventually led to her being sexually assaulted and you were, seemingly, okay with it?? ugh.

Thankfully, I regard your story as a (grotesque) fantasy, rather than something that actually happened.

sad you interpret it that way. I was not present. These were the two experiences she had in Key West @ the bar. assault? yes. Key West? not surprising. anklet the cause? no one knows. You conclude I am "okay with it"? rude. You want to be triggered. ugh.

 

[LMWM321]

sad you interpret it that way. I was not present. These were the two experiences she had in Key West @ the bar. assault? yes. Key West? not surprising. anklet the cause? no one knows. You conclude I am "okay with it"? rude. You want to be triggered. ugh.

I said "seemingly okay" with her being groped because of how you conveyed what happened. ..I am sorry for getting that wrong. Truly.

You said, "I knew what that anklet meant to swingers and Bulls. She bought a cute anklet and wore it for the rest of our vacation." What do you mean by "that anklet"? Did these anklets have "HW" lettering or have some charm on them that suggested they were more than just an anklet?? I know many women who have worn anklets and I can assure you they did NOT wear them to convey sexual availability.

 

[ClockworkFox]

Vaguely like LMWM321, I'm wondering how THE come-on anklet is supposed to be identified, short of homing in and taking a dekko at close quarters for tiny handcuffs, tiny Fuck me motifs and so on. I have also seen plenty of them, but either I never clocked it, or it was entirely innocent and just a body jewellery choice. It certainly doesn't make me think in the way an obviously pierced nipple with a little bar or whatever under a tight T-shirt would make me think, or a cat's tail swaying out of a small rear slit in a lady's skirt at Tesco's.

I don't know why I said Tesco's there. Just the eroticism of a lady swanning down the dairy aisle with an obvious butt plug adornment on view.

... Could this be the start of a trend? Is that kind of thing allowed? Check out Tesco's today!!

 

[ClockworkFox]

I said "seemingly okay" with her being groped because of how you conveyed what happened. ..I am sorry for getting that wrong. Truly.

You said, "I knew what that anklet meant to swingers and Bulls. She bought a cute anklet and wore it for the rest of our vacation." What do you mean by "that anklet"? Did these anklets have "HW" lettering or have some charm on them that suggested they were more than just an anklet?? I know many women who have worn anklets and I can assure you they did NOT wear them to convey sexual availability.

I know many women who have worn anklets and I can assure you they did NOT wear them to convey sexual availability.

How do you know that, though? Did you ask? Even women you know aren't necessarily going to tell you. You know your bank manager, don't you, but she's not necessarily going to confirm or deny it if you remark "Hey, gorgeous, that's a fine-looking anklet, eh? Looking for a rough half hour with someone?"

 

[RTFLDGR]

I know many women who have worn anklets and I can assure you they did NOT wear them to convey sexual availability.

of course. and I know many women that have no idea an anklet has been associated with hot wife or swingers activities. I know people who eat pineapple and don't know that fruit is associated with swingers. There are also Jimmy Buffet fans who do not know the parrot is associated with free love or open relationships.

By your will or theirs, you cannot dismiss the association the anklet bracelet has with hot wives or swingers anymore than you can take the rainbow away from gays. If a woman wears an ankle bracelet, there are a bunch of people who interpret that to mean she is a player.

 

[LMWM321]

Heidi Klum, Jennifer Lopez, Venesa Hudgens AND Princess Kate (!) have all worn anklets while out with their husbands! ..So I'm to understand they were signaling their sexual availability to other men?? C'mon people.

And as I mentioned earlier in the thread, some of the wives of Pro Athletes will wear anklets while out with their husbands.. You can't really believe a woman married to a wealthy, hunky, and famous Pro Athlete is interested in conveying her sexual availability to everyone who sees her ankles..

Princess Catherine wearing an anklet in Belize

 

[LMWM321]

By your will or theirs, you cannot dismiss the association the anklet bracelet has with hot wives or swingers anymore than you can take the rainbow away from gays.

Not even close to the same. Virtually EVERYONE understands the association of the Rainbow symbol and support for those who are LGBTQ. While virtually NO ONE believes a woman wears an anklet in public to signify she's sexually available to other men.

If a woman wears an ankle bracelet, there are a bunch of people who interpret that to mean she is a player.

Yes.. and we call those people porn-addled idiots.

 

[jimmyturtleman]

You are dense, aren't you. I stated that not all anklets mean that, and yes, I recognized a couple of the charms, and she was very explicit during our convo. As I stated, I left out the details of that convo, but I am pretty sure the others that read my post understood what occurred without said details. I would not even bother responding to a post like yours, but I like to educate your type. You know, the ones that think they know it all.... bye.

I am curious as to why some 'dudes,' are so hung up on their own self righteous opinions, that they have to hijack a perfectly erotic thread, and turn it into a personal soap box. I think your airport discussion with the anklet wearing lady was quite interesting. I would love for my wife to come home to tell me about how a handsome stranger chatted her up, after noticing her anklet.

 

[LMWM321]

I'm not trying to yuck peoples' yum. Saying an anklet is sexy is one thing, saying it means a woman is sexually available is wrong and it's potentially dangerous. I'm sorry so few of you see it that way.

We have guys in this thread who think when a woman wears just a plain anklet it says something about her comfort with sexual advances. It does not! These same men probably make the same presumptions about women who go braless, wear short skirts, or... have pierced nipples. Women can dress how they want and men should not read any particular meaning into it.

I have sisters-in-law, daughters and nieces who, collectively, have done all of those things and they do NOT feel it entitles strange men to hit on them or make presumptions about their sexuality.

If this stupid idea that women who wear anklets are "hot to trot" isn't quashed, it will join other stupid and unhealthy tropes that harm our culture, just like 'black guys have bigger dicks', 'all white women crave BBC', and 'a bigger dick is a better dick'. ..These are all bullshit tropes and they are all harmful. Again, sorry so few of you agree.

 

[jimmyturtleman]

I'm not trying to yuck peoples' yum. Saying an anklet is sexy is one thing, saying it means a woman is sexually available is wrong and it's potentially dangerous. I'm sorry so few of you see it that way.

We have guys in this thread who think when a woman wears just a plain anklet it says something about her comfort with sexual advances. It does not! These same men probably make the same presumptions about women who go braless, wear short skirts, or... have pierced nipples. Women can dress how they want and men should not read any particular meaning into it.

I have sisters-in-law, daughters and nieces who, collectively, have done all of those things and they do NOT feel it entitles strange men to make presumptions about their sexuality.

If this stupid idea that women who wear anklets are "hot to trot" isn't quashed, it will join other stupid and unhealthy tropes that harm our culture, just like 'black guys have bigger dicks', 'all white women crave BBC', and 'a bigger dick is a better dick'. ..These are all bullshit tropes and they are all harmful. Again, sorry so few of you agree.

Believe me, the rest of us are sorry that you have chosen to ruin a perfectly nice thread with all your wild and baseless assumptions. Too many people try to inject their narrow, and negative beliefs and assumptions on the rest of us. Try moving on to a thread better suited to yourself, "Negative, Know it Alls." BTW ... the pffft... is the sound of you being ignored.

 

[ClockworkFox]

Heidi Klum, Jennifer Lopez, Venesa Hudgens AND Princess Kate (!) have all worn anklets while out with their husbands! ..So I'm to understand they were signaling their sexual availability to other men?? C'mon people.

And as I mentioned earlier in the thread, some of the wives of Pro Athletes will wear anklets while out with their husbands.. You can't really believe a woman married to a wealthy, hunky, and famous Pro Athlete is interested in conveying her sexual availability to everyone who sees her ankles..

Princess Catherine wearing an anklet in Belize

Yes, believe it, LMWN321! I've fucked all four of them wearing an anklet, they all confirmed it with no reservations, and were pleased I'd realised the significance of it. For instance, Kate blew the Silk Cut smoke down her nostrils afterwards meaningfully and sighed:

"Bloody hell, I've been wearing this thing for months now, and got fucking nowhere. Diddly. Squat. FFS, I've even crossed my leg over my knee and toyed with the thing suggestively while sitting on a chair holding forth in a throaty voice to a group of machos all around - the entire Pontypool rugby line-up, the Clapham fire brigade, the Walthamstow Boxing Club ... and not so much as a single trouser bulge out of any of them. It's a right royal pain in the arse, believe me ... oh fuck me, is that the time, I have to get going, I'm opening a new Waitrose with William at 7 o'clock ..."

 

[MaturemanAJ]

Honestly, women might not agree but what they wear clothing wise has very little to do with fashion when it's about accentuating T&A

If a woman wants attention she knows how to get it without a sign that says I suck and fuck.
I have been out of the bar scene and dating apps were not even made yet but from what I have been told by women today is like the 60's and 70's sexual revolution. They are going from one to the next rapidly.
One divorced woman I know has had nearing 100 men in 5 years and easily could have had 6 times that if she wanted.
Now it's out of her system and she wants a relationship again

 

[policywank]

There are lots of reasons that women wear clothes or jewelry that we find attractive that have nothing to do with attracting male sexual attention. Whether it is to look "pretty" or "sexy" it usually starts with the way we see ourselves and how we want to feel about ourselves. It is not as though if men weren't looking we wouldn't care how we look.

In fact, we often choose to look good in spite of what men think or how they behave. It is not incumbent upon us to avoid looking good so as to avoid unwanted attention. Dealing with it is a fact of life sometimes, but the fault for that lays squarely with men who behave badly. It is not incumbent upon women to look disinterested or unattractive to avoid unwanted attention.

There are times that we dress to impress men. Other times our motivations are more opaque or borderline/mixed. Chances are unless we are aggressively seeking a hook-up most guys won't really know what our motivations are. Even if they think they do they often don't - just because a dude thinks a woman's attire is telegraphing interest in sex doesn't mean she feels that way. Whatever absolutes men agree upon among themselves isn't our problem. And even if we are relatively obviously looking for a hook-up it doesn't mean with any guy who approaches us.

So, in all cases if you approach a woman keep in mind that she may not be interested - whether it be in general or just in you.

In this context unwanted attention is defined by how you approach a woman and how you accept her response if she is not interested in you. We don't expect men to be mind readers, but we do expect them to be respectful in their approach and respect our response no matter what we are wearing.

Unfortunately, sometimes women who receive a lot of unwanted attention may get a bit testy at even a polite approach. That isn't fair to the next guy who comes along. But try to keep in mind how much nonsense we already have to deal with.