monique_minx
Passionate Disgrace
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That helps but I am hesitant to assume in case I'm dead wrong...I did a lot of group things back in the day too but I can safely elim a few names(To be fair, we did do a group thing)
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That helps but I am hesitant to assume in case I'm dead wrong...I did a lot of group things back in the day too but I can safely elim a few names(To be fair, we did do a group thing)
Well, I’m heading offline for the night. I thought about getting you to guess and then leave without answering.I think I know and I still don't want to say itreally gonna kick myself if my guess is wrong
Alright, here's my guess:Well, I’m heading offline for the night. I thought about getting you to guess and then leave without answering.
But I’m getting soft![]()
Sorry, I promise she's nearly done toying with me and we can get back to topic, I will totally ask another question and everythingI don’t wanna be a jerk, but this is totally off topic for the thread.
No, you don't. Torturing minx is a hallowed tradition.Can i just end the misery? Its like being forsed to watch a movie where someone told you how it ends.
This is facts. The halls of the Lounge are littered with it, time honoured and all thatNo, you don't. Torturing minx is a hallowed tradition.
Going to answer this so Glad doesn't get upset I've gone offroad with the thread...again!And sometimes it seems to just take a casual joke and you can find a partner.
Do most of you read the work of other writers here? I used to more, I need to get back into it. Never enough time lol.
The weirdest place for me is IKEA while wandering through the show room... I keep getting inspiration for writing a free-use story about a DIY club that a couple interview to join for a deep discount on IKEA furniture. The idea being that whatever they are interested in buying, they agree to be bound to and used by whomever happens to be shopping from the club.I'm gonna give you all a little brain scratcher before I go off into dream land (you're fucking welcome in advance).
We all get inspired by something that leads us to strike pay dirt in the form of a story (books and movies, fandom are all common) - where is the weirdest place you have gotten inspiration from?
Let's get freaky! Weird out, Lit.
Exactly this! When you both discuss it before hand, the odds of this happening, and one of you having to have that awkward conversation, where you never know how a person is going to react, go down. Everyone makes mistakes, but if you can minimize the chances of it happening, why not do so if it's by doing a thing that you both don't mind doing?I've found that having some sort of OOC communication also helps minimise those moments when your collaborator obviously hasn't read your last scene properly and completely contradicts an action or piece of dialogue within it.
So, for this, I've taken to just asking, even if it's the tiniest thing. Like, if my character wants to reach out and take my partner's hands. I will ask my partner behind the scenes if their character will let me take their hands before I even put the post in writing, and will only put it in the post if they'll let me. It's a small thing, but small things done in bulk can grate on a person. Where as, if I ask, the worst they can say is no, and I change the post. Either way, I'd rather ask to make sure. It goes against conventional wisdom of, "It's better to ask for forgiveness than to ask for permission.", but it's served me well so far, lol.I agree, sometimes this very much depends on the situation. If it’s a long term partner more discussing happens. I used to not be the most patient with new partners especially for godmodding in the past. Of recent I’ve been more lax with that especially if it’s discussed ahead of time or just fits the character.
How interesting. Usually I'm fine with that sort of thing and take umbrage with more serious stuff - like a co writer wrote in my character having an orgasm once and I was like 'no dude, not cool' because that's totally optional and not necessary as far as I'm concerned. But then there's things like gripping my character etc and I'm fine with it. Because they're not taking over my actions and it assumes so little, if my character isn't happy then they snatch their hand back - adds an element of emotional intensity either way too.So, for this, I've taken to just asking, even if it's the tiniest thing. Like, if my character wants to reach out and take my partner's hands. I will ask my partner behind the scenes if their character will let me take their hands before I even put the post in writing, and will only put it in the post if they'll let me. It's a small thing, but small things done in bulk can grate on a person. Where as, if I ask, the worst they can say is no, and I change the post. Either way, I'd rather ask to make sure. It goes against conventional wisdom of, "It's better to ask for forgiveness than to ask for permission.", but it's served me well so far, lol.
~LD
How interesting. Usually I'm fine with that sort of thing and take umbrage with more serious stuff - like a co writer wrote in my character having an orgasm once and I was like 'no dude, not cool' because that's totally optional and not necessary as far as I'm concerned. But then there's things like gripping my character etc and I'm fine with it. Because they're not taking over my actions and it assumes so little, if my character isn't happy then they snatch their hand back - adds an element of emotional intensity either way too.
Also, hi Lucian![]()
Good to see you!
Can definitely assume certain reactions based in realismI’m with you that small things that are reactive or somethig they’re doing to me is ok, I can’t speak for how they react but I could write that I slapped you, and I might be able to assume your eyes teared up or stumbled back, but I can’t write you picked up a chair and started swinging it at me in response.