Hotwife Anklet

this is one of my favourite threads, and I know people have mixed opinion, but I am thinking of gifting my wife an anklet for her birthday this time, a simple one but to be worn in one foot, and see what comes off it, when we go to vacation. she won't know what it means but it may test our hypotheses. ;)

Do you think it's a good idea to prompt a slew of horny men to hit on your wife without telling her first? Which is precisely what will happen if she goes out in public wearing a symbol which means she likes hooking up with strange men. You don't see the risk in this?

And because she's unaware of what the symbol means, she may be less cautious about where she goes, or who she talks to, etc.. Imagine you're not nearby when some douchebag gropes your wife, or worse, because he thought the symbol on her anklet meant she was receptive to all comers, and got angry when she declines him. Have you considered that?

My wife would be livid if I tricked her into wearing a piece of "please hit on me" jewelry. ..And our marriage would be over if it resulted in her being sexually assaulted.

wtf?
 
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this is one of my favourite threads, and I know people have mixed opinion, but I am thinking of gifting my wife an anklet for her birthday this time, a simple one but to be worn in one foot, and see what comes off it, when we go to vacation. she won't know what it means but it may test our hypotheses. ;)
Probably 15 years ago, I bought my wife a gold anklet from a friend of mine, who owns a jewelry store. I was a bit nervous, wondering what he might be thinking as he showed me several possibilities. I knew that I was thinking "Hotwife," but he never let on one way or another. She has worn that anklet every day since, and has never let on being approached by other men, , in a positive, or negative way. In fact, the only mention about it was from an older woman (neighbor) who suggested that the anklet was the sign of a "loose" woman. My wife resolved that day to never take it off.
 
This sounds like an American thing. If you're ever on holiday in England and see a woman in a pub with an anklet, DO NOT ask the guy if you can nail his wife, your dental insurance might not be valid over here 😃
It’s not an American thing, either… It’s just an idiot thing.

Only an idiot would assume that because a woman is wearing an anklet that she’s looking to fuck other guys. So stupid. And you're right, such a person had better carry around a small ziplock baggie for his teeth which will be soon be knocked out of his mouth when approaches the wrong woman.

Now this thing about having a pineapple symbol or HW on the anklet? Well… I’ll take peoples word for it that it means a woman is a hot wife - provided she knows what the symbol means.
 
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It’s not an American thing, either… It’s just an idiot thing.

Only an idiot would assume that because a woman is wearing an anklet that she’s looking to fuck other guys. So stupid. And you're right, such a person had better carry around a small ziplock baggie for his teeth which will be soon be knocked out of his mouth when approaches the wrong woman.

Now this thing about having a pineapple symbol or HW on the anklet? Well… I’ll take peoples word for it that it means a woman is a hot wife - provided she knows what the symbol means.

Even if a woman is inclined to make it know that she is sexually available it means she is open to possibilities at her discretion. It doesn't mean she has or will forfeit the right to make her own decision about who she fucks.

It is absurd that some guys think otherwise, but some are just that dumb.

Switch roles for a moment. Suppose a guy is a total man whore. Or suppose there was some kind of symbol demonstrating that he is sexually open (hardly necessary for lots of guys). Does that mean he will fuck any woman who approaches him no matter how unattractive she is to him? No, of course not.

There are lots of ways, both subtle and overt, by which we make our sexual receptivity known. No sensible or mature woman does so on the basis that she is communicating that she is stupidly indiscriminate. That is not different for a Hotwife. Our unique situation is that as married women our lack of availability is assumed. The anklet just represents a way to counter that assumption - nothing more. We still expect men to be polite, respectful, discrete, etc. Frankly, it is really more of a fetish type thing that stimulates those of us in the lifestyle than any kind of practical way of communicating sexual openness in real life.
 
Frankly, it is really more of a fetish type thing that stimulates those of us in the lifestyle than any kind of practical way of communicating sexual openness in real life.
That sums it up perfectly. As a real-world approach to finding acceptable hookups, any woman could do much better. The idea of wearing a Hot Wife Anklet, then having to constantly decline wannabe hookups before an acceptable guy steps forward seems fraught, and possibly dangerous. It's not a stretch to think that some toxic guys will think that a woman with a HW anklet will be receptive to the first guy who deduces the secret meaning of the 'HW' charm on her anklet. And may get quite angry when he's declined.

And this is why it's a patently dangerous idea for a guy to give his wife one without telling her what it means.
 
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@TryingTooHard

Dude, please put your multiple links into one post. It's a violation of forum rules to do what your'e doing and it pushes the (somewhat) interesting discussion off of the first page.
 
Even if a woman is inclined to make it know that she is sexually available it means she is open to possibilities at her discretion. It doesn't mean she has or will forfeit the right to make her own decision about who she fucks.

It is absurd that some guys think otherwise, but some are just that dumb.

Switch roles for a moment. Suppose a guy is a total man whore. Or suppose there was some kind of symbol demonstrating that he is sexually open (hardly necessary for lots of guys). Does that mean he will fuck any woman who approaches him no matter how unattractive she is to him? No, of course not.

There are lots of ways, both subtle and overt, by which we make our sexual receptivity known. No sensible or mature woman does so on the basis that she is communicating that she is stupidly indiscriminate. That is not different for a Hotwife. Our unique situation is that as married women our lack of availability is assumed. The anklet just represents a way to counter that assumption - nothing more. We still expect men to be polite, respectful, discrete, etc. Frankly, it is really more of a fetish type thing that stimulates those of us in the lifestyle than any kind of practical way of communicating sexual openness in real life.
As always, "policywank," you are the voice of reason and understanding. An anklet is only a symbol that the wearer "may" be open to a sexual advance. It is NOT a promise of sex, or even an invitation. Every woman, or man, is in charge of their own sexual destiny.
 
That sums it up perfectly. As a real-world approach to finding acceptable hookups, any woman could do much better. The idea of wearing a Hot Wife Anklet, then having to constantly decline wannabe hookups before an acceptable guy steps forward seems fraught, and possibly dangerous. It's not a stretch to think that some toxic guys will think that a woman with a HW anklet will be receptive to the first guy who deduces the secret meaning of the 'HW' charm on her anklet. And may get quite angry when he's declined.

And this is why it's a patently dangerous idea for a guy to give his wife one without telling her what it means.

I think that with a matter of this nature anything short of full, open and forthright communication is dangerous and disrespectful.

It is surprising and off-putting the degree to which men seem to approach this lifestyle on the basis of how do I "convince" her. That word suggests either getting someone to do something they don't want to do or get them to change their minds about what they want to do. That has no place here. It isn't like convincing your wife to go to the football game even though she doesn't want to. Nor is it like convincing her to try out that new Chinese restaurant.

Rather this is something very personal and potentially emotionally fraught. It is ok to express your interest in and acceptance of an alternative lifestyle. Maybe even talk further about why you find appealing - openly and honestly - but then you must leave your partner to make their own decision and respect whatever it may be.
 
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