Hotwife Anklet

[Phatfeet]

Oh, trust me... I'm NOT shaming people for it. My apologies to all if that's the impression I've given. And what you've described above is great.

Thank you for this reply because honestly, that was the impression I got, and I am glad I was wrong by way of you clarifying.

I also know what you mean though. It is a very ineffectual way to try and find participating men. Kind of like wanting an ice cream sundae and standing on a street corner waiting for an ice cream truck to stop by when going to an ice cream shop would ensure you netted the treat you were after.

But in role playing, or at least a husband and wife out in public teasing one another, an ankle bracelet can really be fun. Just wearing a simple one in making others wonder, or being really brazen and wearing one that says "slut", "hotwife", or the queen of spades as a charm dangling from it.

What I don't see is ever having any wife get a tattoo that says those things or depicts that image as feelings and lifestyles change. A temporary tattoo would be just as fun as an ankle bracelet, but nothing permanent.

Again, thanks for taking the time to clarify your position!

 

[LMWM321]

I also know what you mean though. It is a very ineffectual way to try and find participating men.

That's exactly where I was coming from... Looking at it from a practical point of view, not a judgmental one. Indeed, I'm on record here on Lit for being very supportive of ethical non-monogamy, which is really all that "hot wifing" is.

I'll try to be more self-aware going forward

 

[Phatfeet]

That's exactly where I was coming from... Looking at it from a practical point of view, not a judgmental one. Indeed, I'm on record here on Lit for being very supportive of ethical non-monogamy, which is really all that "hot wifing" is.

I'll try to be more self-aware going forward

Oh no, that was entirely on me.

 

[policywank]

I enjoy wearing the anklet, but I find that it is more about my own stimulation and that of my husband.

It is relatively rare that men actually recognize what it is and approach me because of it. And when they do they frequently have a distorted view of what it means to be a hotwife. Some misinterpret my openness to sexual non-monogamy with being non-discriminating (i.e. I will fuck anyone), which is obviously not the case.

There are times when I enjoy male attention. And the anklet can draw additional male attention in certain environments. But I don't need the anklet to attract attention and I often find that it draws the wrong kind of attention.

That said, I am used to managing those dynamics and I do enjoy the thrill of being extra naughty. I think that the sexual tension with my husband is probably the biggest part of that stimulation. Being with him while advertising (albeit something most guys don't recognize) my availability is stimulating for both of us. If I am on my own I get approached with or without it.

 

[lc69hunter]

My second wife and I were in a semi open relationship (more of a stag/vixen). She had one, and wore it when in the mood, sometimes just to see how many men or women noticed and understood the meaning. As @policywank said, sometimes it drew the attention of idiots and assholes.

She always wore it when she, or we were out of town, as there were no friends, family or co-workers around, giving us opportunity to play

 

[CuckToWife]

My wife has a collection of anklets, each showing a different 'mood' and type of charms, but all with the same intentions. Here's one example:

 

[whenagain]

I enjoy wearing the anklet, but I find that it is more about my own stimulation and that of my husband.

It is relatively rare that men actually recognize what it is and approach me because of it. And when they do they frequently have a distorted view of what it means to be a hotwife. Some misinterpret my openness to sexual non-monogamy with being non-discriminating (i.e. I will fuck anyone), which is obviously not the case.

There are times when I enjoy male attention. And the anklet can draw additional male attention in certain environments. But I don't need the anklet to attract attention and I often find that it draws the wrong kind of attention.

That said, I am used to managing those dynamics and I do enjoy the thrill of being extra naughty. I think that the sexual tension with my husband is probably the biggest part of that stimulation. Being with him while advertising (albeit something most guys don't recognize) my availability is stimulating for both of us. If I am on my own I get approached with or without it.

What sorts of things do you wear to attract attention?

 

[IARainman]

My wife has a collection of anklets, each showing a different 'mood' and type of charms, but all with the same intentions. Here's one example:

I feel inadequate to take note or respond to this one, perhaps she has one more directed at me.

 

[Crownvic]

My wife has a collection of anklets, each showing a different 'mood' and type of charms, but all with the same intentions. Here's one example:

I definitely love that anklet and hot feet too..

 

[policywank]

What sorts of things do you wear to attract attention?

I wouldn't say that I consciously choose attire to attract attention. I enjoy dressing to look good as much for myself as anything else. I am aware of the clothes that flatter my body and I lean into that in a way that indicates that awareness and I think that guys pick up on that.

It is very contextual. Women understand in any given setting or circumstance what kind of attire is appropriate and I tend to dress on the provocative end of socially acceptable in any given situation.

For instance, in an office setting a pencil skirt, blouse and pumps is pretty standard. But my skirt will come to a couple inches above the knee rather than just below it like most. I will be wearing a lace bra under the blouse, the edges of which will be visibly with a modest amount of cleavage. The pumps will be at least 3 1/2". And if I am wearing pantyhose it will be thigh high stay-ups or garters (not that that is visible). That is all approporiate to the environment, but a bit more overt than most women wear.

Demeanour also has a lot to do with how approachable men find a woman. There are a number of ways to present oneself as welcoming.

 

[w1ebony]

I wouldn't say that I consciously choose attire to attract attention. I enjoy dressing to look good as much for myself as anything else. I am aware of the clothes that flatter my body and I lean into that in a way that indicates that awareness and I think that guys pick up on that.

It is very contextual. Women understand in any given setting or circumstance what kind of attire is appropriate and I tend to dress on the provocative end of socially acceptable in any given situation.

For instance, in an office setting a pencil, skirt blouse and pumps is pretty standard. But my skirt will come to a couple inches above the knee rather than just below it like most. I will be wearing a lace bra under the blouse, the edges of which will be visibly with a modest amount of cleavage. The pumps will be at least 3 1/2". And if I am wearing pantyhose it will be thigh high stay-ups or garters (not that that is visible). That is all approporiate to the environment, but a bit more overt than most women wear.

Demeanour also has a lot to do with how approachable men find a woman. There are a number of ways to present oneself as welcoming.

Well said! Demeanor - for me (or us) is in the eyes - Anklet or not, its the mating ritual, and its obvious when the sparks fly - when I introduce the wife at a conference or other engagement, she is almost always in heels w/ anklet, and I can tell immediately if a certain "he" or she are locked onto each other, that certainly does not guarantee something will happen, but it sure is fun to watch the game! You can just tell when someone is a player.

 

[Chridi]

A few years ago, my boyfriend gave me such an anklet. He gave no explanation for it. I recognised the gender symbols, of course, but as with many terms and words related to sex and erotica, I had no clue about this one either. I remember him putting it on around my ankle himself on a trip during a beautiful post-summer period. I was used to wearing anklets from time to time so I thanked him, looked at it and said I liked it. Only afterwards he told me the details that didn't match my own idea: for me, the anklet symbolised the two men who were important in my life at that moment: my son and my boyfriend and me in the middle. So totally nothing sexual. For him: as a reminder for my first time having sex with someone other than him! He had deliberately not explained the real symbolism because he thought I was not going to dare to wear it. Since I was (and still am) married, I adjust my story if anyone asks in my home country: these are my husband, my son and me. If someone who knows about the hotwife thing, man or woman, and get this answer from me, they can think two things: "if only she knew what she's wearing!" - or they think I know but hide it for them. I am sure 99% think the first thing as I am a very serious and conservative women to most people in my home country. But honestly: at home, I rarely wear it.

Only abroad, on a trip or so, and when I'm in the mood, I would dare to take up the hotwife fact, but so far no man has responded or asked about it, even after flashing my foot in obvious ways to handsome guys. I wonder who is more disappointed: my boyfriend or me lol.

 

[CuriousJInLA]

A few years ago, my boyfriend gave me such an anklet. He gave no explanation for it. I recognised the gender symbols, of course, but as with many terms and words related to sex and erotica, I had no clue about this one either. I remember him putting it on around my ankle himself on a trip during a beautiful post-summer period. I was used to wearing anklets from time to time so I thanked him, looked at it and said I liked it. Only afterwards he told me the details that didn't match my own idea: for me, the anklet symbolised the two men who were important in my life at that moment: my son and my boyfriend and me in the middle. So totally nothing sexual. For him: as a reminder for my first time having sex with someone other than him! He had deliberately not explained the real symbolism because he thought I was not going to dare to wear it. Since I was (and still am) married, I adjust my story if anyone asks in my home country: these are my husband, my son and me. If someone who knows about the hotwife thing, man or woman, and get this answer from me, they can think two things: "if only she knew what she's wearing!" - or they think I know but hide it for them. I am sure 99% think the first thing as I am a very serious and conservative women to most people in my home country. But honestly: at home, I rarely wear it.

Only abroad, on a trip or so, and when I'm in the mood, I would dare to take up the hotwife fact, but so far no man has responded or asked about it, even after flashing my foot in obvious ways to handsome guys. I wonder who is more disappointed: my boyfriend or me lol.

I actually never knew about the anklet until this thread, so I’ll be the guy looking at ankles from now on

 

[w1ebony]

A few years ago, my boyfriend gave me such an anklet. He gave no explanation for it. I recognised the gender symbols, of course, but as with many terms and words related to sex and erotica, I had no clue about this one either. I remember him putting it on around my ankle himself on a trip during a beautiful post-summer period. I was used to wearing anklets from time to time so I thanked him, looked at it and said I liked it. Only afterwards he told me the details that didn't match my own idea: for me, the anklet symbolised the two men who were important in my life at that moment: my son and my boyfriend and me in the middle. So totally nothing sexual. For him: as a reminder for my first time having sex with someone other than him! He had deliberately not explained the real symbolism because he thought I was not going to dare to wear it. Since I was (and still am) married, I adjust my story if anyone asks in my home country: these are my husband, my son and me. If someone who knows about the hotwife thing, man or woman, and get this answer from me, they can think two things: "if only she knew what she's wearing!" - or they think I know but hide it for them. I am sure 99% think the first thing as I am a very serious and conservative women to most people in my home country. But honestly: at home, I rarely wear it.

Only abroad, on a trip or so, and when I'm in the mood, I would dare to take up the hotwife fact, but so far no man has responded or asked about it, even after flashing my foot in obvious ways to handsome guys. I wonder who is more disappointed: my boyfriend or me lol.

OMG! this is too funny b/c thats exactly what I did with the wife (she is foreign born) and did not tell her the significance of it until an Italian gentleman complimenter her on it - I pulled her aside and told her he was interested in her and I loved the look on her face! We had encounters previously so the scene wasn't a complete shock, but she was not aware she was advertising now. And same here, she only does it on out of town or overseas trips
Cheers

 

[Chridi]

OMG! this is too funny b/c thats exactly what I did with the wife (she is foreign born) and did not tell her the significance of it until an Italian gentleman complimenter her on it - I pulled her aside and told her he was interested in her and I loved the look on her face! We had encounters previously so the scene wasn't a complete shock, but she was not aware she was advertising now. And same here, she only does it on out of town or overseas trips
Cheers

Lucky to see I was not the only one fooled! And "advertising": a word that I did not expect here but quite right!

 

[LMWM321]

I enjoy wearing the anklet, but I find that it is more about my own stimulation and that of my husband.

PW, does your anklet spell out Hotwife? ...Or has a symbol that indicates you are a Hotwife?

 

[policywank]

PW, does your anklet spell out Hotwife? ...Or has a symbol that indicates you are a Hotwife?

I have a few. One has the Hotwife symbol as a link in the chain, another has HW and another has multiple female gender symbols and one male gender symbol. The only one that I have that spells Hotwife is a leather one that fits snug like a choker and the spelling is embroidered into it. The thread contrast is subtle and the letters are small so you'd need to be close to it to make out what it reads.

That makes it sound like I am more into this than I really am. My husband bought them all. he loves buying me naughty things and gets a little carried away sometimes.

 

[OldGoodPup]

I vividly remember the first time I sucked my Miss's lover's cock. As he slid deep into me, she handed me the anklet I had purchased for her. As he spurted into me, I closed the anklet around her ankle for the first time. Of course, that is the thought she wants in my head every time I see that anklet.

 

[Artfan2]

A few years ago, my boyfriend gave me such an anklet. He gave no explanation for it. I recognised the gender symbols, of course, but as with many terms and words related to sex and erotica, I had no clue about this one either. I remember him putting it on around my ankle himself on a trip during a beautiful post-summer period. I was used to wearing anklets from time to time so I thanked him, looked at it and said I liked it. Only afterwards he told me the details that didn't match my own idea: for me, the anklet symbolised the two men who were important in my life at that moment: my son and my boyfriend and me in the middle. So totally nothing sexual. For him: as a reminder for my first time having sex with someone other than him! He had deliberately not explained the real symbolism because he thought I was not going to dare to wear it. Since I was (and still am) married, I adjust my story if anyone asks in my home country: these are my husband, my son and me. If someone who knows about the hotwife thing, man or woman, and get this answer from me, they can think two things: "if only she knew what she's wearing!" - or they think I know but hide it for them. I am sure 99% think the first thing as I am a very serious and conservative women to most people in my home country. But honestly: at home, I rarely wear it.

Only abroad, on a trip or so, and when I'm in the mood, I would dare to take up the hotwife fact, but so far no man has responded or asked about it, even after flashing my foot in obvious ways to handsome guys. I wonder who is more disappointed: my boyfriend or me lol.

Did this anklet actually have two male gender symbols with a female gender symbol between them? If it did, I'm sure that a lot of people who saw it would wonder if it expressed your love of MFM. They might not be bold enough to ask about it, but I would think that some of them would look at it and then look at your face to see if you had caught them looking and if you were smiling back at them.

 

[Chridi]

Did this anklet actually have two male gender symbols with a female gender symbol between them? If it did, I'm sure that a lot of people who saw it would wonder if it expressed your love of MFM. They might not be bold enough to ask about it, but I would think that some of them would look at it and then look at your face to see if you had caught them looking and if you were smiling back at them.

The anklet is 100% as you discribed! Maybe it's me not giving enough attention to men around me but I still need to have that first encounter of "mutual understanding" lol. As I said before, now only wearing on holidays and weekends away and now fully aware of the meaning, I will check on smiling male faces a bit more! I will keep you posted on eventual results lol.

 

[Japansurfer]

A few years ago, my boyfriend gave me such an anklet. He gave no explanation for it. I recognised the gender symbols, of course, but as with many terms and words related to sex and erotica, I had no clue about this one either. I remember him putting it on around my ankle himself on a trip during a beautiful post-summer period. I was used to wearing anklets from time to time so I thanked him, looked at it and said I liked it. Only afterwards he told me the details that didn't match my own idea: for me, the anklet symbolised the two men who were important in my life at that moment: my son and my boyfriend and me in the middle. So totally nothing sexual. For him: as a reminder for my first time having sex with someone other than him! He had deliberately not explained the real symbolism because he thought I was not going to dare to wear it. Since I was (and still am) married, I adjust my story if anyone asks in my home country: these are my husband, my son and me. If someone who knows about the hotwife thing, man or woman, and get this answer from me, they can think two things: "if only she knew what she's wearing!" - or they think I know but hide it for them. I am sure 99% think the first thing as I am a very serious and conservative women to most people in my home country. But honestly: at home, I rarely wear it.

Only abroad, on a trip or so, and when I'm in the mood, I would dare to take up the hotwife fact, but so far no man has responded or asked about it, even after flashing my foot in obvious ways to handsome guys. I wonder who is more disappointed: my boyfriend or me lol.

I’m now watching for this in any hotel I go to. I never knew this was a thing so thanks for the learning!

 

[w1ebony]

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[amigayorbi]

this is one of my favourite threads, and I know people have mixed opinion, but I am thinking of gifting my wife an anklet for her birthday this time, a simple one but to be worn in one foot, and see what comes off it, when we go to vacation. she won't know what it means but it may test our hypotheses.

 

[amigayorbi]

this is one of my favourite threads, and I know people have mixed opinion, but I am thinking of gifting my wife an anklet for her birthday this time, a simple one but to be worn in one foot, and see what comes off it, when we go to vacation. she won't know what it means but it may test our hypotheses.

ideas and suggestions are welcome, esp on design

 

[Swingingbimn71]

My wifes hers all of the time. On her ankle that also has a tattoo of the number 3
Looks so sexy