There are some big-donged dudes who would readily step up and show you the who's and what's, Let the service begin.I've always known that I wasn't BIG of course, but it was only recenlty that I realized how truly small I am when soft. Cock size never really mattered to me until a couple years ago. I was chatting with someone, and saw one of his pictures. He was noticably larger than me and for the first time that made me feel (more) submissive.
I'm not sure why it took so long for me to feel that way, but now it's pretty common that when I see someone bigger I feel submissive.