Wife seduction

If it's what you want, tell her outright the next time you are getting intimate, during foreplay, "I notice that you notice other men, if you want I would not object to it on some terms."
Then let her sit with that, see how she responds.
 
Hi all,
I noticed my wife (42 yo) checks out some guys over oast few months. initiall i took it as a normal habit. but then I noticed ahe plays with her hair and sometimes move her legs and feet alot while looking .
I am not sure what is in her head.
now I have fantacies of her being seduced and had pleasure. please I need realistic advice.DM me
Have you ever had any kind of open relationship conversation? Maybe going to a swinging club?

What did she think of it?
 
Have you ever had any kind of open relationship conversation? Maybe going to a swinging club?

What did she think of it?
I have not talked to her about that yet. but i am thinking to watch some documentary about staff like that and have a good mature discussion see whats her opinion.
 
Women love male attention. If guys are checking her out, she's going to react. Doesn't mean she wants to take it any further. Start asking questions and you'll more than likely be going down a path you don't want. If you're going to ask anything just ask if she has any fantasies that she's never played out.
 
Update 8th of October:
Last night we were making love. while sucking on her and she holding my cock, she told me how hard it was.
I told her HE is very hard because HE wants you ( referring to my cock)
then I asked her, do you want HIM inside you... she moaned and said Yes I want HIM deep...
I looked to her but her eyes were close.
for me, it felt like she was thinking of someone and wants him inside her... i got so hard.
 
Women love male attention. If guys are checking her out, she's going to react. Doesn't mean she wants to take it any further. Start asking questions and you'll more than likely be going down a path you don't want. If you're going to ask anything just ask if she has any fantasies that she's never played out.
I agree with you and i feel I am drowning in the sea of emotions already.
 
If you're getting off on the idea, just leave it at that. Talk to her about both of your fantasies. Ensure you explain that they can always remain fantasies, but that you love hearing about her desires.
I know it sound so easy . but when it comes to reality i checken out and do not find the courage to ask directly.
It is turning me on so much. but i dont want her to think I am a perv or something like that.
I know i sound a bit odd, but thats because i know her well.
 
Hi all,
I noticed my wife (42 yo) checks out some guys over oast few months. initiall i took it as a normal habit. but then I noticed ahe plays with her hair and sometimes move her legs and feet alot while looking .
I am not sure what is in her head.
now I have thoughts of her being seduced and had pleasure. please I need realistic advice.

Update 8th of October:
Last night we were making love. while sucking on her and she holding my cock, she told me how hard it was.
I told her HE is very hard because HE wants you ( referring to my cock)
then I asked her, do you want HIM inside you... she moaned and said Yes I want HIM deep...
I looked to her but her eyes were close.
for me, it felt like she was thinking of someone and wants him inside her... i got so hard.
I love her hair play and foot play, gets my motor started 😈😜
 
Hi all,
I noticed my wife (42 yo) checks out some guys over oast few months. initiall i took it as a normal habit. but then I noticed ahe plays with her hair and sometimes move her legs and feet alot while looking .
I am not sure what is in her head.
now I have thoughts of her being seduced and had pleasure. please I need realistic advice.

Update 8th of October:
Last night we were making love. while sucking on her and she holding my cock, she told me how hard it was.
I told her HE is very hard because HE wants you ( referring to my cock)
then I asked her, do you want HIM inside you... she moaned and said Yes I want HIM deep...
I looked to her but her eyes were close.
for me, it felt like she was thinking of someone and wants him inside her... i got so hard.
Role play is a great way to move forward. The human brain is your/her greatest sex organ. Fantasy play is a great stimulus. Role play is a great way to really get to know each other. It's a form of permission without actual permission. She'll give you subtle hints that she's on board.

Your marriage needs to be on solid ground. You really need to understand yourself first!! If you have a jealous streak *IT WILL FAIL*, could possibly ruin your marriage. You're playing with some very powerful emotions.

Watching another man ravage your wife's body and her response to it can be the most erotic experience you'll ever experience in your lifetime together. If you make it about her pleasure she'll reward you back exponentially. Our sexual escapades strengthened our marriage. You both have to separate making love and enjoying pure animalistic sex.
 
So is rapidly spreading and closing her legs.
I love her hair play and foot play, gets my motor started 😈😜

So is rapidly spreading and closing her legs.
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Role play is a great way to move forward. The human brain is your/her greatest sex organ. Fantasy play is a great stimulus. Role play is a great way to really get to know each other. It's a form of permission without actual permission. She'll give you subtle hints that she's on board.

Your marriage needs to be on solid ground. You really need to understand yourself first!! If you have a jealous streak *IT WILL FAIL*, could possibly ruin your marriage. You're playing with some very powerful emotions.

Watching another man ravage your wife's body and her response to it can be the most erotic experience you'll ever experience in your lifetime together. If you make it about her pleasure she'll reward you back exponentially. Our sexual escapades strengthened our marriage. You both have to separate making love and enjoying pure animalistic sex.
Thank you very much.
I agree with you, I need to be more open minded about Roleplaying.
I will start to introduce it to our bedroom nights more and more.
 
Usually, playing with hair and crossing and uncrossing legs or moving the legs toward the guy means she likes him or finds him attractive and she is flirting. If her body language is more open then she definitely is attracted to a guy.
Try getting her to engage in fantasy and find out what she wants to fantasize about or even suggest to her to fantasize about other guys. Roleplaying is another way.
 
Usually, playing with hair and crossing and uncrossing legs or moving the legs toward the guy means she likes him or finds him attractive and she is flirting. If her body language is more open then she definitely is attracted to a guy.
Try getting her to engage in fantasy and find out what she wants to fantasize about or even suggest to her to fantasize about other guys. Roleplaying is another way.
Thank you. yes after reading many reply, I agree the eoleplaying is tge way forward.
 
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Thank you very much.
I agree with you, I need to be more open minded about Roleplaying.
I will start to introduce it to our bedroom nights more and more.
As role playing progresses and you develop a series of fantasies you both find sexually stimulating then do things that will move you in that direction.

Try taking her to the place you noticed her behavior. If it's a dinner date or a bar scene ask her to wear a semi provocative sexy outfit ( not slutty) but a nice skirt and top that show off her assets. NO PANTIES!!. LOL Compliment her, tell her she'll have every man in the place drooling. When you're at your favorite destination drop the bomb! Give her the green light to show it off. Tell her you want for her to totally enjoy herself and help make her fantasy come true. Only if you're both ready! Don't force it.
 
As role playing progresses and you develop a series of fantasies you both find sexually stimulating then do things that will move you in that direction.

Try taking her to the place you noticed her behavior. If it's a dinner date or a bar scene ask her to wear a semi provocative sexy outfit ( not slutty) but a nice skirt and top that show off her assets. NO PANTIES!!. LOL Compliment her, tell her she'll have every man in the place drooling. When you're at your favorite destination drop the bomb! Give her the green light to show it off. Tell her you want for her to totally enjoy herself and help make her fantasy come true. Only if you're both ready! Don't force it.
I love your idea. I will for sure. yes it need to be baby steps .. but no rush.
 
I love your idea. I will for sure. yes it need to be baby steps .. but no rush.
Once she's secure within your relationship go ahead and egg her on!. Tell her you can't wait to watch her get the stuffing fucked out of her. It may not happen on the first night out, but her knowing she has a green light I can almost guarantee your next intimate night alone with her will be really hot. She will be doing a lot of thinking. The next time you're at your favorite watering hole, she sitting on a bar stool crossing and uncrossing her legs while some guy shows interest in her will suddenly be real. Your wife knowing she can take it to the next level with you right there may have her cumming on her bar stool. LOL
 
Once she's secure within your relationship go ahead and egg her on!. Tell her you can't wait to watch her get the stuffing fucked out of her. It may not happen on the first night out, but her knowing she has a green light I can almost guarantee your next intimate night alone with her will be really hot. She will be doing a lot of thinking. The next time you're at your favorite watering hole, she sitting on a bar stool crossing and uncrossing her legs while some guy shows interest in her will suddenly be real. Your wife knowing she can take it to the next level with you right there may have her cumming on her bar stool. LOL
I am looking forward for this day to come. when she is in the mood she can be really good. Thank you very much and I keep in touch
 
Update 9th October:
After all the discussion here and on chat, I decided to bring some Roleplay to our bedroom.
Last night, while we were making love, she was riding my hard ck, I was holding her ass and I told her:" oh baby I wish i had more hands to play with your clit and nipples at the same time".
she smiles and nod.
Then immediately I told her:" maybe we need to bring someone to help with that ."
She moaned so loud and increased her bounce up and down on top of me.

any further advice appreciated
I will keep in touch
 
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