Question about MFM menage

[ChloeTzang]

but pee play can be fun...

LOL for those who enjoy it. Not my cup of tea, so to speak.

 

[Statius]

LOL. I write erotica, not realism. In my universe, condoms are never used, STD's do not exist, pregnancy only happens when I demand it for the story, enema's are never used, bacterial infections do not exist and nobody ever poops or pees.

Hmmmm almost! I'm pretty sure I've had characters use the bathroom. Just no deets, ha!

 

[dirk2024]

Hmmmm almost! I'm pretty sure I've had characters use the bathroom. Just no deets, ha!

Well sure, everyone needs to shave.

 

[Statius]

Well sure, everyone needs to shave.

Yeah that's it. Shaving. Pubes are bad. Blah

 

[DeMont]

In Coleoidphila the spaceship bunks are equipped with colonic irrigation machines, whose action is described.

Later in the story, the space alien has the ability to remotely clean human guts.

From my - non-SciFi WIP:

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Samuel had maintained his poise throughout, but now he just stared at me slack-jawed. I couldn’t help but giggle at his shocked expression, feeling a little better myself in the process.

“You mean…?” he finally said, a little hoarsely.

“I mean you stick your cock up my ass,” I interjected, “it’s not a complicated concept.” Having said it out loud, my anxiety reduced a little.

“I… um… well… have you, like, done this… um… before?” he stuttered.

“Yeah, once or twice, it’s fun,” I replied. “I assume that…?”

He shook his head.

“But you’ve had sex?”

This time a nod, then he blurted out, “Is this some kind of virginity thing?”

That made me laugh, “The poophole loophole? Nah! And that ship has definitely left. Actually it’s probably circumnavigated the globe at least twice.”

His eyes widened even further, but he went on. “But… don't we need, like, lube…?”

I was beginning to enjoy myself again. I rummaged in my bag and held up a black, plastic bottle. Quite a large black, plastic bottle. “Always have some on me.”

“At your parents’ house?” he asked, incredulously.

“Uh-huh,” I smiled. “Though not for use there, that’s one thing I won’t do.”

“One thing…” he echoed weakly. Suddenly another thought occurred to him. “And isn’t it… messy?”

“Not if I clean myself properly,” I smiled. “I did before you turned up. And…?”

“And…?”

I rummaged some more and found a rubber bulb with a thin plastic nozzle. Holding it up, I said, “If you are interested, I could, well, sluice a bit more. Are you interested?”

Samuel nodded, but seemed mesmerized still.

@EmilyMiller, et al...
If I may;
"On a personal note, sir, I'd just like to add that, uh... ever since I was kidnapped by aliens 10 years ago,... I have been dyin' for some payback, and I...just want you to know that, uh... I won't let you down"
~Russell Casse (Randy Quaid)~ “Independence Day”

Yes, the mind does boggle somewhat doesn't it?
Deepest respects,
D.

 

[sirhugs]

@EmilyMiller, et al...
If I may;
"On a personal note, sir, I'd just like to add that, uh... ever since I was kidnapped by aliens 10 years ago,... I have been dyin' for some payback, and I...just want you to know that, uh... I won't let you down"
~Russell Casse (Randy Quaid)~ “Independence Day”

Yes, the mind does boggle somewhat doesn't it?
Deepest respects,
D.

Randy Quaid turned out to act like he actually had been kidnapped by aliens.

 

[Erozetta]

TLDR answer: many don't, but psychology is complicated. Some people are into whatever gets their partner off, some people have feelings of pleasure tangled up with shame or submission or whatever.

This is where I fall. If it's something my partner enjoys, I'm going to enjoy it as well. The only time I've ever not enjoyed something my partner did is degradation. I don't enjoy being insulted, even if they enjoy insulting me. It turns out that my partner liking me as a person also influences what I enjoy doing for them.

 

[EmilyMiller]

This is where I fall. If it's something my partner enjoys, I'm going to enjoy it as well. The only time I've ever not enjoyed something my partner did is degradation. I don't enjoy being insulted, even if they enjoy insulting me. It turns out that my partner liking me as a person also influences what I enjoy doing for them.

I’ve thankfully never had a sexual patter who was into degradation. There is probably a good reason for this. There is a world of difference between consensual bondage / impact play, and psychological torture. Sign me up for the first with the right person, but the second? Nope, not happening. Demeaning someone is not sexy.

 

[Statius]

I would think if one was into degradation, insult, humiliation and the other wasn't, that relationship would fail. And honestly, IN MY OPINION, if you're really into humiliation of a partner, you're probably not fit for a relationship. Actually, if you're into it either way, you probably should figure out why. To me it lacks respect, for your partner or yourself, and again either way, probably both.

 

[EmilyMiller]

I would think if one was into degradation, insult, humiliation and the other wasn't, that relationship would fail. And honestly, IN MY OPINION, if you're really into humiliation of a partner, you're probably not fit for a relationship. Actually, if you're into it either way, you probably should figure out why. To me it lacks respect, for your partner or yourself, and again either way, probably both.

Insecurity.

 

[Erozetta]

I would think if one was into degradation, insult, humiliation and the other wasn't, that relationship would fail. And honestly, IN MY OPINION, if you're really into humiliation of a partner, you're probably not fit for a relationship. Actually, if you're into it either way, you probably should figure out why. To me it lacks respect, for your partner or yourself, and again either way, probably both.

I'm not going to shame anyone with a degradation kink, but the key is for someone who wants to degrade another to be in a relationship with someone who likes being degraded. Otherwise, you're right; it won't work.

In my case, it ended very badly, but not because of the degradation. I was kinda armored against that through my upbringing. He never said anything worse to me than my parents did, so I was kinda unfazed by his attempts to make me feel less than human. No, that relationship ended because he made a sexual comment about a relative of mine, and while I might be willing to put up with a lot regarding abuse toward me, I'm incredibly protective of my younger relatives. That relationship ended with him slightly bloody (not visible) and me very bruised (visible), lol. I kicked him out in the middle of the night after a massive fight where I was fully willing to defend myself for once, because if I didn't, that meant my cousin was in danger. He walked to my parents' house. They sided with him and helped him get his stuff from the apartment, and I was berated by them for being cruel enough to kick him out in the middle of the night. They also gave him money.

It was fucked up, and he stalked me for years after.

 

[Nynah]

I think it's important to be careful with how discussion of kinks happen here. Degradation is a kink that some people have and is heavily tied into certain parts of the BDSM subculture. Just because it isn't for you doesn't mean you have the right to call it "not sexy". For the people who are into it, it can be incredibly stimulating and exciting. The key thing is consent. If all parties are consenting and there are clear boundaries set and agreed upon, I do not see a difference between verbal degradation and impact play or any other kink.

 

[Statius]

I'm not going to shame anyone with a degradation kink, but the key is for someone who wants to degrade another to be in a relationship with someone who likes being degraded. Otherwise, you're right; it won't work.

In my case, it ended very badly, but not because of the degradation. I was kinda armored against that through my upbringing. He never said anything worse to me than my parents did, so I was kinda unfazed by his attempts to make me feel less than human. No, that relationship ended because he made a sexual comment about a relative of mine, and while I might be willing to put up with a lot regarding abuse toward me, I'm incredibly protective of my younger relatives. That relationship ended with him slightly bloody (not visible) and me very bruised (visible), lol. I kicked him out in the middle of the night after a massive fight where I was fully willing to defend myself for once, because if I didn't, that meant my cousin was in danger. He walked to my parents' house. They sided with him and helped him get his stuff from the apartment, and I was berated by them for being cruel enough to kick him out in the middle of the night. They also gave him money.

It was fucked up, and he stalked me for years after.

 

[Statius]

Insecurity.

?

 

[Britva415]

Just because it isn't for you doesn't mean you have the right to call it "not sexy".

Of course you do.

You can't say it's not sexy for everyone, but you for goddamn sure can say it's not sexy for you.

In fact, you better.