Well, I'm pretty sure EVERY swingers club is a no-obligation club. I can't fathom there are clubs where a woman has no choice but to engage in sex.One option is go to a no obligation swingers club for a look round and chat. Don't go expecting anything than learning more but do set boundaries if you both meet a couple you're both interested in. An exception might be, for example, that you're okay watching her kiss (and more) another woman.
As you say, though, might not be for everyone, especially if your wife currently dresses and undresses in the dark!
And my wife dresses and undresses in a lit room; and we have sex in a lit room.. ..So, it's not that
It's not for us, but I'm glad it fits the bill for others. ..So long as it is totally consensual and mutually enjoyed, I have no problem with it.
