Oral sex

[Haida_lee]

One reason: It is easier for a man to keep himself clean, (and therefore ready to receive), than a woman. And an unpleasant oral experience with a woman can make a man reluctant to try again.

Another reason (and perhaps the more common): Some men are concerned more with their own sexual pleasure, and have less concern for their lady.

very good argument...

 

[Vitriolhack]

So far, I personally haven’t encountered a man who wouldn’t perform oral on me. But I’m attractive to older men and they are eager to do it. And because of their enthusiasm, I return that eagerness.

Whoa! is it ok to feel strangle horny right about now?

 

[Lamia03]

because you are clean, so men like you...

I am and they do
Thanks!

 

[curioustxn]

very good argument...

There is a limerick from days gone by that perhaps women should consider when they want oral from their man:

Pussy is a funny creature
All cover with curly hair
Looks like the lips of a preacher
Smells like the ass of a bear.....

A man who loves a woman, normally wants to give her pleasure as possible, but doesn't want it to be a bad experience for himself. There are many things that can make a woman taste bad, even when she doesn't realize it herself. Diet being one! Some spicy foods can create a bad taste in her body fluids for her man, even when she doesn't taste bad to herself.

I mean no offense .......

 

[Britva415]

not all women... but most women...

citation needed

 

[Britva415]

logically ... what does a woman get when she does oral sex?

By this logic, neither gender gets anything from doing it, yet that doesn't change your perception about how one does it more or less, for some reason

 

[EmmAgain]

I think men are just more selfish overall.

 

[willi1796]

Why are some men reluctant to perform oral sex on their partners, compared to women? Almost all women definitely want to perform oral sex on their partners.. give your opinion for discussion, friends.... this is a place to discuss sex... if you want to discuss morals, maybe this is not the place, let alone talk about morality. this is not the place.... thank you.

I really enjoy performing oral sex with my wife, and she also likes it when I lick her. I also like it when she gives me oral sex; I can't really imagine anyone not enjoying it.

 

[Statius]

I think men are just more selfish overall.

It is a shame, but selfishness, no matter the gender shows lack of interest in the relationship/ partner. Sadly I agree with you that it is more likely to be the male.

 

[bws1]

Why are some men reluctant to perform oral sex on their partners, compared to women? Almost all women definitely want to perform oral sex on their partners.. give your opinion for discussion, friends.... this is a place to discuss sex... if you want to discuss morals, maybe this is not the place, let alone talk about morality. this is not the place.... thank you.

That's a really good question. I absolutely love going down on my SO, because I really enjoy making her cum. Maybe they never learned how? Or are afraid of doing it wrong or letting their partner down? Maybe they're concerned about hygiene? I honestly don't know, but they don't know what their missing. One of the most wonderful things is when we're finished and she lays her head on my chest, breathing hard, happy and exhausted.

 

[EmmAgain]

It is a shame, but selfishness, no matter the gender shows lack of interest in the relationship/ partner. Sadly I agree with you that it is more likely to be the male.

Well maybe I’m being kinda harsh. It’s a huge generalization. But as a girl it’s often been a chore getting oral from boys (obviously very different when you’re with another girl).

I mean, I’m always immaculately clean (wouldn’t ask for oral otherwise) and have been lasered to within an inch of my life - why wouldn’t you want to stick your mouth down there?

 

[willi1796]

There are also others who take a step back and focus entirely on their wife and only then on themselves. At least that's how I do it: first my wife orgasms, and then I do.

 

[bws1]

thanks @Britva415 for the correction... not all women... but most women...

I would love to find some of those ladies...

 

[lola_plunge]

I wouldn't stand for a guy that didn't love to go down on me!

 

[MamaBitte]

Why are some men reluctant to perform oral sex on their partners, compared to women?

Is that so? I don't know about others

Almost all women definitely want to perform oral sex on their partners.

Is that so? ”I really love going down to a woman. It's one of the hottest things at all. Unforunately my wife doesn't like it ...

. give your opinion for discussion, friends.... (...)

As said, I love giving oral to a woman. Lately, though, I often fancy about sucking the cock of a hot, muscular guy until he shoots his full load of cum into my mouth. Unfortunately, I haven't had the opportunity yet...

 

[Haida_lee]

There is a limerick from days gone by that perhaps women should consider when they want oral from their man:

Pussy is a funny creature
All cover with curly hair
Looks like the lips of a preacher
Smells like the ass of a bear.....

A man who loves a woman, normally wants to give her pleasure as possible, but doesn't want it to be a bad experience for himself. There are many things that can make a woman taste bad, even when she doesn't realize it herself. Diet being one! Some spicy foods can create a bad taste in her body fluids for her man, even when she doesn't taste bad to herself.

I mean no offense .......

Hahahahaha.... ... very true

 

[Shanes_OralOrations]

Well maybe I’m being kinda harsh. It’s a huge generalization. But as a girl it’s often been a chore getting oral from boys (obviously very different when you’re with another girl).

I mean, I’m always immaculately clean (wouldn’t ask for oral otherwise) and have been lasered to within an inch of my life - why wouldn’t you want to stick your mouth down there?

Amen! That description makes my mouth water... I want to stick my mouth there!

My wife and I both give and get oral a lot, but only when we're clean and freshly showered. Overall I probably spend more time eating her than she does sucking me, but it is pretty even. It's very rare that we have sex without a lot of mutual oral. And when we do it's usually a spontaneous quickie when we're not cleaned and pre-planned.

 

[willi1796]

I really like it when my wife is not freshly washed and she regularly does me the favor of being unwashed so that I can fully enjoy her smell and taste

 

[NOBGE]

Why are some men reluctant to perform oral sex on their partners, compared to women? Almost all women definitely want to perform oral sex on their partners.. give your opinion for discussion, friends.... this is a place to discuss sex... if you want to discuss morals, maybe this is not the place, let alone talk about morality. this is not the place.... thank you.

Not sure where the men you’re talking about are but most men here love it.
Personally, I can’t get enough! I’ve always been a leg man, which leads to pussy! I’ve always said I’d rather have my head between a woman’s thighs than her breasts!

 

[masterslave00]

Why are some men reluctant to perform oral sex on their partners, compared to women? Almost all women definitely want to perform oral sex on their partners.. give your opinion for discussion, friends.... this is a place to discuss sex... if you want to discuss morals, maybe this is not the place, let alone talk about morality. this is not the place.... thank you.

That's rather interesting observation. My own experience is quite different:

• been with more women who were not into giving blow job than those eager to give it
• been with more women who refused access to her pussy than those who encouraged it
  • in particular, I have been denied access to cream pie more often than allowed

going into more detail,

• women of my generation (I am 64) are much less into oral sex (either way)
• younger women are more into oral sex (either way)

 

[brad260]

love giving oral.. so hot to know getting a woman or man off.. giving that pleasure is definitely hot

 

[Haida_lee]

Not sure where the men you’re talking about are but most men here love it.
Personally, I can’t get enough! I’ve always been a leg man, which leads to pussy! I’ve always said I’d rather have my head between a woman’s thighs than her breasts!

well, my opinion is just my conclusion.... there's no survey for sure... that's the result of me chatting on women's forums.

 

[Haida_lee]

That's rather interesting observation. My own experience is quite different:

• been with more women who were not into giving blow job than those eager to give it
• been with more women who refused access to her pussy than those who encouraged it
  • in particular, I have been denied access to cream pie more often than allowed

going into more detail,

• women of my generation (I am 64) are much less into oral sex (either way)
• younger women are more into oral sex (either way)

Well ....... does that mean oral sex can be a trend that can change its fans??? .... very interesting! ... I once read a book, which I forgot the title ... in the 60s-70s ... anal sex was considered disgusting ... but now it's become a common thing ... thank you @masterslave00 ...... your name is scary

 

[CuriousJInLA]

Well ....... does that mean oral sex can be a trend that can change its fans??? .... very interesting! ... I once read a book, which I forgot the title ... in the 60s-70s ... anal sex was considered disgusting ... but now it's become a common thing ... thank you @masterslave00 ...... your name is scary

Is it common? I’ve been with a lot of partners and I’d say less than 1/3 were interested. That said I understand your point

 

[SirSparky]

I can remember the first time I licked a pussy. We were in our young teens and messing around. She kept licking my face so I told her if she did it again id lick somewhere she wasnt expecting. She did, so I pulled her on the floor, lifted her dress and pulled off her panties and licked her pussy. I had fingerer her previously and licked my fingers so I knew hiw she tasted but was still nervous. Was the first proper view if a real pussy spread that I had seen. Ive loved it ever since