What Are You Thinking? Continued 14

What am I thinking right now?

To be totally honest… I miss having a person. My person. Someone to split a bottle of red with over a warm home-cooked dinner, curled up on the sofa with candles burning and the scent of freshly washed laundry in the air. I want those deep, passionate kisses that turn into ripping each others clothes off, not bothering to pick them up as we run and chase each other upstairs to fuck like rabbits on the corridor floor outside of the bedroom.

I want all of that until I realise that late nights binge watching Yellowjackets with a Pinot in hand, kitties on the bed and my titties hanging out of my vest top will be ruined. The toilet seat will always be up. Someone’s dirty boxers all over the house. And my peace forever ruined.

Is it really worth it ladies. 🥱.
 
What am I thinking right now?

To be totally honest… I miss having a person. My person. Someone to split a bottle of red with over a warm home-cooked dinner, curled up on the sofa with candles burning and the scent of freshly washed laundry in the air. I want those deep, passionate kisses that turn into ripping each others clothes off, not bothering to pick them up as we run and chase each other upstairs to fuck like rabbits on the corridor floor outside of the bedroom.

I want all of that until I realise that late nights binge watching Yellowjackets with a Pinot in hand, kitties on the bed and my titties hanging out of my vest top will be ruined. The toilet seat will forever be up. And my peace forever ruined.

Is it really worth it ladies. 🥱.
Wellllll, I guess it depends on your life goals.

Which is the thing that outweighs? Of course you can keep separate homes. That’s a thing I hear.
Then you can spend time together, fuck, enjoy each other and then go the fuck home. 🤷🏻‍♀️
 
Wellllll, I guess it depends on your life goals.

Which is the thing that outweighs? Of course you can keep separate homes. That’s a thing I hear.
Then you can spend time together, fuck, enjoy each other and then go the fuck home. 🤷🏻‍♀️
My life goals are being achieved.

I am… celibate… ( a personal choice…. no men and no sex…. since January.) and I’m finally missing it :(.

I’m no good at nonchalant fucking around either, unfortunately. If I like someone enough after a while I’m like: “You’re coming home with me.” Well, not quiet but… if I’m in love…I like having that person around. I don’t sleep around outside of relationships. I do share within relationships though, if my partner is into it! 👩‍❤️‍💋‍👩

But nope. Cannot make my mind up.
 
My life goals are being achieved.

I am… celibate… ( a personal choice…. no men and no sex…. since January.) and I’m finally missing it :(.

I’m no good at nonchalant fucking around either, unfortunately. If I like someone enough after a while I’m like: “You’re coming home with me.” Well, not quiet but… if I’m in love I like having that person around. I don’t sleep around outside of relationships. I do share within relationships though, if my partner is into it! 👩‍❤️‍💋‍👩

But nope. Cannot make my mind up.
I don’t envy your situation. Choice paralysis is what would get me here. I was young and made my choice early
 
I don’t envy your situation. Choice paralysis is what would get me here. I was young and made my choice early
Please please feel free to dm me and tell me the choice you ended up making. I feel forever stuck in a loop of… do I choose me. But stay lonely. Because I’m not afraid of admitting I do get… lonely. Or do I settle.
(Dating just doesn’t work for me.)
Advice from women just hits different and I would seriously, seriouslyyyy appreciate it.
Sorry for the thread hog! 🐷
 
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What am I thinking right now?

To be totally honest… I miss having a person. My person. Someone to split a bottle of red with over a warm home-cooked dinner, curled up on the sofa with candles burning and the scent of freshly washed laundry in the air. I want those deep, passionate kisses that turn into ripping each others clothes off, not bothering to pick them up as we run and chase each other upstairs to fuck like rabbits on the corridor floor outside of the bedroom.

I want all of that until I realise that late nights binge watching Yellowjackets with a Pinot in hand, kitties on the bed and my titties hanging out of my vest top will be ruined. The toilet seat will always be up. Someone’s dirty boxers all over the house. And my peace forever ruined.

Is it really worth it ladies. 🥱.
I don't usually defend my own gender, but we don't ALL leave the seat up or boxers everywhere, I'd be divorced if I did😂. Maybe not entirely true. If I wasn't a clean human being able to take care of my own shit I wouldn't be married to the woman I am, and therefore not married. Clean capable guys are out there.
 
I don't usually defend my own gender, but we don't ALL leave the seat up or boxers everywhere, I'd be divorced if I did😂. Maybe not entirely true. If I wasn't a clean human being able to take care of my own shit I wouldn't be married to the woman I am, and therefore not married. Clean capable guys are out there.
This needs one of these... 😂

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I’ve seen some people here opine that there are a handful of men who get all the women here, at one time or another.
If I can ask...is it men or women who think this?

In my ignorance, and as A Man On Lit, I just figured that with  x women and 4x men here, women who want a man can be relatively picky, while lots of guys won't always get a date. Purely because of the maths.

What about the other way round? Do people similarly think it's just a handful of women who get all the men?

Sometimes, I think that in spite of being here for seven years I understand fuck all about this place.
 
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