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*hugs back*
Good morning to you ...
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Good morning!!
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Doing great MsT, and hope you are as well/Good morning DJ ...
Hope you're doing well today.
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Not too bad for a Monday!!
We will see what the day brings ...
One of the thoughts in my mind is whether I should wear some of my team swag this morning or not.
There is this Cowboy fan who wears his all the time who's gonna get picked on this morning.
It's one thought this morning out of many, but I'll have to get out of bed soon to dress for work.
Do you wear yours after a win or prefer to be more subdued?
Just curious.
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I don't wear anything per say but I do have a lot of cowboy fans on my FB page so when they lose, I usually go full on with that ...
One of the thoughts in my mind is whether I should wear some of my team swag this morning or not.
There is this Cowboy fan who wears his all the time who's gonna get picked on this morning.
It's one thought this morning out of many, but I'll have to get out of bed soon to dress for work.
Do you wear yours after a win or prefer to be more subdued?
Just curious.
It's only fair as they do the same to me!!!!
Gotta luv the rival banter! I say wear it with pride and fuck what anyone thinks about it!!
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Baker fucking Mayfield… did it twice! Drove down for a field goal with 3 minutes left to ice the game with a 9 point lead … oops I mean the Jets with a 2 point lead when it’s blocked… it’s okay I’ll just do it again.
As an OU alum I’m always glad to see Baker do well… as a kid who grew up going to Jets games when Joe Namath was quarterback… they consistently pain me.
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Definitely worth the laugh.Found this on FB ... I think I might have laughed a little too much or was it not enough????
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I've been thinking about another question to ask everyone and here it is ...
Describe to me a perfect date that you have planned for your girl. I don't just wanna hear, dinner then we fucked!! Anyone can do that to be honest. I want to hear all the details of what you planned.
Do you plan far in advance? Do you want to surprise her? Is it during the day? Night?
Tell me ... I want to know!!!!
Describe to me a perfect date that you have planned for your girl. I don't just wanna hear, dinner then we fucked!! Anyone can do that to be honest. I want to hear all the details of what you planned.
Do you plan far in advance? Do you want to surprise her? Is it during the day? Night?
Tell me ... I want to know!!!!
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Good morning to you!!!Good morning folks! Donuts are here
mmmmm donuts ... got any jelly filled?
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Yes a good variety todayGood morning to you!!!
mmmmm donuts ... got any jelly filled?
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Explore some new place togetherI've been thinking about another question to ask everyone and here it is ...
Describe to me a perfect date that you have planned for your girl. I don't just wanna hear, dinner then we fucked!! Anyone can do that to be honest. I want to hear all the details of what you planned.
Do you plan far in advance? Do you want to surprise her? Is it during the day? Night?
Tell me ... I want to know!!!!
1 amazing date was taking a special lady to Kyoto..started well and ended well
Another was to Civita...
Can't always do that but exploring is fun...find out about the person... I'm sure on the Kyoto one there was no thought to the evening yet....
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Today's question ...
I know there is a thread about this, but I wanted to ask here.
If you had the chance to meet another Litster, would you? How long would you have to chat via board, pm, voice message, phone calls before you actually felt comfortable in making the meeting?
Where would you meet? What would you do?
I know there is a thread about this, but I wanted to ask here.
If you had the chance to meet another Litster, would you? How long would you have to chat via board, pm, voice message, phone calls before you actually felt comfortable in making the meeting?
Where would you meet? What would you do?
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I would meet most of the Litsters I’ve interacted with long term. It’s pretty easy to spot spammers and scammers after a lengthy conversation. I have met 4 listers in person and all of them were great. 2 just ended up being friends. 1 likely would have led to something but COVID ended the travel that would have made it possible. And 1 led to a really close friendship. I would have a cup of coffee or a beer with any of them again.
As far as guidelines go:
1. Meet someplace open and public, a coffee shop, a sidewalk cafe, someplace safe for both parties.
2. Meet with no expectations. Even if you’ve cybered or sexted or more, in person meeting is totally different chemistry and resonance. It’s one reason that I don’t mind meeting somewhat sooner. It makes chatting more real.
3. Don’t be afraid to say “No.” #2 only means something if you adhere to it. No expectations. If the other person doesn’t respect that, let it be their problem.
4. Be open to possibilities. It’s okay to be pleasantly surprised. Just don’t rush.
5. For women especially, it’s okay to have an emergency contact on speed dial just in case. ‘Nuf said.
I have a different perspective than a lot of people. I led national wilderness outings and elderhostel courses for years. I took thousands of complete strangers on 1 to 2 week programs in remote wilderness areas and my home address and phone number appeared in national magazines. Today these organizations would never publish that kind of stuff, but email and the internet didn’t exist. I have a greater comfort level with strangers and make friends pretty easily. The biggest key is to do what you are comfortable with.
I think Lit is an amazing and creative community and if you think, “I’d go have a beer with guy/gal” then do it. I think this is a safer space overall than the average nightclub, and you have a greater chance to interact before the next step.
As far as guidelines go:
1. Meet someplace open and public, a coffee shop, a sidewalk cafe, someplace safe for both parties.
2. Meet with no expectations. Even if you’ve cybered or sexted or more, in person meeting is totally different chemistry and resonance. It’s one reason that I don’t mind meeting somewhat sooner. It makes chatting more real.
3. Don’t be afraid to say “No.” #2 only means something if you adhere to it. No expectations. If the other person doesn’t respect that, let it be their problem.
4. Be open to possibilities. It’s okay to be pleasantly surprised. Just don’t rush.
5. For women especially, it’s okay to have an emergency contact on speed dial just in case. ‘Nuf said.
I have a different perspective than a lot of people. I led national wilderness outings and elderhostel courses for years. I took thousands of complete strangers on 1 to 2 week programs in remote wilderness areas and my home address and phone number appeared in national magazines. Today these organizations would never publish that kind of stuff, but email and the internet didn’t exist.
I have a greater comfort level with strangers and make friends pretty easily. The biggest key is to do what you are comfortable with. I think Lit is an amazing and creative community and if you think, “I’d go have a beer with guy/gal” then do it. I think this is a safer space overall than the average nightclub, and you have a greater chance to interact before the next step.
