What was your first experience with voyeurism/exhibitionism?

[Glassnslate]

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[EmmAgain]

I do have to wonder how you exhibitionist streak would have appeared if you hadn’t done pageants. It would have come out, just maybe not to aggressively. But the high sex drive…..

lol - I knew I still had this screenshot! My mom’s as prudish as they get, but even she was rolling her eyes.

The same people who put me onstage in six-inch heels and a thong bikini suddenly get very awkward when they realize that it makes me horny.

https://www.imagebam.com/view/ME166X0H

 

[Freebeener]

lol - I knew I still had this screenshot! My mom’s as prudish as they get, but even she was rolling her eyes.

The same people who put me onstage in six-inch heels and a thong bikini suddenly get very awkward when they realize that it makes me horny.

https://www.imagebam.com/view/ME166X0H

Hahaha. Some people are just jealous

 

[EmmAgain]

Hahaha. Some people are just jealous

LOL! One of the ‘prominent breast ends’ in action between stage calls at a pageant in Oklahoma around the same time: https://www.imagebam.com/view/ME166XQJ

 

[naughtysid]

Very hot pic! So it's a beauty pagent but they can't say "nipple" breast ends it is then

 

[UnexpectedLuggage]

Either skinny dipping or strip poker while in high school. Been way too long since then for me to remember which.

 

[Oldsucker]

I was 18, totally in love with my girlfriend. I need to use the facilities in a very busy train station.as I sat down, I noticed a tiny hole in the dividing wall.
I was quite naive and innocent.
What the?
I leaned across and looked through the peep hole. What I saw has maybe affected the fest of my life. A huge stiff cock being vigorously wanked. The shock. I’d never seen an erect adult penis, let alone being wanked.
My own penis became stiff immediately with an incredible surge of blood and lust.My cock was throbbing.My heart pounding.
But. I was scared of what was happening to me. I fled the toilet as fast as I could.
But the image and sensation has remained with me ever since, 50 years ago. Was this the origin of my need for cock and cum.
I left it late but now at last I’m an established slut for cum and an enthusiastic cocksucker.

 

[fma20fma]

My colleague and room mate introduced me to the concept of viewing and txt chatting with guys who show on cam or chat txt till they are happy. After the first time it is now a regular hobby.

 

[subdudeme13]

Watching my neighbor hang up her wash!

 

[OtherwisePrint6210]

LOL! One of the ‘prominent breast ends’ in action between stage calls at a pageant in Oklahoma around the same time: https://www.imagebam.com/view/ME166XQJ

I was confused by the breast ends…..at first I was thinking side boob..

 

[Tossawayalt]

lol - I knew I still had this screenshot! My mom’s as prudish as they get, but even she was rolling her eyes.

The same people who put me onstage in six-inch heels and a thong bikini suddenly get very awkward when they realize that it makes me horny.

https://www.imagebam.com/view/ME166X0H

Thy can't even say the word nipple!

 

[BizTrav]

What was everyone's first experience with voyeurism and/or exhibitionism?

Since I started the thread, I'll go first.

I was barely 18 years old and had just moved into a college dorm for my freshman year. I quickly met a group of returning sophomores that seemed like a fun group to hang out with. Like me, they were more nerdy than jocks. I had lived a boring high-school life and didn't have any experience with drinking or girls (though not for lack of wanting).

It was only my second or third day there when the group invited me to go skinny-dipping with them that night at a state park not too far from the college. Part of my brain thought this would be the best thing ever (seeing naked women!) and the other part wanted no part in being naked in front of strangers. The first part of my brain won in about 3 milliseconds. I still wasn't planning to get naked but the thought of seeing women I knew naked was way more than I could pass up. On the way out to the park someone with a fake ID bought cheap alcohol (does anyone remember Purple Passion?) so by the time we got to the lake i was more than a little tipsy. Still though, I had NO intention of stripping.

So we got to the lake, three or four car-loads of us. I walk towards the beach, totally clothed and saw that everyone else was too. That had me both relieved and disappointed. Just then, two girls walked up to me and asked if I was going to skinny-dip. I replied no and they said too bad. At about that exact same moment they both stripped completely naked and ran into the water. Before my brain knew what I was doing I was naked chasing them into the water .

At that time, that was the best moment of my life and possibly what got me hooked on being a bit of both a voyeur and an exhibitionist.

So, what's your story?

Pretty young at the time, old enough to be interested though, neighbors daughter was a senior in high school and was a dream. One evening I was out back shooting baskets and saw her in their kitchen in bra and panties. Seemed like it lasted forever. Probably ruined me for life

 

[Tossawayalt]

Ha! I’d never let any future daughter of mine do them, but I do miss the spotlight, the camaraderie, the travel - and of course the wild, unhinged sex behind parents’ backs (hotel linen cupboards and fire escapes were popular).

Pageants gave me the confidence and sexual practice to do cam work, which I started with Privacy, a Brazilian site, while on student exchange in Argentina. After finishing school back in the US, I then moved on to OnlyFans. In 2020, it all became too much of a hassle - endless paperwork and covid - so I moved on to other stuff.

So my Argentina story isn't all that exciting, just something I remembered when reading yours.

I traveled to Buenos Aires a few times for work and one time I was there alone over the weekend. I think it was a holiday even, like carnival weekend in maybe 2016ish. Anyway, I was in my hotel downtown looking out the window when I saw a small van pull up to a building across the street. A few people got out and appeared to be unloading photography equipment and taking it inside. They stood out as the street was empty other than them. I always wondered if they were filming something erotic and after your story, I'm thinking they may have been.

 

[EmmAgain]

So my Argentina story isn't all that exciting, just something I remembered when reading yours.

I traveled to Buenos Aires a few times for work and one time I was there alone over the weekend. I think it was a holiday even, like carnival weekend in maybe 2016ish. Anyway, I was in my hotel downtown looking out the window when I saw a small van pull up to a building across the street. A few people got out and appeared to be unloading photography equipment and taking it inside. They stood out as the street was empty other than them. I always wondered if they were filming something erotic and after your story, I'm thinking they may have been.

Wouldn’t surprise me TBH. Plenty of ordinary women were doing cam work and porn because of the economic issues. Privacy.com.br was the main platform thanks to its very slack documentation requirements. Who knows? You might be credited as ‘Bystander #6’!

 

[JaggyMcSporran]

A LOT of wine. Two couples. A lot of dares. I eventually stripped naked. So did my then gf. Youthful lust took over
and we fucked in front of the other couple.

It was fhe first time we'd had sex with each other. Quite the first fime.

Tge relationship didn't last. We had little common but boy was the sex good. And kinky. The kinkiest I've ever had .

 

[tristantrotsky]

I was 18, totally in love with my girlfriend. I need to use the facilities in a very busy train station.as I sat down, I noticed a tiny hole in the dividing wall.
I was quite naive and innocent.
What the?
I leaned across and looked through the peep hole. What I saw has maybe affected the fest of my life. A huge stiff cock being vigorously wanked. The shock. I’d never seen an erect adult penis, let alone being wanked.
My own penis became stiff immediately with an incredible surge of blood and lust.My cock was throbbing.My heart pounding.
But. I was scared of what was happening to me. I fled the toilet as fast as I could.
But the image and sensation has remained with me ever since, 50 years ago. Was this the origin of my need for cock and cum.
I left it late but now at last I’m an established slut for cum and an enthusiastic cocksucker.

Making up for lost time is still better than never knowing the joys of sucking cock at all. We all discover our own truth by different routes, but whenever we open ourselves to fully accept and celebrate these beautiful pleasures is a revelation. Don't regret the cocks you never sucked, just enjoy the cocks you're sucking now...

 

[MamaBitte]

A few years ago, I used to go to brothels every now and then. I mostly went to cheap “walk-in brothels.” You walk through the corridors and the women are sitting or standing in the doorways of their rooms. Like here:
https://cdn.mopo.de/uploads/sites/4/2024/02/bordell29.jpg
When you agree on one, you disappear into the little room with her, she closes the door, you pay, and you can have some fun. So far, so good......
But I had long wanted to do it in front of an “audience,” i.e., to leave the door open. Of course, I was afraid to do so, but at some point I had the courage to ask quietly, “Can we leave the door open?” The answer was NO! I asked other prostitutes in other brothels, again and again, but every time the answer was “no,” “impossible,” “it's forbidden”...
So asking became a harmless game, since the answer was always “no” anyway. But then one day, a pretty dark-haired girl suddenly said, “Sure, why not?.” Phew, there I was! I hadn't expected that. My heart was pounding in my throat. But now I couldn't back out.
So we went into her little room. My heart still beating. The door remained wide open. We took our clothes off. Completely naked. A little foreplay... and then we fucked. It was so hot. So fucking hot. Men walked past. Some stopped and watched. The women from the neighboring rooms came over, curious... so hot, so hot, so hot...
https://eros-waiblingen.de/wp-content/uploads/2025/04/slide-2-eros-waiblingen-2.jpg
I repeated this a few more times with other women in other brothels, and every time it was !

 

[OtherwisePrint6210]

LOL! One of the ‘prominent breast ends’ in action between stage calls at a pageant in Oklahoma around the same time: https://www.imagebam.com/view/ME166XQJ

@Bobm269 , @poppypopper , @32aaPixie

LOL! One of the ‘prominent breast ends’ in action between stage calls at a pageant in Oklahoma around the same time: https://www.imagebam.com/view/ME166XQJ

 

[Tossawayalt]

Not a first time but another early and memorable experience...

I was in the army and deployed to a sandbox near a coast. It was the type of area where you get an afternoon sunshower for a few minutes. The way they had everyone set up, there was a Swedish field hospital sleeping in the building right behind mine. It was well known that the nurses, yes real Swedish nurses, would sunbathe topless on the roof of their building. It was tall enough that you couldn't see anything. Except that is when the afternoon sunshower would come through and they would all jump up 'surprised', showing us their glorious bare chests.

For some reason half of my platoon would be out back cleaning binoculars about 3pm every afternoon

 

[Tossawayalt]

What was your first experience with voyeurism/exhibitionism?​

I went to a costume party when I was 18, dressed as a French maid. When I arrived, my boyfriend and his friends had arranged it so that I was the only girl there. By the end of the night, I had been touched everywhere, and my dress had been removed, and was in someone's pocket, and I was walking around fetching drinks in just my underwear...

Being the center of attention like that, and being touched in front of others, how did it make you feel?

 

[Tossawayalt]

Got to be honest initially I was so angry that maybe I let it go to far out of spite, but then later I loved the attention and once that happened I was happy to fetch and carry drinks. It certainly started a trend of encounters that have been repeated.

I'm willing to bet that you became super popular in your friend group

Also, I could use a drink, could you grab me one in the appropriate attire

 

[OtherwisePrint6210]

Ahah yes it did change how they reacted to me, I guess it was inevitable but it was never repeated; at least not with that group.
-Re off course let me just slip out of something

So, now I’m curious as to what the second time was. Same BF, or had you dumped him?

 

[live4thebj]

Hmmmm. Technically is when I first listened to my parents having sex. But didn’t know what was going on at the time either. Since it’s me I am talking about am I breaking the rules?


I have had gotten BJ’s with people watching. Cousin. Female friends. Handjobs with people in the car. Yeah I say oral or the use of hands was the most common for me.

 

[OtherwisePrint6210]

Hmmmm. Technically is when I first listened to my parents having sex. But didn’t know what was going on at the time either. Since it’s me I am talking about am I breaking the rules?


I have had gotten BJ’s with people watching. Cousin. Female friends. Handjobs with people in the car. Yeah I say oral or the use of hands was the most common for me.

When was the first time you got a blowjob with someone watching? Was it your idea?

 

[live4thebj]

When was the first time you got a blowjob with someone watching? Was it your idea?

Okay well first it has to be my ex wife. The first time she was stroking me in front of this female. I am not sure she sucked me off that time. But she definitely gave me head in front of this hot blonde who was also a friend while we were driving to the strip club.