What was your first experience with voyeurism/exhibitionism?

[Tossawayalt]

What was everyone's first experience with voyeurism and/or exhibitionism?

Since I started the thread, I'll go first.

I was barely 18 years old and had just moved into a college dorm for my freshman year. I quickly met a group of returning sophomores that seemed like a fun group to hang out with. Like me, they were more nerdy than jocks. I had lived a boring high-school life and didn't have any experience with drinking or girls (though not for lack of wanting).

It was only my second or third day there when the group invited me to go skinny-dipping with them that night at a state park not too far from the college. Part of my brain thought this would be the best thing ever (seeing naked women!) and the other part wanted no part in being naked in front of strangers. The first part of my brain won in about 3 milliseconds. I still wasn't planning to get naked but the thought of seeing women I knew naked was way more than I could pass up. On the way out to the park someone with a fake ID bought cheap alcohol (does anyone remember Purple Passion?) so by the time we got to the lake i was more than a little tipsy. Still though, I had NO intention of stripping.

So we got to the lake, three or four car-loads of us. I walk towards the beach, totally clothed and saw that everyone else was too. That had me both relieved and disappointed. Just then, two girls walked up to me and asked if I was going to skinny-dip. I replied no and they said too bad. At about that exact same moment they both stripped completely naked and ran into the water. Before my brain knew what I was doing I was naked chasing them into the water .

At that time, that was the best moment of my life and possibly what got me hooked on being a bit of both a voyeur and an exhibitionist.

So, what's your story?

 

[ibshy2003]

Skinny dipping

 

[gtnlynn]

My wife and I had a skinny dipping day with her brother and his friend from college, who was also one of my wife's former lovers. There was no sex, just naked bodies. After that, she became more open about letting others see her partially nude when at the lake.

 

[geekyKT90]

Losing a card game camping and streaking

 

[IsabellaSantiago]

Some Sharon Stone in Basic Instinct style flashing (although far, far less subtle) on the London Underground.

 

[Tossawayalt]

Some Sharon Stone in Basic Instinct style flashing (although far, far less subtle) on the London Underground.

I'm sure you made that ride a memorable one for someone. Who knows, maybe they'll post here about it too

 

[Robert58]

While camping with five or six other couples. It was night and we all went skinny dipping in the lake. It was a little disappointing as you really couldn't see much. Or it could have been skinny dipping in a pool with my girlfriend, two of her friends and their boyfriends. Don't remember which happened first.

 

[jd_sw]

Many decades ago. The house directly opposite of where I lived. Their bedroom on the upper floor is directly opposite of my bedroom. A hot blond was living there, she never closes her curtain when she put on her clothes after shower. No matter day or night. I even bought a pair of binocular to watch her. I was warching her from my bedroom until she moved.

 

[Freebeener]

Watched my parents have sex and also caught some of their friends hooking up camping when younger

 

[Sgts19]

Jerking off on the roof of the student union building watching my recently GF fucking another guy.

I found my kink that night, watching

 

[Viconiax]

My friends hid my clothes and towel away while I was taking a shower after practice. While trying to find them outside of the shower room, I got caught playing with my pussy while fully nude and wet.

 

[Unapologetic_Bull]

The first time a husband watched me have sex with his wife. To be honest, I forgot he was there.

 

[dr2brd]

For exhibitionism it was skinny-dipping with bunch of my friends (both male and female) when I was 18. For voyeurism it was much earlier, I used my father's binoculars (he was an avid bird watcher) to spy neighbor MILFs through their windows from our balcony. And I would also add a candaulism, my favorite mix of exhibitionism and voyeurism. Again at 18 I talked my then girlfriend into taking off her top on a clothe-optional beach and was in a heaven watching guys lustfully ogling her gorgeous boobs.

 

[JordynRose]

My personal trainer catching me fucking myself on the patio by the pool. I just wanted to die, had zero idea she would be dropping by.

 

[mobleedzblue]

My personal trainer catching me fucking myself on the patio by the pool. I just wanted to die, had zero idea she would be dropping by.

Now that’s a story I’d love to hear the details of.

 

[OtherwisePrint6210]

My personal trainer catching me fucking myself on the patio by the pool. I just wanted to die, had zero idea she would be dropping by.

Well, how long did she watch?

 

[Tossawayalt]

My friends hid my clothes and towel away while I was taking a shower after practice. While trying to find them outside of the shower room, I got caught playing with my pussy while fully nude and wet.

I feel like there is a lot more to this story

 

[Tossawayalt]

My personal trainer catching me fucking myself on the patio by the pool. I just wanted to die, had zero idea she would be dropping by.

How did she react?! How did you react?!

 

[EmmAgain]

I think the seed for my exhibitionist was mom’s insistence on signing me up for beauty pageants pretty much as soon as I was eligible. Especially in the South, for all the talk of family values and scholarship, there was a heck of an emphasis on stilettos, bikinis and revealing formalwear.

It was quite terrifying at first. But after a few shows, I discovered that the parading and pouting had become a huge turn-on. I had to wear a pad to stop myself dripping. (An early sign of hyper sexuality!) On the one hand, I wanted nothing to do with the leering men backstage and in the audience. On the other, I loved the effect I had on them.

It was around that time that I became sexually active. While I kept my virginity for a little while longer, everything else was fair game. At every show something happened - even if only a backstage BJ - and I almost always sent out a Snap. The rush was in the sexual act, but also in publiciziing it.

I guess cam work was destiny, right?

Doing publicity for an El Paso show, 2014, and making a new friend in the changing room straight after: https://www.imagebam.com/view/ME166TCQ

Edit: yep, the photo editing is terrible, there was a lot I had to fix

 

[Tossawayalt]

I think the seed for my exhibitionist was mom’s insistence on signing me up for beauty pageants pretty much as soon as I was eligible. Especially in the South, for all the talk of family values and scholarship, there was a heck of an emphasis on stilettos, bikinis and revealing formalwear.

It was quite terrifying at fiest. But after a few shows, I discovered that the parading and pouting had become a huge turn-on. I had to wear a pad to stop myself dripping. (An early sign of hyper sexuality!) On the one hand, I wanted nothing to do with the leering men backstage and in the audience. On the other, I loved the effect I had on them.

It was around that time that I became sexually active. While I kept my virginity for a little while longer, everything else was fair game. At every show something happened - even if only a backstage BJ - and I almost always sent out a Snap. The rush was in the sexual act, but also in publiciziing it.

I guess cam work was destiny, right?

Doing publicity for an El Paso show, 2014, and making a new friend in the changing room straight after: https://www.imagebam.com/view/ME166TCQ

Edit: yep, the photo editing is terrible, there was a lot I had to fix

Wow, quite the story!

Do you miss the pagent days or has something else taken it's place, like the cams you mentioned.?

 

[Glassnslate]

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[OtherwisePrint6210]

I think the seed for my exhibitionist was mom’s insistence on signing me up for beauty pageants pretty much as soon as I was eligible. Especially in the South, for all the talk of family values and scholarship, there was a heck of an emphasis on stilettos, bikinis and revealing formalwear.

It was quite terrifying at fiest. But after a few shows, I discovered that the parading and pouting had become a huge turn-on. I had to wear a pad to stop myself dripping. (An early sign of hyper sexuality!) On the one hand, I wanted nothing to do with the leering men backstage and in the audience. On the other, I loved the effect I had on them.

It was around that time that I became sexually active. While I kept my virginity for a little while longer, everything else was fair game. At every show something happened - even if only a backstage BJ - and I almost always sent out a Snap. The rush was in the sexual act, but also in publiciziing it.

I guess cam work was destiny, right?

Doing publicity for an El Paso show, 2014, and making a new friend in the changing room straight after: https://www.imagebam.com/view/ME166TCQ

Edit: yep, the photo editing is terrible, there was a lot I had to fix

Yep, pageants are creepy.

 

[EmmAgain]

Wow, quite the story!

Do you miss the pagent days or has something else taken it's place, like the cams you mentioned.?

Ha! I’d never let any future daughter of mine do them, but I do miss the spotlight, the camaraderie, the travel - and of course the wild, unhinged sex behind parents’ backs (hotel linen cupboards and fire escapes were popular).

Pageants gave me the confidence and sexual practice to do cam work, which I started with Privacy, a Brazilian site, while on student exchange in Argentina. After finishing school back in the US, I then moved on to OnlyFans. In 2020, it all became too much of a hassle - endless paperwork and covid - so I moved on to other stuff.

 

[Tossawayalt]

Ha! I’d never let any future daughter of mine do them, but I do miss the spotlight, the camaraderie, the travel - and of course the wild, unhinged sex behind parents’ backs (hotel linen cupboards and fire escapes were popular).

Pageants gave me the confidence and sexual practice to do cam work, which I started with Privacy, a Brazilian site, while on student exchange in Argentina. After finishing school back in the US, I then moved on to OnlyFans. In 2020, it all became too much of a hassle - endless paperwork and covid - so I moved on to other stuff.

Very cool. I have a small Argentina story I'll have to share soon, unfortunately work is calling now

 

[OtherwisePrint6210]

Ha! I’d never let any future daughter of mine do them, but I do miss the spotlight, the camaraderie, the travel - and of course the wild, unhinged sex behind parents’ backs (hotel linen cupboards and fire escapes were popular).

Pageants gave me the confidence and sexual practice to do cam work, which I started with Privacy, a Brazilian site, while on student exchange in Argentina. After finishing school back in the US, I then moved on to OnlyFans. In 2020, it all became too much of a hassle - endless paperwork and covid - so I moved on to other stuff.

I do have to wonder how you exhibitionist streak would have appeared if you hadn’t done pageants. It would have come out, just maybe not to aggressively. But the high sex drive…..