What Are You Thinking? Continued 14

[MidnightLothario]

October is going to see a major correction. Just remember you saw it here first

I should hope.

 

[Mrmphilll2]

Hand my clothes over or keep them on …

 

[AnalCreampieGiver]

Bucs win! Almost blew a decent lead but a win is a win. Bake saved the day

 

[SimplyMsT]

I'm thinking ...

The Packers fucked that one up!!!

 

[AnalCreampieGiver]

I'm thinking ...

The Packers fucked that one up!!!

I was surprised to see that

 

[SimplyMsT]

I was surprised to see that

Yeah, me too!

As long as they win over Dallas next week, it will be a sweet redemption ...

 

[Justabaldguy70]

I'm thinking ...

The Packers fucked that one up!!!

Oh my that was sad…good game from both sides but mistakes were made

 

[SimplyMsT]

Oh my that was sad…good game from both sides but mistakes were made

BIG ones ...

 

[Justabaldguy70]

BIG ones ...

And it fucked me in fantasy too

 

[Xerxes82]

I was thinking about this because of a post in a different thread.

Are there people that are legitimately good at sexting? Because I am definitely not.

It always starts fine. Hot. Then I feel like I'm repeating myself. Realize I have nothing to really say/add. Worry that I'm too focused on the text to masturbate (if that was an option). Worry that I'm too unfocused on the text to get her masturbating. Kind of just want it to be over as it gets awkward and finally lose interest because now it's uncomfortable.

 

[cheekygirl75]

I was thinking about this because of a post in a different thread.

Are there people that are legitimately good at sexting? Because I am definitely not.

It always starts fine. Hot. Then I feel like I'm repeating myself. Realize I have nothing to really say/add. Worry that I'm too focused on the text to masturbate (if that was an option). Worry that I'm too unfocused on the text to get her masturbating. Kind of just want it to be over as it gets awkward and finally lose interest because now it's uncomfortable.

That pretty much sums up the handful of times I’ve tried it!

 

[EvaLane]

Are there people that are legitimately good at sexting? Because I am definitely not.

Sexting, mmm no, but there are definitely skillful writers who make good use of a short prompt and an eager reader. Sooooo skilled I’ve been tricked into what can only be described as freeplay roleplaying

Most of the complexities of Lit have the same answer, it’s simple but not an easy pill to swallow - the connection just has to be right

 

[Sunlover102]

Friday seems so far away at this minute.

 

[Sundayschild]

I was thinking about this because of a post in a different thread.

Are there people that are legitimately good at sexting? Because I am definitely not.

It always starts fine. Hot. Then I feel like I'm repeating myself. Realize I have nothing to really say/add. Worry that I'm too focused on the text to masturbate (if that was an option). Worry that I'm too unfocused on the text to get her masturbating. Kind of just want it to be over as it gets awkward and finally lose interest because now it's uncomfortable.

I feel Its depending on whether there's a connection or not. But I don't beat myself up about it. It's difficult to know what people are looking for sometimes, so you just have to give it a try.

That said - its been a couple of years since I fooled around so I suspect I'll be rusty

 

[PrettyLilPussy19]

I was thinking about this because of a post in a different thread.

Are there people that are legitimately good at sexting? Because I am definitely not.

It always starts fine. Hot. Then I feel like I'm repeating myself. Realize I have nothing to really say/add. Worry that I'm too focused on the text to masturbate (if that was an option). Worry that I'm too unfocused on the text to get her masturbating. Kind of just want it to be over as it gets awkward and finally lose interest because now it's uncomfortable.

As someone who has had a compliment or two (which makes me feel cringe to even say but... it's one of my few and rarely used talents.)

I think seeing it as a movie in your mind, focusing of details, not rushing to the actual sexy stuff, braiding emotion and description and effect together helps. My best sext sessions haven't been while I've been simultaneously masturbatating but, together, creating the fantasy we will cum to later. I also think chemistry makes good sexting - understanding style and matching energy. (ETA I have only found this with so so few people.) When it's good, it's SO good. Don't put too much pressure on yourself! Im sure you're doing great

If it's going to be simultaneous, usually thats for audios or phone calls.

 

[MidnightLothario]

Yeah, me too!

As long as they win over Dallas next week, it will be a sweet redemption ...

It's Dallas, lol, of course they'll win.

 

[MidnightLothario]

As someone who has had a compliment or two (which makes me feel cringe to even say but... it's one of my few and rarely used talents.)

I think seeing it as a movie in your mind, focusing of details, not rushing to the actual sexy stuff, braiding emotion and description and effect together helps. My best sext sessions haven't been while I've been simultaneously masturbatating but, together, creating the fantasy we will cum to later. I also think chemistry makes good sexting - understanding style and matching energy. When it's good, it's SO good. Don't put too much pressure on yourself! Im sure you're doing great

If it's going to be simultaneous, usually thats for audios or phone calls.

Well, I write Smut, I'd like to think being good at sexting would just flow naturally.

 

[MidnightLothario]

I was in a long-distance relationship with my current wife for many years. If I wasn't above par at sexting, I don't know as we'd be together today. I honestly think it helped give me the confidence to become a somewhat successful smut author.

 

[bookworm69]

As someone who has had a compliment or two (which makes me feel cringe to even say but... it's one of my few and rarely used talents.)

I think seeing it as a movie in your mind, focusing of details, not rushing to the actual sexy stuff, braiding emotion and description and effect together helps. My best sext sessions haven't been while I've been simultaneously masturbatating but, together, creating the fantasy we will cum to later. I also think chemistry makes good sexting - understanding style and matching energy. When it's good, it's SO good. Don't put too much pressure on yourself! Im sure you're doing great

If it's going to be simultaneous, usually thats for audios or phone calls.

So well put, on all your points.

 

[PrettyLilPussy19]

Well, I write Smut, I'd like to think being good at sexting would just flow naturally.

It takes two + chemistry.

 

[Shymidwestgirl]

Start a book or a show?

 

[Shymidwestgirl]

It takes two + chemistry.

I agree even most brilliant writers trying to carry on a conversation alone - it will still fall flat.

 

[GallantWriter]

Sexting, mmm no, but there are definitely skillful writers who make good use of a short prompt and an eager reader. Sooooo skilled I’ve been tricked into what can only be described as freeplay roleplaying

Most of the complexities of Lit have the same answer, it’s simple but not an easy pill to swallow - the connection just has to be right

I mean, I tend to think our connection is right to do just about anything.

But yes I agree, some writers just do it well. Free form roleplaying really can be fun too.

 

[Cthulhu1138]

I was thinking about this because of a post in a different thread.

Are there people that are legitimately good at sexting? Because I am definitely not.

It always starts fine. Hot. Then I feel like I'm repeating myself. Realize I have nothing to really say/add. Worry that I'm too focused on the text to masturbate (if that was an option). Worry that I'm too unfocused on the text to get her masturbating. Kind of just want it to be over as it gets awkward and finally lose interest because now it's uncomfortable.

I reckon that I see sexting as a precursor to other activities, like a phone call, a video chat, or best of all an in person encounter.

Sexting to me is a tease, a promise, a titillation that is different than the conversational tone of regular text messaging.

Maybe I am wrong . Maybe I suck at sexting but do not know it...

 

[Cthulhu1138]

I have never done that. Though out of the Twelve-ish or so serious relationships I have ever been in the only two I've ever ended both involved going back to my First. All the rest, they ended.

One of the people was my boss, who has been out of work sick and did not answer his phone and has had a full voicemail box for half a decade.

The other is a person who has been slipping away for probably the last 12 months.

Side note: I lost both my folks in 2020. It gets easier , but grief will come and kick your butt unexpectedly at the best of times.

*Manly bro hug*