Swapping wifes is more attractive than let her have her way with another ?

[Prasa]

Its the widespread practice.

 

[Prasa]

But continuing it is a worrisome one .

 

[secretSanna]

I'd be down to being swapped. Would be even hotter if I had no idea to who I was going. And if the man was about 20 years older

 

[policywank]

Certainly great if you can find the right couple. But that can be difficult. And all it takes is for one of the four to not like what they see then it is all off. Reality is that in these situations women usually have more opportunity so insisting on swapping can be the man's way of ensuring he can keep up or that he can use his wife's appeal to get himself laid. That can lead to frustration.

Imagine you go to a swingers club and several men hit on your wife. She is interested in some of them, but then she needs to go one by one through their wives to see if they are interested in you. And if they aren't she has to reject the men. She is going to get frustrated with that. Why should she deny herself because her husband doesn't appear to the other wife? And how long before she faces pressure from her husband to be with another man that doesn't appeal to her simply because her husband likes the wife.

Yes it might happen the other way around too, but it will more often the wife compromising or missing out on opportunities.

The experience can be fun if you can find the right couple so that all four people are engaged and interested. But if it is a way to make sure that you "keep up" with your spouse, there is a high potential for problems. Generally speaking I would say that if you are not ok with your spouse having sex with another person, but you think that you will feel differently if you have reciprocal rights/opportunity you will probably find that it won't change your basic feelings about it.

 

[Jacques_Corbin]

We went into "swinging" with the idea of finding other couples to swap with. We found it easy to find couples with similar ideas but much harder to find a couple that we could agree that we wanted to swap with. It is difficult.
We did meet and swap with about 3 couples before my wife decided that swapping with couples was not her thing. She discovered MFM 3'sums and these became her passion. This was not a cuckold situation, it was two men serving her sexual pleasure together as a team. She wasn't a typical hot wife either, she preferred long term relationships with her guys and she only ever had one on the go at one time. In the 18 years we indulged in this she only ever had 3 different guys.
Like Prasa I always preferred swapping, I found it far more stimulating and erotic but it was just not to be. To be fair though she did agree to me having my own adventures without her, which gave me the chance to indulge in a bit of different pussy and develop my bi sexual side.
Good luck with your search for suitable couples Prasa,

That's the tricky thing. There should be no pressure for someone to consent just because everyone else does. My wife & I have walked away, a few times, because she was only into the other wife and not the husband, and he acted like a child. Lately, she's been more and more into other women.

 

[Sgts19]

That's the tricky thing. There should be no pressure for someone to consent just because everyone else does. My wife & I have walked away, a few times, because she was only into the other wife and not the husband, and he acted like a child. Lately, she's been more and more into other women.

We walked away from a lot more couples than we played with

 

[Prasa]

In a old Hyderabad, we stumbled upon one Muslim couple nearby jumma darghah and have had a nice friendship and talks for sometimes.
On a visit to a typical Telugu movie , talks began on swapping casually.
It began in the theatre itself casually by swapped our partners seats and the touching ,fondling began in a merry way to find the red cherry below by the males.
Its d beginning.

 

[Samtran123]

That's the tricky thing. There should be no pressure for someone to consent just because everyone else does. My wife & I have walked away, a few times, because she was only into the other wife and not the husband, and he acted like a child. Lately, she's been more and more into other women.

I understand it’s a tricky thing. My wife and I, as couple, have been swapping for a number of years now. We have stuck to a few ground rules with which we acquaint the other couple also. We first meet a few times over lunch, dinner or maybe just coffee. We get to know each other. Only if our wives feel comfortable with the other male, we decide to go ahead. Not only that, the husbands must feel that they can trust their wives with the other male. Only then we decide to swap and fix the venue: either our home or theirs or even a neutral place like a hotel. We have had no problems so far and needless to say we still enjoy it.

 

[Prasa]

I understand it’s a tricky thing. My wife and I, as couple, have been swapping for a number of years now. We have stuck to a few ground rules with which we acquaint the other couple also. We first meet a few times over lunch, dinner or maybe just coffee. We get to know each other. Only if our wives feel comfortable with the other male, we decide to go ahead. Not only that, the husbands must feel that they can trust their wives with the other male. Only then we decide to swap and fix the venue: either our home or theirs or even a neutral place like a hotel. We have had no problems so far and needless to say we still enjoy it.

Fortunate.

 

[Prasa]

oh

 

[MamaBitte]

I'd be down to being swapped. Would be even hotter if I had no idea to who I was going. (...)

That's why I'm turned on by the Idea of a key party
https://en.m.wiktionary.org/wiki/key_party

 

[Prasa]

That's why I'm turned on by the Idea of a key party
https://en.m.wiktionary.org/wiki/key_party

Ss

 

[Prasa]

The experience can be fun if you can find the right couple so that all four people are engaged and interested. But if it is a way to make sure that you "keep up" with your spouse, there is a high potential for problems. Generally speaking I would say that if you are not ok with your spouse having sex with another person, but you think that you will feel differently if you have reciprocal rights/opportunity you will probably find that it won't change your basic feelings about it.

Ss

 

[MidKnight1378]

My wife and I love having sex with another couple and/ or singles. She loves being fucked by different men and I love putting my cock in different women. We enjoy watching each other fucking another person and coming. It’s our biggest fetish. Most people we know just can’t get over the jealousy factor, but we have our select friends we swap with and it’s awesome, best sex ever.

 

[Prasa]

My wife and I love having sex with another couple and/ or singles. She loves being fucked by different men and I love putting my cock in different women. We enjoy watching each other fucking another person and coming. It’s our biggest fetish. Most people we know just can’t get over the jealousy factor, but we have our select friends we swap with and it’s awesome, best sex ever.

Well said

 

[Prasa]

But the real surprise one of experience is that in Ambur village, one couple asked us to swap but the thing is their age.
We are in 30 s
But they are in 50's.

I m fond if older women
Agreed.
Wife took a long time insisted on seeing the size.
Its very good rod.
all happened well then

 

[UnexpectedLuggage]

I mean, if that was something my wife and I seriously discussed and had a couple we both agreed to swap with, I'd be willing to try it.

I'd be a liar if I said I hadn't jerked off to the idea before. Plowing one of my hot friends while my wife is in another room getting worked.

 

[1DarkNightOwl]

I mean, if that was something my wife and I seriously discussed and had a couple we both agreed to swap with, I'd be willing to try it.

I'd be a liar if I said I hadn't jerked off to the idea before. Plowing one of my hot friends while my wife is in another room getting worked.

This has crossed my mind many times.

My wife knows I would love to watch and this is not a major leap from there. I have imagined sharing a lunch with friends sitting a roos from the woman I'm looking forward to.

But, we have never discussed this and it will probably never happen. You can't put the genie back in the bottle if it goes sideways.

 

[UnexpectedLuggage]

This has crossed my mind many times.

My wife knows I would love to watch and this is not a major leap from there. I have imagined sharing a lunch with friends sitting a roos from the woman I'm looking forward to.

But, we have never discussed this and it will probably never happen. You can't put the genie back in the bottle if it goes sideways.

Yeah. It's not something I think I wanna do badly enough to risk my marriage on.

A hot fantasy sometimes, but nothing more.

 

[vandelayatx]

Many years ago before we were married my wife and I had sex with another couple in the same bed. Lot of switching back and. Forth.

 

[1DarkNightOwl]

Many years ago before we were married my wife and I had sex with another couple in the same bed. Lot of switching back and. Forth.

I hope you enjoyed it. Would you again?

I've only imagined a dame room/ bed straight swap. Switching back and forth has for some reason never crossed my mind.

 

[LittleGreene]

Can I say from a female perspective swapping husband is also more exciting than allowing my husband to play solo.
But he’s very open to both scenarios for me.

 

[CuriousJInLA]

Can I say from a female perspective swapping husband is also more exciting than allowing my husband to play solo.
But he’s very open to both scenarios for me.

We agree. As a couple we’ve had experiences with a third male and female, but we’ve been interested in finding the right couple for a long time

 

[LittleGreene]

We agree. As a couple we’ve had experiences with a third male and female, but we’ve been interested in finding the right couple for a long time

I’d be worried that ‘feelings’ got involved with a long term couple swap.
But then there is the safety and understanding that can be built with regular partners

 

[CuriousJInLA]

I’d be worried that ‘feelings’ got involved with a long term couple swap.
But then there is the safety and understanding that can be built with regular partners

Sorry I wasn’t necessarily referring to long term. A first world be a good starting point