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I’ve always wondered if a man who enjoys pegging is secretly bi or gay even if he claims not to be.
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Well, I think I just explained it. But don't take my word for it. This point as been asserted time and time again by sexual psychologists and sex therapists. That only gay men enjoy ass play is a trope rooted in homophobia.
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100% very well said!
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Not "pure" pegging as no harness was involved but this was our latest adventure...
https://theintrepidboyager.blogspot.com/2025/08/the-working-stiff.html
I adore it for so many reasons. Yes, it feels amazing, but this is one act, especially when performed by a woman, just melts your brain and touches on so many different things. It is physical, mental and emotional.
https://theintrepidboyager.blogspot.com/2025/08/the-working-stiff.html
I adore it for so many reasons. Yes, it feels amazing, but this is one act, especially when performed by a woman, just melts your brain and touches on so many different things. It is physical, mental and emotional.
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Take it from someone who is not gay... if I was I would only want to be sexual with men .... I like to be sexual with males and females and those inbetween, so I am not gay and I LOVE a cock (or a dildo) in my ass. I am too old to worry about what anyone thinks about what I like sexually. I'm not in hiding.
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Wouldn’t that make you bi then if you enjoy sex with men and women . Actually that’s not a question. It’s just a fact. No judgement though.
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Agreed. I've done it a few times with previous partners and loved it for a bunch of reasons, not one of them anything to do with me being straight or otherwise - it's the person you're with that matters
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Sorry, your assumpsion is not fact. The fact is I always thought I was bisexual but I came to the conclusion that I am not attracted to the gender. I am attracted to the person. If I am not attracted to you as a person, if there is no chemistry between us, then there is no sexual attraction.Wouldn’t that make you bi then if you enjoy sex with men and women . Actually that’s not a question. It’s just a fact. No judgement though.
Since my 20's I would say when asked that I was bi. Today the erotic world has a label for what my sexual preferences are and that is pansexual, I am told. Being pansexual is being attracted to the person regardless of gender. If you are a beautiful woman and I don't care for you as a person, I will not have sex with you no matter how much you ask or offer. If you have a nice cock and I don't care for you as a person then it's not going to happen. Even if it's been a month since I had sex. Sorry for going on and on but I want to be understood, not misunderstood. I like sex with males, females and those inbetween.
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It doesn't really matter with labels, no need to put sexual identity on anyone, BUT as a BI male, pegging with the wife and solo anal play definitely was gateway for me to expand my bicurious thoughts. Wanting to feel a real cock in my ass, not because it's attached to man, but it's a REAL cock is always going to be a want. Not being attracted to men at all, but still wanting to feel a cock in my ass or mouth, I guess makes me "BI", however to the guys who like pegging, I can't imagine you're not at least curious about a real cock. Maybe not..but definitely pegging opened my thought window.
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If you want a cock in your ass then you are "Anal Erotic" . Experiment with your anal eroticisms. It's your ass the you want to be erotic with, right? Not another man's ass, right? That doesn't mean you are bi or gay. Just means you might get erotic pleasures from your ass and prostate. Only one way to find out. One experience at a time. Once you try it, you will know. If you are not attracted to men then I could not think of you as bi or gay. IMHO
But if you get pleasure from having you ass penetrated, then you are a normal male who is anal erotic.
Screw the label thing. I use those terms as identifiers only and I never judge anyone.
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That's correct. No way I would want to top a guy ever.. However, I feel the same about oral. Only want to give. Very utilitarian, no attachment, no attraction, but love the act of sucking and receiving cum. That's why I love gloryholes. Just cocks and cum. So there's ZERO gender attraction, but the acts I do enjoy and crave on occasion..
My thoughts exactly!
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That is being "Anal Erotic". Has nothing to do with "gay". I hope you find that female who will take you the way you want to be taken.
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Yes, it's all about the pleasure not the gender. Just enjoy the pleasure. Getting and giving.
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That was incredibly hot. Damn
I don't think labels should be used to shame people, but I do think a person needs to be clear about their sexual orientation to prospective romantic partners and to their health-care providers. If you can enjoy ANY kind of sexual contact with with both men and women, and this would certainly include taking a man's dick in your ass, then any sex therapist would say you are Bi-Sexual. And there is NOTHING wrong with that; it's a normal, healthy sexual orientation.
To use your logic about "Anal erotic", my enjoyment of a tongue in my mouth would mean I'm "Mouth Erotic" and as such wouldn't really care about the gender of the person whose tongue is in my mouth. But I do care. My enjoyment of that sexual activity requires that that person be a woman. And that is because I'm heterosexual, which is also normal and healthy, though no more so than being bi-sexual.
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Mmmm.....love to sit back on mommy's big cock....and work it deep inside my boi cunt!!!!!!!
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No, I wonder how many men have experienced a prostate orgasm or even know about it. What a shame.
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Have you talked to her about it? Do you know which part of the idea she didn't like? She doesn't want to pretend to be a man, she doesn't want to play with your ass, or she doesn't like the fact that you want your ass to be played with?
For me, what's usually called pegging is a strong no too, but I love doing it differently - by holding dildo (vibe for us) in my hand. I don't like pretending to be something that I am not and have no interest in being, in this case that would be a man. Plus, I like to have much more control over the process; handholding the object can provide it, moving my hips can not.
I love being pegged and I cum every time hands free.First time being fingered Felt so good and came so fast it was embarrassing.Never thought about guys but loved having my ass fingered or fucked.Over time started getting off on trans porn then opening up to bi porn. Fem -dom porn is still one of my favs but now also get turned on being dom by a guy too now.
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A post script to finally getting the real thing...
Curiosity satisfied. But now I know I really don't want or need the real thing because it is attached to a guy. My guy was GREAT, but I still felt HIM on me, not just the cock. I'll take pegging with a woman or maybe the real thing with a T-Girl, but no need for guys and the "real thing" for me. Felt a little better than the dildo in some ways and others not so much. And it was distracting to me at least having a man rubbing against me, which I only really wanted his cock.
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