Bi or Bi Curious?

Guess I was bi-curious from an early experience. Then had the opportunity to open that door to explore in my late teens. Discovered that I was no longer curious after doing 69 (twice in rapid suck session…lol) with my best friend. Completely bisexual.
 
I think terminology is up to interpretation. To me, bi-curious is equivalent to hetero-flexible. As in, you’ll engage in sexual activity with another man but have no romantic attraction or desire for a romantic relationship.

As opposed to bi-sexual which I think of as more of a romantic sexuality and harbor romantic attraction to both men and women.
Well said!
 
Guess I was bi-curious from an early experience. Then had the opportunity to open that door to explore in my late teens. Discovered that I was no longer curious after doing 69 (twice in rapid suck session…lol) with my best friend. Completely bisexual.
twice in rapid suck session :) :ROFLMAO::):ROFLMAO:
 
(27M) Married and bi (curious?) here…it’s mostly i guess a fantasy I think unless or until it’s acted upon…I don’t have any personal experience.
up to you if you want to take it beyond a fantasy
 
I think that when I am horny, I am opportunistic. Always have been. My first sex partner was an older M. I was young and just happy to be desired. It lasted a few years.

I say opportunistic because when I get horny I just want to cum and it’s like whatever, any port in a storm, as the saying goes. I have had sex with some females that I didn’t like as people. They weren’t my type and I had no interest in them except the sexual moment. During that I was totally into it. But the minute I came I thought “what was I thinking?”

I have been married for 40 years. I love women. I think they are beautiful. I love my wife. Our sexlife has never been what I hoped for. But it was fun. Then it became a chore for her. Then less often until now it doesn’t happen. I only have an interest in women. I’ve never looked at a guy and thought Wow! But I have looked at a million women and had that thought.

But in those 50ish years of loving women, I have had a few MM encounters. All of them were fun. They all came when I was horny. And encountered a stranger willing to have sex, usually semi public. Almost every time the minute I cum I am filled with shame and regret.

As my wife’s sex drive became less and less, I actually would occasionally find myself looking for those opportunities to have sex. The undeniable fact about random sex, is that guys are very much more open to it. Women, especially those sexy women you desire the most, need time and energy and talk and dinner and talk tomorrow. However a guy will jack you off at a urinal and when you cum he leaves. A guy will give you his room number on a business trip, and have sex with you both of you cum in 15 minutes and then you can leave and never see or think of each other again.

I don’t know my label. I hope to die in the arms of the woman I love. But I love sex. And in my experience, guys are willing to have sex, cum and leave. I just think of it as orgasmic opportunism.
 
I think that when I am horny, I am opportunistic. Always have been. My first sex partner was an older M. I was young and just happy to be desired. It lasted a few years.

I say opportunistic because when I get horny I just want to cum and it’s like whatever, any port in a storm, as the saying goes. I have had sex with some females that I didn’t like as people. They weren’t my type and I had no interest in them except the sexual moment. During that I was totally into it. But the minute I came I thought “what was I thinking?”

I have been married for 40 years. I love women. I think they are beautiful. I love my wife. Our sexlife has never been what I hoped for. But it was fun. Then it became a chore for her. Then less often until now it doesn’t happen. I only have an interest in women. I’ve never looked at a guy and thought Wow! But I have looked at a million women and had that thought.

But in those 50ish years of loving women, I have had a few MM encounters. All of them were fun. They all came when I was horny. And encountered a stranger willing to have sex, usually semi public. Almost every time the minute I cum I am filled with shame and regret.

As my wife’s sex drive became less and less, I actually would occasionally find myself looking for those opportunities to have sex. The undeniable fact about random sex, is that guys are very much more open to it. Women, especially those sexy women you desire the most, need time and energy and talk and dinner and talk tomorrow. However a guy will jack you off at a urinal and when you cum he leaves. A guy will give you his room number on a business trip, and have sex with you both of you cum in 15 minutes and then you can leave and never see or think of each other again.

I don’t know my label. I hope to die in the arms of the woman I love. But I love sex. And in my experience, guys are willing to have sex, cum and leave. I just think of it as orgasmic opportunism.
Well said
 
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