Expired friendships

[LeinadVirgo]

Been friends with someone for nearly a year. She decided to change profession and that means I'm no longer ivolved in her life.

Generally I'm happy for her, but also kinda hurt because i know it was more one sided anyways. So of course i let it get to me and shut her down rather than end with grace.

I don't need advice or perspective. Just venting on how things are.

 

[KyleR215]

It happens. Things change. You can choose to be upset and unhappy. You can be the biggest fan.

Venting is an outlet.

You choose your happiness

 

[LeinadVirgo]

It happens. Things change. You can choose to be upset and unhappy. You can be the biggest fan.

Venting is an outlet.

You choose your happiness

Thank you for your words

 

[KyleR215]

Thank you for your words

May you find future friendships

 

[Statius]

Been friends with someone for nearly a year. She decided to change profession and that means I'm no longer ivolved in her life.

Generally I'm happy for her, but also kinda hurt because i know it was more one sided anyways. So of course i let it get to me and shut her down rather than end with grace.

I don't need advice or perspective. Just venting on how things are.

Feel your feelings, experience them, all of them. Hurt, anger, spite. Let those scenarios play out in your head. Deny your feelings and emotions nothing. You'll be a better person, more compassionate to others and most importantly, TO YOURSELF. . Having said that, it sucks and I'm sorry that happened. Take care.

 

[LeinadVirgo]

Feel your feelings, experience them, all of them. Hurt, anger, spite. Let those scenarios play out in your head. Deny your feelings and emotions nothing. You'll be a better person, more compassionate to others and most importantly, TO YOURSELF. . Having said that, it sucks and I'm sorry that happened. Take care.

Thanks. That's why I had to vent on here. Otherwise i would let it bother me and grow into a problem.

 

[AllAmericanMale]

Been friends with someone for nearly a year. She decided to change profession and that means I'm no longer ivolved in her life.

Generally I'm happy for her, but also kinda hurt because i know it was more one sided anyways. So of course i let it get to me and shut her down rather than end with grace.

I don't need advice or perspective. Just venting on how things are.

Sometimes momentarily shouting into the void helps...

Then, back on the horse and get after it again.

 

[Statius]

Thanks. That's why I had to vent on here. Otherwise i would let it bother me and grow into a problem.

Keep venting. As much as you need. I had an ADD/ADHD thread for that very purpose at one point. A place to vent. Let it rip until it subsides.

 

[LeinadVirgo]

Thanks everyone. I think i just need some rest. I have vacation next week. Maybe that will make everything feel ok