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Fighting the urge to like and love every post Bean makes

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Proof of fascination? Devotion? Tempered
 
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subdudeme13 said:
There are those of us that prefer a little pain mixed in with pleasure and going to the edge time and time again. As hot and beautiful as you are I can't imagine not what I wouldn't do for you. I guess you might have a little Domme side to you. You are driving all the guys crazy all ready.
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Pain and pleasure are intertwined as one, the line between the two merely a veil.

I was told once by a tattooist (who I was in a sexual relationship with) that the expression on my face whilst being tattooed was the same as when orgasming…. 🤣

I am a switch. 87% switch I believe if I remember the results to an online BDSM test correctly!

*edging audio noted 😉
 
SpicyBean99 said:
It depends on how you look at what I meant by: “letting down.”

I could for example make a 20 minute long edging audio which leads you to believe I’m going to let you….

And then stop. Because it was fun to make you think you deserved it ;)

But that remains to be seen 😏
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….is this because I accidentally turned you on today??
 
ShaneoD said:
Hang on, I'll admit to missing a few pages but why do the orgasms have to be ruined?
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They don’t. If that’s not your thing!

There are a few here that might enjoy enduring an incredibly long edging session… which may or may not end in either a ruined orgasm or none at all. I know that for some it can be fun ;)

It is for me anyway 😏 (when done right)
 
SpicyBean99 said:
They don’t. If that’s not your thing!

There are a few here that might enjoy enduring an incredibly long edging session… which may or may not end in either a ruined orgasm or none at all. I know that for some it can be fun ;)

It is for me anyway 😏 (when done right)
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Damn my brain, but I have to ask do you prefer being the victim or the inflictor of such a thing?

Come to think of it you must prefer giving one, it's all about being lusted over and the guy loosing control surely.
 
ShaneoD said:
Damn my brain, but I have to ask do you prefer being the victim or the inflictor of such a thing?

Come to think of it you must prefer giving one, it's all about being lusted over and the guy loosing control surely.
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Haha your brain is fine as is! 😇

But…

BOTH!!

I’m a switch 🤣

It’s definitely not always about being lusted over for me…without sounding like a self centred jerk that tends to kind of always exist when I’m with a partner engaging in these kinds of activities.

I can also (@Switchem15, please feel free to engage here) be a massive sub… I love orgasm denial, being edged etc too!!
 
SpicyBean99 said:
Firstly… what was the show? Are you a musician? I would love love love to hear more about that!! 😍

Did you also help her lube up the latex? I feel like getting it on is the hardest part and then making sure it’s all perfectly shiny! 😏

I can also be shy with strangers/people I don’t know…. I think it adds to the excitement of semi public fun. I would be MORTIFIED being caught… so the only thing you have to bear in mind is… to not be caught. The riskier? The better.

Are you a complete dom? Or do you switch depending on partner? I’m bisexual and find that I’m most certainly a switch depending on character!
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I'm an industrial/techno producer who was really active in the 2000s, a little less so now. So full disclosure, I was just turned 19, she was 25. I'm European, she's indian heritage American, and she flew over to EU to be with me for a couple of months. She worked as a domme occasionally and was really confident, whereas I was completely green. In other words, the logistics of her outfit were beyond me :) She just appeared from the hotel room looking amazing. I was too stressed out with my own preshow anxiety to be much use to her. Very much semi-innocent boy being taught by a more experienced woman, at that point.

I'm a complete dom, I've come to terms with that. It's kind of cornerstone for sexual compatibility for me; it may be ironic (other folks in our scene were "terrified" of her) but she was completely sweet and submissive for me. Roleplaying and taking control in that way helps me overcome anxieties and be more free with my expression, and I think it makes me a more attentive partner. I'm a sweet, caring guy who also texts you to make sure you're still wearing the buttplug I put in you. I do jealousy plays (i'm not a super jealous guy though) and set requirements: It's controlling of course but it's also clear signs of how much I care, no? It brings us together.

People who knew me when I was younger only knew this anxiety ridden dude (I had some early age trauma that wrecked me for years) and had no idea I could scream on a stage or keep a girl. It makes perfect sense to me: Having control is the opposite of worry.

Edit: Jesus this turned into a word dump. Don't mean to pollute your thread with my bs.
 
SpicyBean99 said:
They don’t. If that’s not your thing!

There are a few here that might enjoy enduring an incredibly long edging session… which may or may not end in either a ruined orgasm or none at all. I know that for some it can be fun ;)

It is for me anyway 😏 (when done right)
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I agree with this . . .

There are a few here that might enjoy enduring an incredibly long edging session… which may or may not end in either a ruined orgasm or none at all. I know that for some it can be fun ;)

As I’ve aged, my orgasms and output have weakened. Nonetheless, edging at length is incredibly satisfying. Enjoying my precum is a delightful sexual stimulant. An orgasm is certainly the quest, yet when and how it cums doesn’t decrease the sexual pleasure of masturbating.
 
notexactlymelville said:
I'm an industrial/techno producer who was really active in the 2000s, a little less so now. So full disclosure, I was just turned 19, she was 25. I'm European, she's indian heritage American, and she flew over to EU to be with me for a couple of months. She worked as a domme occasionally and was really confident, whereas I was completely green. In other words, the logistics of her outfit were beyond me :) She just appeared from the hotel room looking amazing. I was too stressed out with my own preshow anxiety to be much use to her. Very much semi-innocent boy being taught by a more experienced woman, at that point.

I'm a complete dom, I've come to terms with that. It's kind of cornerstone for sexual compatibility for me; it may be ironic (other folks in our scene were "terrified" of her) but she was completely sweet and submissive for me. Roleplaying and taking control in that way helps me overcome anxieties and be more free with my expression, and I think it makes me a more attentive partner. I'm a sweet, caring guy who also texts you to make sure you're still wearing the buttplug I put in you. I do jealousy plays (i'm not a super jealous guy though) and set requirements: It's controlling of course but it's also clear signs of how much I care, no? It brings us together.

People who knew me when I was younger only knew this anxiety ridden dude (I had some early age trauma that wrecked me for years) and had no idea I could scream on a stage or keep a girl. It makes perfect sense to me: Having control is the opposite of worry.

Edit: Jesus this turned into a word dump. Don't mean to pollute your thread with my bs.
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Before I respond properly…
I adore responses like this. Word dumps and detailed replies are the best! Feel free to virtually verbal diarrhoea all over my thread ;)

Thankyou for sharing your story…🥰 She sounds like she was a lot of fun, and I can see how formative that first experience must have been for you. It makes total sense why it made a mark on you! When you describe the shift from being the “green” one to then realising later on in life that dominance feels natural. I think that part really isn’t just about sex… I think it’s about finding a way to reclaim power after years of carrying anxiety and trauma! I can understand that on a really personal level! 🥰

And then way you talk about jealousy play/setting requirements, personally comes across less like control for ‘control’s sake’ and more like building a little private language of closeness?… (does that make sense?).

I agree with the anxiety part at the end too… I’m still very much navigating that road and figuring out thing from my past! It’s a long road huh? At least I can take from you that there is somewhat of a light at the end of the “anxiety tunnel”! 🥰

Thankyou again for your detailed reply! I enjoyed reading it! 🖤
 
SpicyBean99 said:
Haha your brain is fine as is! 😇

But…

BOTH!!

I’m a switch 🤣

It’s definitely not always about being lusted over for me…without sounding like a self centred jerk that tends to kind of always exist when I’m with a partner engaging in these kinds of activities.

I can also (@Switchem15, please feel free to engage here) be a massive sub… I love orgasm denial, being edged etc too!!
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I can confirm…although I’m a switch too our dynamic has always been very D/s. It’s how we work and how we vibe…and she’s a beautiful sub too…many more things for us to explore 😏
 
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