FTM: On creampies

[sereneotter00]

I recently solidified my identity as FTM and while it means a lot of changes for my identity (obviously) and with identifying things like dysphoria, it hasn’t really slowed down my sex life, particularly with my partners knowing/respecting my identity and being cool with the equipment.

Something I’ve always known is that I never want to get pregnant. If I could’ve, I would’ve had a hysterectomy once I found out what they even were. Since I’m in my early/mid 20s getting one is super difficult without a disorder/illness affecting the uterus, so I rely on BC and other safety measures.

I know some FTM guys have really fucked up dysphoria when it comes to their genitalia, so I wonder if it makes me weird to still enjoy creampies. I’ve had them in both holes. I honest to God think I have a breeding kink. It feels ironic since I fear pregnancy so deeply. It’s not really something I’d want to bring up to my therapist, so for other FTM guys… should I be worried or is this common?

 

[Britva415]

I am not a FTM guy, but I see enough FTM guys on hookup apps posting their crotch pics and seeking daddies and tops that I don't know about the "breeding kink" part, but regarding comfort with the equipment and with getting vaginally fucked, I think it's fair to say that it's not uncommon.

Even if you are a transman with a breeding kink, I still don't think it's anything to worry about. People are weird and everyone's different Embrace your kinks!

 

[dingdongditchding]

did any of them lick their creampie out of you

 

[sereneotter00]

I am not a FTM guy, but I see enough FTM guys on hookup apps posting their crotch pics and seeking daddies and tops that I don't know about the "breeding kink" part, but regarding comfort with the equipment and with getting vaginally fucked, I think it's fair to say that it's not uncommon.

Even if you are a transman with a breeding kink, I still don't think it's anything to worry about. People are weird and everyone's different Embrace your kinks!

Tbh really appreciate the perspective from the guys on dating apps. I mean, if they’re totally cool with it, I definitely should try not to overthink it. Thanks for the input!

 

[sereneotter00]

did any of them lick their creampie out of you

 

[spraybomb13]

I'm not an FTM, but as a Bi guy/bottom, the fantasy of being "bred" and getting"knocked up" is a huge turn on! The first time a guy told me he wanted to get me pregnant, it started something inside me that I just love to fantasize about. When a guy cums in me, I like to think he's "owning" me, or marking me as "his", which is what turns me on the most about being a bottom. Maybe it's something similar that triggers you as well?

 

[sereneotter00]

I'm not an FTM, but as a Bi guy/bottom, the fantasy of being "bred" and getting"knocked up" is a huge turn on! The first time a guy told me he wanted to get me pregnant, it started something inside me that I just love to fantasize about. When a guy cums in me, I like to think he's "owning" me, or marking me as "his", which is what turns me on the most about being a bottom. Maybe it's something similar that triggers you as well?

This is a great way of describing it actually. I definitely resonate on the being “owned” portion. No pun intended but you nailed it lol. Thanks for the feedback!

 

[dingdongditchding]

I tend to fantasize about sucking cock and making him cum

 

[Honeysuckleboi]

As a non-binary tguy, I'll say that with transition, I've actually gotten way more comfortable with the concept of being creampied to the point that I'd definitely say I've developed a breeding kink. Something about bigger, more dominant men taking control and using me.
I'm terrified of actually getting pregnant too, to the point I also wanna get a hysto, but the kink itself may have come with the increased comfort in my own body with HRT and top surgery. I don't really get bottom dysphoria though!

 

[sereneotter00]

As a non-binary tguy, I'll say that with transition, I've actually gotten way more comfortable with the concept of being creampied to the point that I'd definitely say I've developed a breeding kink. Something about bigger, more dominant men taking control and using me.
I'm terrified of actually getting pregnant too, to the point I also wanna get a hysto, but the kink itself may have come with the increased comfort in my own body with HRT and top surgery. I don't really get bottom dysphoria though!

I do want a hysto and I knew I never wanted to get pregnant even before I came to the conclusion that I was FTM (to a terrifying degree), and the part about increased comfort definitely resonates with me. I feel so much better about myself and I’m more willing to explore more sexually with how I’m changing, so I’m sure that also plays into being ok with harmless kinks. I don’t get bottom dysphoria either! Thanks for your input!