Do you prefer them young, mature or in your own age group ?

Since I'm a septogenarian nearly everyone is younger than I am so I'll have to go with "younger". My criteria now is for her to be 50+, someone I find physically attractive, and enthusiastic about sex. (and understands the Oxford comma :) )
The Oxford comma is non-negotiable. I would kick anyone out of bed that argued against it.
 
I’m 44. While I’ve been surprised to find I’m somewhat regularly hit on by younger women, I prefer close to my age or older. I just find them so much more attractive
 
Couldn’t agree more. It’s poorly written without
I just think it makes a list more clear.

My bestie is a PhD in rhetoric, and she says it’s not necessary because people can tell it’s a list from context, that we don’t use a comma-pause when we’re speaking a list, so why do we have to in writing?

I said, this isn’t speech. It’s writing. A completely different domain of intelligence. And there is no tone, pitch, timbre, envelope, gesticulation, or any other non-verbal cues. Why make someone have to rely on context when you can just add the comma? Does that extra keystroke really burn so many of your resources? Are you that much closer to death now, and you’ll never get that time back?

Stop being a lazy douche and add the fucking comma.
 
I was never really into older, although my first experience was with a couple several years older than me. I think that may have had something to do with me sticking with same/similar age men all through college. That was a more comfortable dynamic for me. And I married a man who's less than two years older, so right there where I always liked

But more recently, I've had some female partners who were around ten years younger than me, and I have a major crush on a woman who is that same age group. But I'm also in a cyber-sex relationship with a woman my own age. I can only think of one woman I've been really attracted to who was older than me.

I've also been with one guy other than Hubby in recent years, and he was a lot younger... 18 at the time. I've lusted over some other men, both younger than me and the same/similar age to me, but rarely an older guy. 🤷‍♀️
Younger is always more attractive because they are young. LOL
Older men can go at a slower pace with tenderness. But they can also be very powerful and strong when having sex.
I am an older man.
 
Just being curious.
Even as a young man I was always attracted to people who were older than I.
Young twinks and lovely young ladies are always nice to look at, but I find I have nothing in common with them.
My entire life I have found that my most satisfying sexual encounters have been with mature people. They generally seem to be more open to various experiences and definitely know how to have fun in and out of the bedroom.
Im in my late 40s and am finding a great deal of pleasure, sitting at a street café, enjoying the young amazing girls coming and going. Wondering if they notice my interest. The legging shorts, the summer dress, the jeans that they know make their ass look so good. Mmm 🔥
 
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I find I have more chemistry with women close to my age and a little more mature, but I've never really had difficulty carrying on conversation with anyone.

There's always common ground between individuals and most people are interesting.
 
I prefer an older man....

The experienced aura is a huge turn on. Also, a mature man that can hold a sensible, intelligent conversation and also give me a toe curling orgasm is basically the best of both worlds.

A sexy, slightly grey haired, middle aged man.... 🤤 somethings just really sexy about the maturity, the masculinity and the way they know how to treat a lady in and outside of the bedroom. My sex with older men has been the best I've had honestly. Its a a huge difference when you have sex with someone who is really into enjoying rhe pleasure and giving you pleasure. A lot of young guys are just concerned with getting off.

I also just generally tend to connect better with older individuals.
 
I am always on the fence with these kinds of questions. I am mid 40s, so people in my age range I tend to have a lot in common with…kids, job, where I am in life. That can be good in a relationship.

I have dated a few younger people in their 20s and they tend to be a headache lol. Always worried about their friends, drinking a lot, partying all night, sex can be good or quite mediocre.

The idea of younger for me always seems to be more appealing than it really ends up being.

Older can be a mixed bag too. Although the benefit to those guys is they will tend to treat me like a princess and that is always fun. Sex can be mediocre and they can be needy or not tolerant of young kids etc.

I always like the idea of someone older or younger but typically I tend to have better relationships with people in my age range
 
I prefer an older man....

The experienced aura is a huge turn on. Also, a mature man that can hold a sensible, intelligent conversation and also give me a toe curling orgasm is basically the best of both worlds.

A sexy, slightly grey haired, middle aged man.... 🤤 somethings just really sexy about the maturity, the masculinity and the way they know how to treat a lady in and outside of the bedroom. My sex with older men has been the best I've had honestly. Its a a huge difference when you have sex with someone who is really into enjoying rhe pleasure and giving you pleasure. A lot of young guys are just concerned with getting off.

I also just generally tend to connect better with older individuals.
🔥 perfect
 
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