Is she just flirting or interested in more?

[Britva415]

Obviously we have all had people flirt with us and for me it's not always obvious if it's just flirting or if there is more to it than that.
This past week I went out with work friends for drinks. While there a co worker who had on a wrap dress would keep adjusting her dress top showing more cleavage or pulling the dress away from her breasts as she adjusted it.
Now there was another man there but she would turn my direction when doing it.
I don't have any problem at all asking a woman if she is interested in more which I have done and got the I could never do that but the flirting continues. Sometimes it cools off a bit and other times it's obvious.
So my question is do people think this is just her having fun ie let's see if I can get the old guy going or is there actual interest?
Please post your opinions

What would you have done if you had known for sure, zero doubt, no question she was actually flirting with you and trying to get your attention, sexually?

If the answer is "nothing," then probably none of our opinions matter.

But this was almost month ago now. Has it happened more than once? Does she continue to do these things? Have you shown any encouragement or reaction to her?

At this late date, my guess is that if you have not pursued it yet, then, if you ever did have a chance in the first place, you've blown it now because you didn't take the bait. When someone shoots their shot and it doesn't work, it's bad for "second chances." She might have come to believe that you aren't interested, or she might have felt like she was rejected, or she might have just lost interest because you weren't clueful and confident enough to go for it.

 

[MaturemanAJ]

What would you have done if you had known for sure, zero doubt, no question she was actually flirting with you and trying to get your attention, sexually?

If the answer is "nothing," then probably none of our opinions matter.

But this was almost month ago now. Has it happened more than once? Does she continue to do these things? Have you shown any encouragement or reaction to her?

At this late date, my guess is that if you have not pursued it yet, then, if you ever did have a chance in the first place, you've blown it now because you didn't take the bait. When someone shoots their shot and it doesn't work, it's bad for "second chances." She might have come to believe that you aren't interested, or she might have felt like she was rejected, or she might have just lost interest because you weren't clueful and confident enough to go for it.

She absolutely knows what's going on and my level of interest because I have told her flat out. There is a line that we are both nervous about crossing and that is the boss employee line and plus we are friends too and neither of us wants to lose that.
The next day herdress was a short black firm fitting dress with gold zippers that ran from each side of her neck down to her waist.
We were chatting about business but we were alone and I said I gotta get out of here you in that dress are going to make me explode and I walked away to a giggle.
The only unknown is will we ever cross the line