Good morning, this is great to hear. Great for everyone to start the new part of life. Gather thoughts, reflect and live through the memories. Start new memories get your mind and body rested. Enjoy your time Mr Sassy.
Rest Mr Sassy, relax, and maybe a giggle when you remind silly memories of your Sassy.
I saw this post and I am so glad that you are still around. I hope you are well Old Friend. So sorry it has to be as a result of losing one of my first contacts here so many years ago.Rest Mr Sassy, relax, and maybe a giggle when you remind silly memories of your Sassy.
Hugs, I know nothing really helps, but hugs anyway.
I know she had a couple of threads she managed on AmPics. I had started one years ago and didn't like the direction it went, so she took it over. Back then, they capped things at 5000 posts, so she started the next.
Mr Sassy, this is wonderful. Can’t imagine your thoughts. The past years you have all shown us strength and love in the toughest times.
When I first got to know Sassy she was a frequent poster in the HowTo. That feels like a lifetime ago but I’m talking 12 years or so.
This is amazing Cat, very well said.Whatever you need to do, you should do.
Grief takes many forms and no one can say what is right for you.
But remember: You are not causing drama, you are not crying to us, you are simply reminding us that the Sassy we knew and loved, that she was more than "just" Sassy.
She was your wife! Your life partner, your Love and world.
You are showing us more than you realise, your honest words and grief. Your way of dealing with every possible circumstance in your life.
It is inspiring. It is eye opening.. it is teaching us something so very, very important:
Behind each avatar, each name, there is a person of flesh and blood, and that is something so easy to forget.
Thank you for bringing some vulnerability and humanity to the boards.
But.. You should never stay here for our sake. Right now, first and foremost you need to take care of yourself.
Thank you for being you.
Please take care of yourself
You do what you feel is right for you. This is far from drama. This is one of the worse possible thing a person can go through. Please don't consider it drama. This is real life issues that needs to be dealt differently with every person. It is so very fresh and new. Please take the time to get yourself stronger physically and mentally. That is important for your family. Stay strong my friend.
Thank you. It just sucks because there are things I know that I needed for her to tell me. Some I knew before(and some after she left us) but I didn't wanna spend her final time hashing anything out--I wanted her as happy as I could but unfortunately its at a price I am paying. I can't talk to my family because again it will hurt them and some things they just don't need to know.Whatever you need to do, you should do.
Grief takes many forms and no one can say what is right for you.
But remember: You are not causing drama, you are not crying to us, you are simply reminding us that the Sassy we knew and loved, that she was more than "just" Sassy.
She was your wife! Your life partner, your Love and world.
You are showing us more than you realise, your honest words and grief. Your way of dealing with every possible circumstance in your life.
It is inspiring. It is eye opening.. it is teaching us something so very, very important:
Behind each avatar, each name, there is a person of flesh and blood, and that is something so easy to forget.
Thank you for bringing some vulnerability and humanity to the boards.
But.. You should never stay here for our sake. Right now, first and foremost you need to take care of yourself.
Thank you for being you.
