Can the men you are having sex with "find the clitoris"?

[mark_j]

Hard to believe, in this day and age, with all the anatomical information available at your fingertips that a guy would not know where to find it. Knowing what to do with it is a different question but even then......

 

[EdwardsOtherSide]

The clit was never a challenge to find, but "treating the clit right"? That is different for every woman. Guys, be man enough to ask her what she likes and LISTEN.
I had a long term girlfriend when young who liked it rough. Like "didn't cum without bruising". It took me a long time to learn to be gentle enough for my later partners.

I was hit or miss with the g-spot until a very dear friend gave me some really clear guidance.

 

[Oshkosh60]

I didn't start until I was nearly sixty. Ex-wife was not interested and the few women I dated before my current partner did not seem like it was a 'thing' for them either. Then I met my partner who had never had an orgasm through penetration. Wow ! Talk about pressure. I had zero clue about what I was doing because of limited experience. I thought my mouth was going to drop off that first time.

I would have then, as now, loved for her to tell me what to do and how to do it to please her ! For god's sake women, tell them please ! We want to give you pleasure but I am certain that everyone is different in what works for them. And for the love of Pete, moan a little so we know we are getting closer and on the right track. An 'oh yes', or 'hmmmm, yeah' would help.

She eventually suggested a few things. Still does not moan like I wish she would to 'give me a sign". It would also be helpful to make a little noise as a warning. Several times I thought she would break my freaking jaw. On one hand I was happy to have pleased her, on the other, I am not certain my insurance would cover that.

Women : please tell us what you need ! WE ARE IDIOTS.

 

[mark_j]

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Women : please tell us what you need ! WE ARE IDIOTS.

Better to say, We can't read your minds.

 

[SpicyBean99]

Yes but hardly know what the fuck to do with it let alone know the concept of edging it.

 

[tristantrotsky]

Yes but hardly know what the fuck to do with it let alone know the concept of edging it.

My tongue is very fond of finding that cute little nub of clitoris, and treating her with loving affection...

 

[Pad_Foot]

There’s more to a “clit” than meets the eye
What we see is just the tip!
https://www.tnaflix.com/big-boobs/How-To-Eat-Pussy/video8391826
Nina get to ALL of it!!?
True or false??

 

[AverageGuy86]

I used that list of examples above to give a general idea! You don't have to see the clitoris to find it and know how to treat it.

I guess I was asking about matters of anatomy. Can every woman's clitoris be seen, or are some hidden by her hood, almost, or completely?

 

[Ellies_adventures]

When I was younger my idea of sex was that it was intercourse, piv. If only i had known back then what I know now.
These days 99% of the time my wife's clit sends shivers through her body before my old fella gets near her pussy. Sometimes her clit gets round 2 or 3 after piv.
I actually watched a netflix doco earlier this week which was around women not knowing their bodies and it was surprising to me that the women being interviewed had no idea where their own clit was. I pray for the general adult female population that this was a biased sampling of the population for the purposes of the doco.

 

[TrailerHitch]

I LOVE eating pussy and I have had women compliment me on my skills. Honestly, if you can't find and pleasure the clitoris can you say you know how to eat pussy? So much to explore and play with, the clitoris, sucking, licking, and sometimes gently nibbling on the labia, and then tongue fucking the soaking wet delicious pussy hole. Damn this is making me want it right now!!

 

[Pad_Foot]

Clit… ok…
Is the picture not showing up?
Look at the picture then the video makes gobs of sense !!

 

[dirk2024]

Where was You Tube when I was a young man?

 

[Abeona1]

Where was You Tube when I was a young man?

This should be compulsory viewing for everyone

 

[Not Normal]

I discovered my first one without the knowledge of what it was. First serious GF and I learned a lot together. We'd done things over our clothes, and with hands, dry humped and all that. As desire grew, oral was the next step. I was committed to making her feel good. My tongue explored and found the spot that really made her sing. I felt like I could draw it, even though I'd only felt it with my tongue.

You know feedback from the clit bearer would be so helpful.

If you're not getting feedback from the clit bearer, it's a good sign you haven't found it or don't know what to do when you do.

 

[Sienna62]

A woman's clit is equivalent to a hard on. And we all know how important bjs are to men. We woman watch and learn and ask how they like it. Men are not made aware of the importance of cunnilingus. I have to stop myself from asking groups of young men, what they know about it. It's the most important part of a woman's body. It should be taught in sex education.
I do have a question
As woman how do we learn to lay back and enjoy the experience? However long it takes.
And the answer to your question is he thinks he does.
Left bit. Up a bit stay there pleeeeeeeasssseee

I LOVE that game … being told higher , lower, THAT, faster , slower , softer ..harder … such a privilege and a joy to give . Pm me anytime .

 

[peterherring425]

Such an interesting subject. I commend you on your courage in posting. It's not just the clitoris though that needs direction, is it?

I think you have put your finger right on it ......just keep pressing that button

 

[silky52]

I think you have put your finger right on it ......just keep pressing that button

Sarcasm is the worst form of wit!

 

[Justhappytobealive]

As I read the responses here I look back and remember this one lady I had dated.

Little petite blond. Giggled a lot. Good natured. And when she was ready to give herself to me I was shocked and surprised to see how large her clitoris was.

And, I remembers that we did not have a regular sexual moment in time but a oral moment.

And that I had never seen a clitoris that large and somehow knew that I would never see another. She had length as well as girth. Being pink in color it seems like a perfect match. Odd….

I wish I could go further into detail. The only think I wanted to say was…. It wasn’t hard to find her clitoris and she came twice.

 

[dingdongditchding]

I dont understand this mystery, it is not like solving derivatives. I started young asking sex partners does that feel good, does this feel good. if not, tell me what you want!

 

[SophieUK]

I discovered my first one without the knowledge of what it was. First serious GF and I learned a lot together. We'd done things over our clothes, and with hands, dry humped and all that. As desire grew, oral was the next step. I was committed to making her feel good. My tongue explored and found the spot that really made her sing. I felt like I could draw it, even though I'd only felt it with my tongue.




If you're not getting feedback from the clit bearer, it's a good sign you haven't found it or don't know what to do when you do.

The ‘clit bearer’
Sounds like something out of Lord of the Rings!

 

[Oshkosh60]

I dont understand this mystery, it is not like solving derivatives. I started young asking sex partners does that feel good, does this feel good. if not, tell me what you want!

And it may happen that night ..... but never again...... It would be weird to have to keep asking for instructions, and I guess it takes them out of the flow of things.

 

[jassybb]

Yes he can & I don't think its that difficult to do so

 

[dingdongditchding]

And it may happen that night ..... but never again...... It would be weird to have to keep asking for instructions, and I guess it takes them out of the flow of things.

yeah, cuz I still ask the same questions today. I asked when I was young and inexperienced.

 

[Oshkosh60]

yeah, cuz I still ask the same questions today. I asked when I was young and inexperienced.

You have to.... I think they keep moving the damn thing around

 

[SophieUK]

You have to.... I think they keep moving the damn thing around

I think the general idea is to keep moving the damn thing around until she asks you not to?