Would you sleep with a married person?

[whoaitzbreezy]

only about 2/3 of the time i was married to them. i've learned my lesson about other peoples spouses. mostly they are greedy and afraid and aren't loyal.

 

[Penus_Flytrap]

It’s the innocent looking ones that you have to be carful of.

Shhh, don't tell anyone that. I'm paranoid enough as it is.

 

[bikerbonez]

yes I have, and i'm married too, admittedly open so my wife knows who i'm going to bed with, i have no problem with women sharing my bed but if they do it's on their head if they have a partner

 

[Utmale48]

Shhh, don't tell anyone that. I'm paranoid enough as it is.

Oooop. Your secret is safe with me.

 

[Britva415]

Been there, done that. It wasn't as dirty (and therefore exciting) as I had hoped. Still holding out hope for an encore.

I mean, it's just sex.

 

[Britva415]

I bet some smartass already said sleeping with their spouse counts as sleeping with a married person

like 30 times

 

[Archie93]

neva

 

[EliseElise]

In theory yes, though I’ve never slept with a married guy. I would be less likely to do it if it’s just a guy who sleeps around a lot and has a young family, more likely to be okay with it if it’s a dead bedroom, very rare for the person to step outside the marriage, and it’s not likely to break up a whole family.

I’d love to say ‘no, I’d never do that!’ But having been in a dead bedroom marriage for a few years before, I get it and would sympathize

 

[irwinfletcher]

In theory yes, though I’ve never slept with a married guy. I would be less likely to do it if it’s just a guy who sleeps around a lot and has a young family, more likely to be okay with it if it’s a dead bedroom, very rare for the person to step outside the marriage, and it’s not likely to break up a whole family.

I’d love to say ‘no, I’d never do that!’ But having been in a dead bedroom marriage for a few years before, I get it and would sympathize

That describes my situation very well.

 

[willi1796]

Yes, I'm working on making it happen

 

[Up4fun&69]

In my younger days, I was naive and an idealist. I didn't sleep with married women in my 20s or 30s. I believed in the sanctity of marriage. I married in my early 30s and when I started to learn about my now ex-wife's indiscretions during our marriage, I think that set the stage for later times with married women. I think I came to realize that while I wouldn't "cheat" and be the cause of the break up of a marriage, many married women have the reason and the freedom to find pleasure outside of their marriage. For example, I've enjoyed several long-term MFM 3somes where, after a bit of time, it was mostly me and the wife on dates, going to nude beaches, spending the night together, etc., all with the husband's knowledge and approval. There have been a few women who were in the process of getting a divorce. There were other women whose marriages had become nothing more than being roommates and were looking for the physical intimacy they hadn't been getting for many years. But whether intentionally or not, I never met a married woman in my local area or on a business trip who caught my eye and was just looking for some sneaky fun behind her husband's back. Just never went there.

 

[MasterDarcy]

I've been propositioned more times than I would like to say.

To answer:

With the husband's consent? No.

Behind the husband's back? No.

I'm very old school when it comes to the sanctity of marriage. I'm very old school with romance and chivalry in general.

It's one of my few hard limits.

It's a no. Under no circumstance.

 

[Looking4marriedbbw99]

Yes and I’m married

 

[cocokittysurprise]

That is a hard no for me.

 

[Looking4marriedbbw99]

It would be a hard yes for me

 

[artgorden]

In my 20s in my first apartment. My bedroom had a common wall withvthe apartment next-door. There was an interracial couple. Black man white woman. I could hear him fucking the shit out of her. I would lay there and stroke my littledick. Every time we crossed paths in the hall I would sneak a glimpse of his crotch. It was beautiful. One day he caught me. He was irritated and called me a little fag. He told me he had a cell mate like me. Then grabbed me by my upper arm with his huge hand, dragged me into his apartment, me down onto my knees and demanded head. Apparently, his wife was working.

 

[bondandmoneypenny]

Admittedly I have.

Again? Sure. We've done it a bunch and won't stop any time soon!

MP

 

[Wetforest]

Not knowingly. I also find married cheaters to be very annoying people because they always find a way to bring up the spouse. The ones that come my way get off on talking about their wives. Constantly bringing them up to talk badly or compare. I may be open to a married couple that is open sexually but not a cheater. I just don’t like or respect the practice of cheating.

 

[Worzel550]

Yess I would

 

[lifeis2short2b]

I did. But I didn't know at the time.

 

[ForgottenSpouse]

I did in my early 20s in the military the officer wives loved cheating on their husbands and ones with enlisted husbands as well. I haven’t since but I probably would today because other half is no longer interested in that area

 

[LeeKee]

I did in my early 20s in the military the officer wives loved cheating on their husbands and ones with enlisted husbands as well. I haven’t since but I probably would today because other half is no longer interested in that area

Very true. Seen alot of the same when I was active duty. Alot.

 

[UnexpectedLuggage]

Technically, I do every time my wife and I have sex.

If you mean someone I'm not married to: that would depend on the circumstances and situation. I know a handful of very attractive married women.

 

[BInowGay]

Only if her husband or his wife knew and approved.

 

[Dcharger]

Been there, done that . . . Married women are the only women that seem interested in me lately. Gggrrrrr