Humiliation?

Humiliation is definitely my primary "kink". I would say most of the kinky things I fantasize about have that element of making me feel embarrassed. For me, specifically, it's kind of the mixing of body shaming and objectification that get to me. The idea of put on display or exposed whether I "want it or not" is very erotic to me. It's not that I want people to see me naked, or anything like that, it's more that in that moment I am seen as a sexual object. Objectified. A feeling that I try to hide from most of the rest of my life. Couple that with learning relatively late in life that body shaming can be an intensely strong feeling, yeah fantasies involving exhibitionism and being seen all hit those buttons.

So when I fantasize about being tied up, for instance, it's really more about not being able to hide myself, and less so about the immobility.
Being a little on the exhibitionist side, although embarrassing i do get a thrill out of being instructed to wear revealing clothing or openly displaying my submissiveness in public. being restrained in a vulnerable position and at the mercy of my partner to do whatever she wishes is one of my weaknesses, the suspence of what is about to befall me is like an aphrodisiac.
 
How about post-orgasm humiliation? For guys, that few minutes after cumming can be super awkward. I had one fun moment recently, where I was fucking my wife and she didn't yet cum when I finished. So she got a little frustrated and made me get the vibrator and finish her off. It wasn't fully humiliating, but the post-orgasm brain I had just wanted to lay over and be done, but instead I'm licking and letting her grind on the vibrator. It was hot that I had no sexual feelings at that moment but had to perform and get her there.
I had an experience where my wife had me naked on our back porch, knowing our neighbors might be able to see us. She gave me a hand job, and after I came, I reached to get my clothes. She stopped me, and said just sit down and talk with me. That post orgasm period, where there is no sexual tension left, can be pretty tense.
She did this to me on more than one occasion.
 
Anyone into humiliation as their primary fetish? Don't get me wrong I love so many things, but nothing puts me over the edge like being degraded and humiliated in the most cruel and mean ways. Am I alone?
I agree with all you said. I also love to be humiliated and degraded also. I am fat (huge belly) with a small cock. My moobs are decent size, but I'm working on that.
 
My wife has recently gotten into this kind of being humiliated. The thought of being submissive whereas she's being forced or taken in whatever manner I, he or they choose turns her on and this feeling of humiliation goes hand in hand with the entire scenario of being ravished and devoured while ummm " airtight "?! Her words not mine 😜
 
When the Missus and I were much younger and we were in a Domme/sub mode for a few days, she dropped me off on Saturday at her friends' trailer at a private campsite kinda in the woods. She had it set up with them that I would do a bunch of seasonal chores for them. I was required to be naked (except for work shoes). I enjoyed that part...until I realized they (both female) were paying no attention whatsoever to my nakedness and became assertively critical of my work. It lasted all afternoon, until the Missus came by to pick me up. They gave her a bad report on my chore performance. She assured them she'd have me stand in the corner for the rest of the evening when we got home. And she did. Talk about objectification!
 
My wife has recently gotten into this kind of being humiliated. The thought of being submissive whereas she's being forced or taken in whatever manner I, he or they choose turns her on and this feeling of humiliation goes hand in hand with the entire scenario of being ravished and devoured while ummm " airtight "?! Her words not mine 😜
Great words!! 🤣
 
Anyone into humiliation as their primary fetish? Don't get me wrong I love so many things, but nothing puts me over the edge like being degraded and humiliated in the most cruel and mean ways. Am I alone?
That's definitely me-I love being made to show my private parts to strangers by my lovers/masters. I also crave being forced into degrading sex with fat, unattractive old men. In fact anything that means I am not in control and can be used
 
The exhibition aspect of humiliation appeals to me. Though I think I would also involve some forms of degradation. Name calling can have a certain power.
 
Getting worked up in your underwear so you leak in them and then having them pulled over your face and forced to jack off can be quite humiliating.

EDIT: To clarify, I mean your (his) own underwear and leaking cum in them.
 
Yes.

Tasks such as sending my sub out grocery shopping right after I've skull fucked her into oblivion.

Mascara streaks painting her face, her face soaked by her salty tears. Her lipstick smeared, her face as red as a strawberry, tousled hair, her throat as raw as an uncooked steak and cum on her lips, on her teeth and the taste of my fresh semen still coating her tongue. Tasting my seed as she mingles with respectable shoppers.

She would be quizzed on how many people have inquired about her wellbeing. Her mission would be have 10 people inquire. She couldn't come home until she reaches that magic number .

It's limited only by the imagination .
 
How about post-orgasm humiliation? For guys, that few minutes after cumming can be super awkward. I had one fun moment recently, where I was fucking my wife and she didn't yet cum when I finished. So she got a little frustrated and made me get the vibrator and finish her off. It wasn't fully humiliating, but the post-orgasm brain I had just wanted to lay over and be done, but instead I'm licking and letting her grind on the vibrator. It was hot that I had no sexual feelings at that moment but had to perform and get her there.
After I cum, I quickly lose all sexual energy/drive. I become nervous/embarrassed and want to cover up or hide. My wife was good at keeping me at her disposal. There were many times where she made me cum or had me make myself cum when we were on our back porch. It was possible that neighbors could see us. She would make me sit with her and we would talk for a while and I had to stay naked. These are some good memories.
 
Yes, bitch, whore, slapper. Anything that makes me feel totally humiliated
When my Lovely Wife Domme Goddess calls me Her slave, sub, bitch or whore, I don't find it the least bit humiliating... it's quite the opposite, as I see those as "terms of endearment!"
 
When my Lovely Wife Domme Goddess calls me Her slave, sub, bitch or whore, I don't find it the least bit humiliating... it's quite the opposite, as I see those as "terms of endearment!"
I agree 100%. It is an honor to serve. However, I do find it erotically humiliating for her to suggest that she might need to tell my buddies what a pantyboy I am or tell her Women friends that I handwashing her intimates. Often, before she allows me to worship pussy, I must tell her why I think I deserve such a privilege. While I am providing my oral service, she will remind me how much more satisfying my tongue is than my cock. Sometimes she she say, “Remind me why I don’t let ‘it’ in me any more.” I have to admit that it is too small to satisfy her, that she prefers her dildo that never gets soft, and is much bigger, and that my premature ejaculation was too frustrating for her. She will say, “Oh yes, now I remember, and that’s why you wear women’s underwear because you aren’t quite a man.”

She is masterful at erotic humiliation! I love her for it! (And for so many other things!)

BTW, I would NEVER disrespect a woman!
 
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