Sass84
Virgin
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- Sep 21, 2022
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Being a little on the exhibitionist side, although embarrassing i do get a thrill out of being instructed to wear revealing clothing or openly displaying my submissiveness in public. being restrained in a vulnerable position and at the mercy of my partner to do whatever she wishes is one of my weaknesses, the suspence of what is about to befall me is like an aphrodisiac.Humiliation is definitely my primary "kink". I would say most of the kinky things I fantasize about have that element of making me feel embarrassed. For me, specifically, it's kind of the mixing of body shaming and objectification that get to me. The idea of put on display or exposed whether I "want it or not" is very erotic to me. It's not that I want people to see me naked, or anything like that, it's more that in that moment I am seen as a sexual object. Objectified. A feeling that I try to hide from most of the rest of my life. Couple that with learning relatively late in life that body shaming can be an intensely strong feeling, yeah fantasies involving exhibitionism and being seen all hit those buttons.
So when I fantasize about being tied up, for instance, it's really more about not being able to hide myself, and less so about the immobility.