I had an experience where my wife had me naked on our back porch, knowing our neighbors might be able to see us. She gave me a hand job, and after I came, I reached to get my clothes. She stopped me, and said just sit down and talk with me. That post orgasm period, where there is no sexual tension left, can be pretty tense.How about post-orgasm humiliation? For guys, that few minutes after cumming can be super awkward. I had one fun moment recently, where I was fucking my wife and she didn't yet cum when I finished. So she got a little frustrated and made me get the vibrator and finish her off. It wasn't fully humiliating, but the post-orgasm brain I had just wanted to lay over and be done, but instead I'm licking and letting her grind on the vibrator. It was hot that I had no sexual feelings at that moment but had to perform and get her there.
She did this to me on more than one occasion.