Women: when your man first expressed a desire to be pegged

[Beandip478]

How did you react? There certainly seems to be a lot more of this going on now, and I perceive it as liberating for both parties, but not too long ago I'm not sure many women would have reacted positively to something that could be perceived as the man expressing a sort of 'feminine nature.'
What do you think?

 

[lovingpantyboy]

Speaking as a man , it was terrifying to finally ask my spouse to peg me. We had been together for a while, had a child , and were looking for something to rekindle our sex life. At one point we were looking at opening our marriage. After a few long conversations I gathered the courage to ask her how she felt about role reversal. She surprised me by saying she was interested and wanted to know more about the extent of how far I wanted to go with it. I just came out and told her I wanted to be pegged, to strap a cock around her waist, and submit to her, to feel her breast on my back as she took me from behind. Her reaction surprised me a little bit, she was excited and suggested that we look into purchasing the things that we needed, harness, dildo, lubricant, training plugs, and toy cleaner. So needless to say her positive reaction has made our sex life better and strengthened our marital relationship along with it. We’ve learned to have open honest conversations and that’s been the best thing to come out of all of this. Thanks for letting me ramble on

 

[Shaglus_Ziegler]

I bought a strap on. I guess the intention was clear. Lol. She’s fucked me very well quite a few times. I’m due for another.

 

[Erosfan]

Speaking as a man , it was terrifying to finally ask my spouse to peg me. We had been together for a while, had a child , and were looking for something to rekindle our sex life. At one point we were looking at opening our marriage. After a few long conversations I gathered the courage to ask her how she felt about role reversal. She surprised me by saying she was interested and wanted to know more about the extent of how far I wanted to go with it. I just came out and told her I wanted to be pegged, to strap a cock around her waist, and submit to her, to feel her breast on my back as she took me from behind. Her reaction surprised me a little bit, she was excited and suggested that we look into purchasing the things that we needed, harness, dildo, lubricant, training plugs, and toy cleaner. So needless to say her positive reaction has made our sex life better and strengthened our marital relationship along with it. We’ve learned to have open honest conversations and that’s been the best thing to come out of all of this. Thanks for letting me ramble on

This is a fantastic story! Thank you for sharing.

 

[Lucien_Al]

Although I had been keen to try anal play my solo attempts had always been less than successful. Our journey started with research we were doing on the health benefits of prostate massage. At the same time we had been listening to some audio books on road trips with one of them being about the joy of anal sex. At first my SO was not that keen but we listened anyway. After a few weeks we discussed the topic a lot and although she was hesitant the resistance she had shown earlier was not as vociferous. By mutual agreement we bought a anal training set which consisted of 3 silicon plugs, a cleaner bulb and a lube syringe. At the same time I saw an Aneros Helix in the same store and had seen good reviews during my research on prostate massage and milking, so I added that to the basket.

We agreed that we would give it a try while on holiday when we had time and no distractions. I was apprehensive as she has expressed some views on her preferences for "manly men" and this may be perceived differently.

The evening arrived and we had agreed that I would be the first recipient. I cleaned up nicely and put a mattress in front of the fireplace and away we went. Without rehashing the event all I can say it was the most mind blowing experience of my life and I basically passed out for a few minutes and have never see so much precum initially and then later, cum. At the time I did suggest that we look at getting a harness for some of her dildos that would be suitable. She was not keen at all so I left it alone. Over the same holiday I used the Helix every time we played and while I loved as part of sex (my nipples get rock hard and super sensitive) I didn't find solo play was very successful.

We tried a few more times and quickly realised that it was great for slowing down the number of times I needed to get up during the night to use the bathroom. This led to my prostate massage becoming a weekly event. We tried for her to use a rubber glove but her fingers are very short and didn't quite hit the spot. From there she started to use her black glass cock shaped dildo on me while kneeling between my legs and that hit the spot every time.

By this point she had said no more about using a harness etc but was saying that kneeling between my legs, using the dildo with one hand while massaging my cock with the other was a bit uncomfortable. To the point where she suggested I try an my knees with my ass in the air to see if she was more comfortable. This surprised me but I was very haappy to oblige. It was much better for both of us and some of my previous concerns of her hesitancy were no longer that big a deal. I suggested we revisit our discussion about using a strapon as it would mean both of her hands free. This time she thought it was a good idea. While researching this I also saw a wearable cock for her so she could hopefully get some pleasure from this too. On this basis I ordered a pair of pull on nylon panties with a reinforced hole in the front which will be perfect for both her 7 & 8 inch silicon dildos. She as suggested that if I kneel over our "wedge" cushion it may work better.

Both have been delivered and I am hoping that we are going to be able to try out both options this week. Really hoping its going to be as good as I anticipate.

 

[Mrs_and_mr]

The first it was her idea. The rest it came up in discussion about kinks and boundaries. The non kinky dominant women thought it was gay.

 

[trucker6142]

How did you react? There certainly seems to be a lot more of this going on now, and I perceive it as liberating for both parties, but not too long ago I'm not sure many women would have reacted positively to something that could be perceived as the man expressing a sort of 'feminine nature.'
What do you think?

This subject came one night with my wife and I while I was finger teasing her ass. As we were watching some gay porn, ( her favorite) I told her if those guys on the screen enjoy the real then so much, I'd be into letting her do me.
Instant fan .
The feeling of something long slipping and a tad wide into the back door drove me nuts.
With her being some what of a big women, we always had trouble finding harness that would fit her. So we stuck to hand pegging , which turned out to be better, cause the she could suck my cock as she fucks me.

 

[Venefica]

Never ...

 

[OlderBtm4U]

Although I had been keen to try anal play my solo attempts had always been less than successful. Our journey started with research we were doing on the health benefits of prostate massage. At the same time we had been listening to some audio books on road trips with one of them being about the joy of anal sex. At first my SO was not that keen but we listened anyway. After a few weeks we discussed the topic a lot and although she was hesitant the resistance she had shown earlier was not as vociferous. By mutual agreement we bought a anal training set which consisted of 3 silicon plugs, a cleaner bulb and a lube syringe. At the same time I saw an Aneros Helix in the same store and had seen good reviews during my research on prostate massage and milking, so I added that to the basket.

We agreed that we would give it a try while on holiday when we had time and no distractions. I was apprehensive as she has expressed some views on her preferences for "manly men" and this may be perceived differently.

The evening arrived and we had agreed that I would be the first recipient. I cleaned up nicely and put a mattress in front of the fireplace and away we went. Without rehashing the event all I can say it was the most mind blowing experience of my life and I basically passed out for a few minutes and have never see so much precum initially and then later, cum. At the time I did suggest that we look at getting a harness for some of her dildos that would be suitable. She was not keen at all so I left it alone. Over the same holiday I used the Helix every time we played and while I loved as part of sex (my nipples get rock hard and super sensitive) I didn't find solo play was very successful.

We tried a few more times and quickly realised that it was great for slowing down the number of times I needed to get up during the night to use the bathroom. This led to my prostate massage becoming a weekly event. We tried for her to use a rubber glove but her fingers are very short and didn't quite hit the spot. From there she started to use her black glass cock shaped dildo on me while kneeling between my legs and that hit the spot every time.

By this point she had said no more about using a harness etc but was saying that kneeling between my legs, using the dildo with one hand while massaging my cock with the other was a bit uncomfortable. To the point where she suggested I try an my knees with my ass in the air to see if she was more comfortable. This surprised me but I was very haappy to oblige. It was much better for both of us and some of my previous concerns of her hesitancy were no longer that big a deal. I suggested we revisit our discussion about using a strapon as it would mean both of her hands free. This time she thought it was a good idea. While researching this I also saw a wearable cock for her so she could hopefully get some pleasure from this too. On this basis I ordered a pair of pull on nylon panties with a reinforced hole in the front which will be perfect for both her 7 & 8 inch silicon dildos. She as suggested that if I kneel over our "wedge" cushion it may work better.

Both have been delivered and I am hoping that we are going to be able to try out both options this week. Really hoping it’s going to be as good as I anticipate.

Thanks for sharing. Looking forward to hearing how it goes from here.

 

[dingdongditchding]

Speaking as a man , it was terrifying to finally ask my spouse to peg me. We had been together for a while, had a child , and were looking for something to rekindle our sex life. At one point we were looking at opening our marriage. After a few long conversations I gathered the courage to ask her how she felt about role reversal. She surprised me by saying she was interested and wanted to know more about the extent of how far I wanted to go with it. I just came out and told her I wanted to be pegged, to strap a cock around her waist, and submit to her, to feel her breast on my back as she took me from behind. Her reaction surprised me a little bit, she was excited and suggested that we look into purchasing the things that we needed, harness, dildo, lubricant, training plugs, and toy cleaner. So needless to say her positive reaction has made our sex life better and strengthened our marital relationship along with it. We’ve learned to have open honest conversations and that’s been the best thing to come out of all of this. Thanks for letting me ramble on

wonderful, great news