What is it with younger women liking older men?

[Norfolkguy49]

I love older men. I need an older man to make me be his little woman traditional stay at home housewife in a strict domestic discipline taken in hand relationship.

Good girl xx

 

[Carmina24]

It’s not just age.
It’s the gravity in his gaze, the patience in his hands, and the quiet knowledge that he knows what to do —
and exactly when to do it.

 

[Mrlighthouse]

there's something about the way they can protect you but also dominate you. And their experience.

Tunred a year older to. 47 dont be shy to say hi

 

[davion2308]

The fact that you're asking confuses me a bit. Did it really happen or are you just throwing out a conversation piece.

I'm 43, I'm successful in a professional way, I have nicer clothes than I did when I was younger, I'm more confident, I stand taller, and I navigate the world with experience and assertiveness.

Women like that. Women like a confident man who's comfortable with himself. I see them and I understand what they're doing in a way I didn't twenty years ago. I can tell the subtlety now and I feel much less influenced by women's attention. They see that and it's suddenly a chase, a hunt, and they have to do some work to get my attention on them. It's a game, mixed with me being a provider and a leader and a masculine presence.

That's the fun. That seems big and obvious but maybe that makes sense for you know.

I'm 43, and I'm with a woman who's mid 30s. It works well for us.

 

[JimDee676]

There's something to be said for understanding how life works. The ups, the downs, when to pivot, and what to expect. This only comes with experience. And many young ladies -- like many young men -- are looking for a guide.

That was what I found so satisfying about the relationships I had with women older than me. One had five years on me; another had 11; and the last had 20.

Not only was the sex extremely satisfying but the conversations were even better. They willingly offered advice about life. They freely showed their bodies and imperfections. Were they about to grace a magazine cover? No, but each was beautiful in her own way -- inside and out. In fact, as I see it, each created a new category of beauty.

Today, in my late 50s, I've noticed younger women will give me a second look. I think what this digital generation enjoys is that I can make conversation and look them directly in the eye. I'm not addicted to my phone. I don't really care about social media. Well, I do but not that much.

Plus I've seen a lot of life. As much as someone else? Not always. But I've tallied up a few victories, racked up few defeats, and successfully made it through some life-altering challenges.

And I'm still going.

Was I good at sex when I was younger? Perhaps not bad. Like anything else, sex is a skill that's learned and it takes time and practice. My advantage is that I more likely know what I'm doing today when engaged in sex than I did 30 plus years ago. And I'm far less inhibited, too.

There's also something about being able to see a woman for who she is. She's more than her boobs, her bottom, her mouth and her vagina. She's equipped with a mind and a personality. An older man is more likely to appreciate the latter than the former. Not that he doesn't notice her bodily accoutrements -- he does -- but he also notices her mind. And there's a chance he's more forth coming with praise than a younger man about her thoughts, observations and experiences. Because he's far less threatened by them.

Those are my .02 cents on the issue.

Of course, many will hold different opinions.

 

[LMWM321]

Yeah, you do keep saying this.

You must have all the women in this thread on ignore

I think most of the women in this thread aren’t actually women.

 

[JimDee676]

I think most of the women in this thread aren’t actually women.

that's a possibility.

 

[Tabby6]

Can't speak for allll the younger women but I've always found older men attractive and so have majoorrriiittyyy of my friends. Guess we all have daddy issues? Lucky u Lol

 

[J D Danger]

Can't speak for allll the younger women but I've always found older men attractive and so have majoorrriiittyyy of my friends. Guess we all have daddy issues? Lucky u Lol

very lucky indeed

 

[Britva415]

I think most of the women in this thread aren’t actually women.

Heh, that's fair. I don't believe that there aren't women who would say those same things, and I don't believe that zero of them are in this thread, but yeah, you're on to something, there.

 

[StrongMaster7]

I'm 65. I'm attracted to women as young as 40 or 45. Older women just seem more in control and able to sense what to do in a given circumstance.

I can understand younger women wanting older, more experienced, maybe less desperate men. The older man may be more financially secure and can pay for everything. There could be a "father image" thing for some women.

I generally go for older women.

 

[Elle4u2use2]

We want daddy

 

[amateur01]

Maturité et expérience

 

[athelticguy04]

Can't speak for allll the younger women but I've always found older men attractive and so have majoorrriiittyyy of my friends. Guess we all have daddy issues? Lucky u Lol

as an older guy,you and your friends can come enjoy me anytime

 

[Nay_Nay01]

All about the money. The dollar bills y’all.

https://people.com/thmb/3WYpJY_fKRaOWzxMWCvjrl8hPNQ=/1500x0/filters:no_upscale():max_bytes(150000):strip_icc():focal(801x399:803x401)/Bill-Belichick-Jordon-Hudson-2-14th-Annual-NFL-Honors-2025-020625-8b458d0d1cee4c83992014e0eba3b758.jpg

 

[subdudeme13]

All about the money. The dollar bills y’all.

Ohhhhhh It's money money money that makes em call ya honey!

 

[subdudeme13]

Can't speak for allll the younger women but I've always found older men attractive and so have majoorrriiittyyy of my friends. Guess we all have daddy issues? Lucky u Lol

Nothing beats experience. You don't have to teach an older guy.

 

[subdudeme13]

Maturité et expérience

I just said that!

 

[CliodhnaOB]

In the last year, I’ve had at least 5 or 6 women in their late twenties to early thirties hit on me. It happened again today. Like, they openly hit on me. They didn’t hide it. Has it always been this way? I never remember younger women hitting on older men when I was younger. It just wasn’t a thing…that I know of.

I mean, I have gray stubble so I don’t look young at all. I always thought when I got this age, NO younger women would ever even look at me. I find it flattering but my mind is perplexed. It seems like something has shifted in the universe, lol. Are older men in style these days? What’s happening?

I've always been attracted to older men, I love the look firstly, grey in the hair, stubble or facial hair, roughness..
Never been attracted to clean baby face look.
Then their is the maturity and experience too

 

[Sienna62]

It’s not just age.
It’s the gravity in his gaze, the patience in his hands, and the quiet knowledge that he knows what to do —
and exactly when to do it.

“ knows what to do “
and confident enough to ask
“ what do you want “

 

[Pabiporffor]

It's a bit like cheese, you sometimes want something a bit on the ripe side but not so ripe it's just a gooey smelly mess.

If you pick someone twice your age when you're in your early 20s thats a guy 40-50, it's exciting and things still work. But once you hit 30 guys double your age are often passed their best. So its best to get it out of your system when you're young.

 

[firefox27eros]

Been invited to watch the football with my older neighbour on his birthday. I’ll take a cake

You will bring home a creampie!

 

[jonnoback]

Been invited to watch the football with my older neighbour on his birthday. I’ll take a cake

How did it go? The visit, as we know the result of the game

 

[MaturemanAJ]

Old guys are hot!
I work with 90% younger people and ine today said I am totally stalking you.
We both know it's a joke as she is like 19

 

[Foxed]

How did it go? The visit, as we know the result of the game

Fun