I'll add to this that if a table shower is offered, absolutely say yes! If you get a chubby during the table shower, don't be shy. Also during the table shower, or really at any and all points during the experience, it is always helpful to provide positive feed back, like, "Oh, that feels good. Thank you so much, your hands are great."Go to a massage parlor that has some of these features:
1. They are open later than one would expect in your area. Like, 2:00 in Manhattan, 10:00 in a smaller city.
2. Go to a place that offers table showers.
3. Check out their on-line ads. Do they show women looking sexy? Does the ad emphasize only threrapeutic massages? (That last one is a negative.
4. Go on line to USA Sex Guide for your area.
When they take you to your room, and leave you to get undressed, get completely naked.
Don't cover yourself with a towell.
Ask for a table shower in advance. That is a great chance to get started and tells them what you want.
Leave the amount of tip expected in your area in a visible place in the room. At least $40.
For me, many places locally don't offer table showers as regularly as they once did. I tend strip right away, and might not wait for them to leave the room. I will also anticipate my first contact with the gal. Usually if she is standing at my head massaging my shoulders or back, I'll gently make contact with her outer thighs and if there is no objection and she doesn't move away, I hold her ass in my hands.