Kinks - how open are you about them?

[ned63]

no one in my family or most all my friends don't know what I like doing. 4 ladies know I like to play with panties. 2 know that Im here and share things. 1 knows I cam. Wish I could find another lady to cam with mmm

 

[BisForBritany]

Probably more open than I should be

 

[YourSecretSanta]

only open in a very small circle.

 

[easyoff]

Probably more open than I should be

You sound like my older sister.

 

[Britva415]

I’m really into BBW. Is that a kink?

Maybe. It could just be having a type.

It could also be a fetish, if you're really, really into them, and you strongly objectify them or their bodies.

 

[lily_wall_]

I luv it when someone I know or already friends with lets slip their kink into the conversation, and the relief they get when I don't run away looking for holy water lol

 

[Utmale48]

Probably more open than I should be

Do tell

 

[Xplrngplsr]

I luv it when someone I know or already friends with lets slip their kink into the conversation, and the relief they get when I don't run away looking for holy water lol

Same. I love when people reveal to me. Just as I love sharing.

 

[UtilityCurve]

Kink is like an extra which makes things hot, or hotter.

You can have hot sex without the kink, and a kink can be hot without the acts of sex.

So the definition basically is when there's a person who sexually enjoys something which generally isn't sexually exciting, or sexual at all, to most people. Whatever that thing is, that's their kink. Obviously not everyone shares it.

It could also be if it's already sexy but just extra hot to some individuals. Your examples of CIM and saliva are both things which most people experience/perceive as sexual or at least sex-adjacent, but some people don't enjoy them, many people merely put up with them as part of the sex, and most people don't lean into them and amplify their importance in sex. So, the people who do lean into them and amplify them are kinky for those things.

And to be distinguished from a fetish, which is the next step.

 

[UtilityCurve]

Care to share some of your kinks

Gladly, via PM!

 

[bisissyhusband1]

I stumbled upon my wife using a dildo. She didn’t see me watching her. We hadn’t had “normal sex” for months. I searched for wife dildo porn and stumbled across pegging porn and became addicted! I watched it for months, seeking hard explicit porn. She caught me watching hard core pegging porn while ramming a dildo up my ass. She asked me how long I had been doing it (months!) and asked me to show her my favourites. She was clearly turned on by what she saw, masturbating vigorously as she watched. Cut to several months later, and my wife pegs me all the time and has even shared my ass with several of her girl friends.

 

[SDyumcum72]

Care to share some of your kinks

Well enjoy a nice pegging, eating every creampie I make, getting jacked off in public, and so much more.

 

[discjockey74]

Don’t mind sharing at all!!!

 

[newhere2learn]

Same. I love when people reveal to me. Just as I love sharing.

Yes, same. Especially if it's someone you'd don't expect, in a normal conversation and they slip up. Suddenly revealing that they're; deeply submissive, or really into choking, or love edging or whatever else their kink may be.

 

[KyleR215]

In person, yeah I am a little shy to admit to my kinks and things that get me off. But anonymously it is easier to be open and not have the judgement and weighing on me

I am open to the point where I will try anything once. With the right partner it is easy to say that. I have had a few conversations here where I probably shared more than I should have. But I am getting there to where I think I can be more open to sharing my kinks and perversions. I am still shy but getting better, I think

 

[lowcollar]

I am open about most of my kinks with my partner. I do pick a careful time to share though.

 

[easyoff]

It depends on who I'm with, but I do give subtle hints to most everyone.

 

[AriesAngyl]

I suppose I also give subtle and sometimes not so subtle hints. Some kinks are easier to chat about than others. Light bondage is always fun and easy to talk about. Others…not so much.

But that is ok. When I find someone adventurous, it lets me come out of my shell faster and open up about the things I like and fantasize about .

 

[sluttymood]

open with those who are welcoming or understand... i hide them from most people

 

[9to5]

I suppose I also give subtle and sometimes not so subtle hints. Some kinks are easier to chat about than others. Light bondage is always fun and easy to talk about. Others…not so much.

But that is ok. When I find someone adventurous, it lets me come out of my shell faster and open up about the things I like and fantasize about .

what others are hard to talk about. you feel the other person would freak out?
I have had a problem just brining up bondage

 

[AriesAngyl]

Yeah for sure. We all have our darker kinky and fetish side to us. These are the things that are harder to bring up. Things like group/sharing, interracial, ageplay. All that can be difficult without the right partner. And maybe even a few others

 

[SirSparky]

what others are hard to talk about. you feel the other person would freak out?
I have had a problem just brining up bondage

Ive also had that problem bringing up certain kinks. My ex wife agreed to try pissing when we were younger. She partook in at amd said she enjoyed it. As the years went on, especially when kids come along, she did it less and less when I asked her. To the point she said she hated it and that I was a pervert. One of the reasons she put down in divorce papers was that I kept sexually coercing her

 

[live4thebj]

Depends on the person. I shared it with a few people. Two were bothered by it. One didn’t care and indulged in it. The other shared the same fetish. Oh and one wasn’t bothered by it. Got me to confess to it by sucking my cock very slowly. My fiancé has no idea and best to leave it like that.

 

[99Freedom]

Yeah for sure. We all have our darker kinky and fetish side to us. These are the things that are harder to bring up. Things like group/sharing, interracial, ageplay. All that can be difficult without the right partner. And maybe even a few others

You had me at “group”

 

[Topher1972]

My biggest kink is anal play. I love my dildos. After or while pounding my hungry hole I cum so hard. I’ve told my wife about this and she’s cool with it. I’ve only told 2 other people. It’s definitely not something to discuss with many.