Why Do women Fake Orgasms?

[NaughtyPartyGirl]

Yes, we all do it. Sometimes I cum while getting fucked, but more often than not I fake it. Actually, I cum more often during foreplay. Why do we do it. Do men really give a shit as long as they get off? Isn't moaning enough? Opinions ladies.

 

[TheVegasMark]

Don't fake it...!!...I will bring you before I get started...I enjoy that drenching wetness that only an O can bring upon my initial entry...!!!

 

[MysticFae]

Yes, we all do it. Sometimes I cum while getting fucked, but more often than not I fake it. Actually, I cum more often during foreplay. Why do we do it. Do men really give a shit as long as they get off? Isn't moaning enough? Opinions ladies.

Luckily I have not had to fake too many of them. I guess I just did it to be nice in the moment.

 

[lil_jenni]

I have never faked one with my Hubby. One, I usually get at least one climax unless something is off with me. If it's not happening for me, I tell him. Sometimes I am fine with that. Sometimes we find a way to get me there. But I have never faked it with him.

With guys other than Hubby... I did and did so often, usually to get it to end when they were trying hard and I knew it was never going to happen. Hell, I've faked it when receiving oral from a guys and for the same reason (although never with oral from a woman). I almost never came from PIV sex or from oral, and didn't really want to back then. I was much better at taking care of myself than they were at doing, well, anything. And I had to be at least buzzed to have sex back then, and even then it often hurt. I had to hit that perfect balance of being drunk enough to really relax and not so drunk I couldn't come. Most of the time, that was impossible so... I faked it. Or I didn't, if it seemed the guy didn't care if I came because he was just using me to get off. I even cut out PIV sex for the most part half way through my second year of college and mainly gave casual BJs to hookups and then took care of myself after. No painful intercourse needed, no faking required. And I always turned own oral from guys too, because again, no faking needed.

I did work at a brothel (a legal one in NV) for a bit in my mid-twenties, and I faked it with nearly every client who did PIV or anal with me because it made them feel special. Well, I think I did. My memories from that time are a bit sus since I was drunk all the time.

 

[Britva415]

Do men really give a shit as long as they get off? Isn't moaning enough? Opinions ladies.

Real moans or fake moans?

 

[NaughtyPartyGirl]

Real moans or fake moans?

Moans are real (mine are anyway). It does feel good. Orgasms don't always happen, no matter what kind of stud the dude thinks he is.

 

[Britva415]

Well, if you're asking whether "moans are enough," it isn't about the moans, it's about the mutual enjoyment, so, if she's faking that, then go back to step 0 and ask yourself "why."

Also - don't ask women what it's like for men.

 

[Bigboobbabe]

I have NEVER faked an orgasm. There is no point since I have become completely in tune with my body.
Meditation, body scan, masturbation are all ways to understand how i feel and what I need.

A few years ago, I met up with a guy from here. Handsome, confident, with a gorgeous cock. I loved sucking that cock.

One day, as he came in my mouth, I started to cum. I was fully dressed and had not touched myself. He was impressed and proud.

I learned my body and my sensuality so I would never have to fake an orgasm.

 

[Not Normal]

I have NEVER faked an orgasm. There is no point since I have become completely in tune with my body.
Meditation, body scan, masturbation are all ways to understand how i feel and what I need.

A few years ago, I met up with a guy from here. Handsome, confident, with a gorgeous cock. I loved sucking that cock.

One day, as he came in my mouth, I started to cum. I was fully dressed and had not touched myself. He was impressed and proud.

I learned my body and my sensuality so I would never have to fake an orgasm.

DAMN, that's H.O.T.

 

[Not Normal]

I always assume that women fake it to get dudes off of them...

 

[LisaMayTurner]

I rarely do, but when I do it's for obvious reasons. Firstly, it's because it is lovely turning a guy on and they spunk profusely if they can see you are really wanting them to come by putting on a writhing jiggly performance as they build up to bursting their champagne cork. Secondly, if I'm wanting to orgasm it helps if I start to trigger off a full orgasm by building up to it, and if the guy can keep enjoying himself then his actions can help push me over the edge into a full orgasm. It;s like a warm up to a session of running or training. But if he's the lazy type who only wants to empty himself and then fall asleep or bugger off, then all I get is the encouraged warm up and no real orgasm.

 

[ElvieG]

I come easily from most sexual acts, but it only takes the slightest distraction at the wrong time to spoil my pleasure, but as I can't/don't want to explain this to him, I fake it. Often, I'm exaggerating my pleasure for his benefit rather than pretending to have an orgasm that didn't happen at all.

 

[LusciousLili]

I wouldn't fake one and never have, I don't see the point. It's not the end of the world if you don't cum, sometimes men don't cum either. I just relax and enjoy whatever happens.

 

[athelticguy04]

I have NEVER faked an orgasm. There is no point since I have become completely in tune with my body.
Meditation, body scan, masturbation are all ways to understand how i feel and what I need.

A few years ago, I met up with a guy from here. Handsome, confident, with a gorgeous cock. I loved sucking that cock.

One day, as he came in my mouth, I started to cum. I was fully dressed and had not touched myself. He was impressed and proud.

I learned my body and my sensuality so I would never have to fake an orgasm.

My type of woman

 

[Ssbbw4u1974]

Guilty!! I was very slutty before I was with my late husband... Like he was the 20th on my list of fucks..

I faked for all 19 guys too... Whether they were performing oral on me or whatnot, faked it all!!
They either tried and failed to get me to orgasm, or they just never tried..

I finally orgasmed with my late husband, but I faked it so bad our first night fucking, the neighbor yelled at me that I was faking as he watered his lawn!! (Window was open)
I faked to get them to cum... Bottom line.

 

[SophieUK]

“I faked to get them to cum... Bottom line“

This

 

[Noor]

I always assume that women fake it to get dudes off of them...

Nah, you just help them with their technique or push them away

 

[Not Normal]

Nah, you just help them with their technique or push them away

That is a very Noor post. I kinda made my night.

 

[HampshireBoy]

My first wife told me once that she had faked a couple of times because she knew that I was holding on for her to cum first and she also knew that for whatever reason she wasn't going to make it from fucking, on at least one occasion she had already cum from oral. After that we agreed that she should just tell me and I'd help her cum afterwards - worked for us.

 

[NaughtyPartyGirl]

Classic Seinfeld scene about fake orgasms...