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Why Do women Fake Orgasms?

NaughtyPartyGirl said:
Yes, we all do it. Sometimes I cum while getting fucked, but more often than not I fake it. Actually, I cum more often during foreplay. Why do we do it. Do men really give a shit as long as they get off? Isn't moaning enough? Opinions ladies.
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Luckily I have not had to fake too many of them. I guess I just did it to be nice in the moment.
 
I have never faked one with my Hubby. One, I usually get at least one climax unless something is off with me. If it's not happening for me, I tell him. Sometimes I am fine with that. Sometimes we find a way to get me there. But I have never faked it with him.

With guys other than Hubby... I did and did so often, usually to get it to end when they were trying hard and I knew it was never going to happen. Hell, I've faked it when receiving oral from a guys and for the same reason (although never with oral from a woman). I almost never came from PIV sex or from oral, and didn't really want to back then. I was much better at taking care of myself than they were at doing, well, anything. And I had to be at least buzzed to have sex back then, and even then it often hurt. I had to hit that perfect balance of being drunk enough to really relax and not so drunk I couldn't come. Most of the time, that was impossible so... I faked it. Or I didn't, if it seemed the guy didn't care if I came because he was just using me to get off. I even cut out PIV sex for the most part half way through my second year of college and mainly gave casual BJs to hookups and then took care of myself after. No painful intercourse needed, no faking required. And I always turned own oral from guys too, because again, no faking needed. ;)

I did work at a brothel (a legal one in NV) for a bit in my mid-twenties, and I faked it with nearly every client who did PIV or anal with me because it made them feel special. Well, I think I did. My memories from that time are a bit sus since I was drunk all the time. 🤷‍♀️
 
Well, if you're asking whether "moans are enough," it isn't about the moans, it's about the mutual enjoyment, so, if she's faking that, then go back to step 0 and ask yourself "why."

Also - don't ask women what it's like for men.
 
I have NEVER faked an orgasm. There is no point since I have become completely in tune with my body.
Meditation, body scan, masturbation are all ways to understand how i feel and what I need.

A few years ago, I met up with a guy from here. Handsome, confident, with a gorgeous cock. I loved sucking that cock.

One day, as he came in my mouth, I started to cum. I was fully dressed and had not touched myself. He was impressed and proud.

I learned my body and my sensuality so I would never have to fake an orgasm.
 
Bigboobbabe said:
I have NEVER faked an orgasm. There is no point since I have become completely in tune with my body.
Meditation, body scan, masturbation are all ways to understand how i feel and what I need.

A few years ago, I met up with a guy from here. Handsome, confident, with a gorgeous cock. I loved sucking that cock.

One day, as he came in my mouth, I started to cum. I was fully dressed and had not touched myself. He was impressed and proud.

I learned my body and my sensuality so I would never have to fake an orgasm.
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DAMN, that's H.O.T.
 
I rarely do, but when I do it's for obvious reasons. Firstly, it's because it is lovely turning a guy on and they spunk profusely if they can see you are really wanting them to come by putting on a writhing jiggly performance as they build up to bursting their champagne cork. Secondly, if I'm wanting to orgasm it helps if I start to trigger off a full orgasm by building up to it, and if the guy can keep enjoying himself then his actions can help push me over the edge into a full orgasm. It;s like a warm up to a session of running or training. But if he's the lazy type who only wants to empty himself and then fall asleep or bugger off, then all I get is the encouraged warm up and no real orgasm.
 
I come easily from most sexual acts, but it only takes the slightest distraction at the wrong time to spoil my pleasure, but as I can't/don't want to explain this to him, I fake it. Often, I'm exaggerating my pleasure for his benefit rather than pretending to have an orgasm that didn't happen at all.
 
Bigboobbabe said:
I have NEVER faked an orgasm. There is no point since I have become completely in tune with my body.
Meditation, body scan, masturbation are all ways to understand how i feel and what I need.

A few years ago, I met up with a guy from here. Handsome, confident, with a gorgeous cock. I loved sucking that cock.

One day, as he came in my mouth, I started to cum. I was fully dressed and had not touched myself. He was impressed and proud.

I learned my body and my sensuality so I would never have to fake an orgasm.
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My type of woman
 
Guilty!! I was very slutty before I was with my late husband... Like he was the 20th on my list of fucks..

I faked for all 19 guys too... Whether they were performing oral on me or whatnot, faked it all!!
They either tried and failed to get me to orgasm, or they just never tried..

I finally orgasmed with my late husband, but I faked it so bad our first night fucking, the neighbor yelled at me that I was faking as he watered his lawn!! (Window was open)
I faked to get them to cum... Bottom line.
 
My first wife told me once that she had faked a couple of times because she knew that I was holding on for her to cum first and she also knew that for whatever reason she wasn't going to make it from fucking, on at least one occasion she had already cum from oral. After that we agreed that she should just tell me and I'd help her cum afterwards - worked for us.
 
In a perfect world guys would give a female an orgasm first before his, at least that is what I try to do. Not so sure now after reading this topic though. There should also be a time limit, maybe after 30 minutes of trying both should realize "it ain't gonna happen"? Never happened to me but now it makes me wonder if it's possible for a guy to fake an orgasm, where he is still hard yet for some reason he can't climax? Maybe he is tired, cramping up, whatever, just needs a reason to rest so he fakes an orgasm? Not sure though how to explain no cum....
 
I have a bee in my bonnet about this.
Clits are tiny, don't show. Hidden away.
We aren't taught where it is, what it does or how to use it.
Name me a book just on that.

So we learn on the job or animal instinct.
So we never learn to relax, take our time or put ourselves first. It's all about the man.
So then we fake it because we feel pressured.
 
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