What brought you to lit?

Me ex and I just maxed out and grew apart. Resentment crept in.

I would have stayed married, but she had an affair and fell in love with someone else. She ended it.

She gave me the biggest favor i could’ve ever asked for. I just didn’t know it at the time.

We’re both much happier and our kids are doing quite well.

And my (now) wife and I have a great sex life.

Life is too short.
thanks. Wasn't sure if it was wrong or rude of me to ask. After 20 years married, wife had shut down and seems to maneuvered and manipulated the situation to where she wants me to be the one to pull the plug OR she is biding time for the right moment to hand me papers. But the emotional void, the coldness. Its rough. But I see it as if shes willing to put me thru all this its making it easier to part.
 
Me ex and I just maxed out and grew apart. Resentment crept in.

I would have stayed married, but she had an affair and fell in love with someone else. She ended it.

She gave me the biggest favor i could’ve ever asked for. I just didn’t know it at the time.

We’re both much happier and our kids are doing quite well.

And my (now) wife and I have a great sex life.

Life is too short.
thanks. Wasn't sure if it was wrong or rude of me to ask. After 20 years married, wife had shut down and seems to maneuvered and manipulated the situation to where she wants me to be the one to pull the plug OR she is biding time for the right moment to hand me papers. But the emotional void, the coldness. Its making it easier to part ways.
 
thanks. Wasn't sure if it was wrong or rude of me to ask. After 20 years married, wife had shut down and seems to maneuvered and manipulated the situation to where she wants me to be the one to pull the plug OR she is biding time for the right moment to hand me papers. But the emotional void, the coldness. Its rough. But I see it as if shes willing to put me thru all this its making it easier to part.
No problem at all.

Everyone's situation is unique. I wish you all the best in maneuvering thru this situation.

Good luck.
 
It was a confluence of several factors. One was the end of my marriage to a formerly open, adventurous woman who, like myself, was a lifelong nudist. But her growing drinking problem, culminating with a serious solo car accident which led to emptying my bank accounts to cover the costs, and a number of affairs brought that life chapter to a close. Soon after, I met an English woman who wrote erotica and owned a successful UK publishing company. As a writer myself and a lover of the written word, I learned to appreciate erotica and sought out more to read and to broaden my exposure to various aspects of human sexuality. As a now single man, I was looking for like-minded, adventurous people with whom to share talk, quiet times, and fun. And becoming involved with long-time nudist friends who brought me into their relationship for MFM, MF, MMF, and then MM fun and freedom, I wanted to find more such people. All of those things brought me here many years ago, and I continue to enjoy it. I just wish I could find those like-minded people in my area for talk, social times, and fun.
 
It was the members' erotic fiction in the beginning, then the forum caught, and holds, my interest.

Via the forum, and some supportive members, my long suppressed urges in bisexuality were rekindled and I'm able to share and discuss thoughts and feelings here without judgment or shame and that was something I'd long craved.
 
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Someone suggested that I post a story, which I did. I had this delusion that this was some little known site where it would be nice to chat with women about well mostly sex.
Turns out lit is a male dominated site, where many women are tentative to interact with guys. Yes I know there are a few women who constantly post and yes I have had some conversation with some women. But overall a little disappointed. At this point I'm hooked on lit crack.
 
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The stories based on bi and cd male sex drew me into Lit for years before I started my account. I've always been turned on by the mental images authors' create, putting myself into the action mentally. I've been inspired to recreate some of the scenes involving submissive sex with strangers in public places. Now, the interactions with Lit members in hot chats are a constant lure for the hot kinky sexual scenarios we share.
 
reading the bondage stories here, searching for stories led me here than to the forum, chatted with a lot of nice people. still check out the new stories daily
 
A well written erotic story is worth a hundred porn videos. When my mind has to visualize what is described, it is so much more arousing.

I used to read letters to Penthouse, or their forums way back in the day. Finding Lit was a dream cum true.

I am so thankful to the many authors that have taken my mind to amazing new experiences.
 
Ok, I'll try to keep this short. Wife and I have been married almost 20 years. Over time the sex has gotten very irregular and routine. Great sex, just not meeting my kink needs. I've always been far more kinky than my wife but she indulges SOME of my kink, not much.

I stumbled on a chat ai site that got my interest. I found I really enjoy the interactive stories, if you will. However, the AI's one goal is always to steer you back to sex (obviously) and it constantly wants to throw itself at you like a mindless slut. That's not my thing.

So now lit, im no stranger to lit and used to come here regularly many years ago but I stopped (different story). I came here because I want real interactions with truly independent thinking people. I don't care about your politics, your sexual preferences. I'm not here to do anything other than enjoy the diverseness of other people crazy and kinky like me.

I would love to hear others' stories or whatever comments you feel you'd like to add.
Hello @Jw75766,
The stories brought me here, a way to, vicariously I suppose, indulge my enduring fascination both with people and their ideas/experiences. For five years I just read... then I found the courage, based on what I read, to submit my own work. Onward and upward as they say.
Deepest respects,
D.
 
I joined around 40 years ago I think. It was the women/women stories I liked. My wife wanted it bad. The first time we watched two women porn, she got wetter than I had ever seen her. Totally soaking her panties. It embarrassed her so bad she wouldn't watch it anymore. But she always said I could bring another women home if I could find one.
 
Initially reading the stories then drifted into the forum bit. like that you can share your kinkiest fantasies with strangers without being judged
 
I joined around 40 years ago I think. It was the women/women stories I liked. My wife wanted it bad. The first time we watched two women porn, she got wetter than I had ever seen her. Totally soaking her panties. It embarrassed her so bad she wouldn't watch it anymore. But she always said I could bring another women home if I could find one.
I started off in the Penthouse Magazine forum reading everything, but, moving from MF letters to focusing on the woman/woman stories (I love lipstick lesbian sex), but found myself also sampling (and then devouring) the MFM, MMF and then MM "stories". I decided that my interests had expanded beyond "straight" to include "bisexual" and "homosexual" topics. I wound up experiencing MF (of course) and MM sex, but never the 3somes, or seeing my wife enjoy an FF experience, that I fantasized about. Although, I'd be more than happy to indulge my wife in such "lipstick lesbian" liaisons, my wife is decidedly "straight", so my fantasies remain unfulfilled.

I happened upon Lit a few years ago during my insatiable search of online porn to satisfy my yearnings. I began reading stories, then contributing stories, then checking out the forums along with emailing, including a hot online "affair" with a couple from the UK, then winding up in the "chat". It's been a sexually satisfying erotic progression.

The sexual life of me and my wife has basically come to an end - because of age related and medical issues - so I vicariously enjoy these sexual experiences by reading and responding to posts. That's why I'm still here.
 
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Well I first discovered Lit when it was suggested that I post a story.
I got hooked on the forums as I read some posts from women, the playground is a fluff thread, I had some pretty good conversations on DM with a few women. In my mind I thought this was some secret site where women are more frequent and easier to talk to. In reality it's a male dominated site where guys either act like assess, share there gay experiences or pretty much make up threads that beg women to respond too.
At this point I'm addicted to the site where I now either answer some threads honestly, or sarcastic answer others. It's interesting how many guys/ gals appreciate that. Where others get super angry.
Bottom line the few lovely ladies keep me hooked. 🥰
 
I love the stories. Then joined the forums to make new friends and have great conversations. If a playmate comes along great but happy with friendships
 
man I dont remember how I got here but I love it here. The stories and the boards are great. I have met some really cool people here and made some friends. Like that I can talk about stuff to people here and they understand that the things that make you feel good and get you excited are ok and you are not alone in those feelings.
 
I want to write my memoirs. Though I’m still young, I’ve had an amazingly full life with way more sex, travel and good luck than I ever deserved. I saw this website as a way to develop my writing skills.

As it happens, I’m also a hyoersexual exhibitionist who has to go off her meds because she’s seven weeks pregnant. So I browse stories, gather inspiration, and - let’s be honest - sometimes spam threads with my old cam girl material.

Over four years on Privacy and OnlyFans, I created bucketloads of content. I’m proud of all of it - of the guts and initiative it took to produce. It’ll all form the foundation of my memoirs… once I figure out how to translate all those sticky images into words.🤣
 
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