What brought you to lit?

[ShaneoD]

I was in a sexless marriage and decided I deserved more. We separated and I discovered Lit. I’ve enjoyed “meeting” and chatting with people and expressing myself! I’m now divorced from the ex and I’ve remarried. Our sex life is amazing and he encourages me to post my pics on Lit, which is a huge turn on for me as an exhibitionist!

We're all thankful you found lit

 

[LostHorizon]

A dirty mind.

 

[Sapphira_Vex]

I have been reading regularly on the site for years. Just stumbled across it ages ago. But then I started writing my own stuff on fet and thought id see if it got accepted on here and it did. Now I’m hooked on writing

 

[Jw75766]

I have been reading regularly on the site for years. Just stumbled across it ages ago. But then I started writing my own stuff on fet and thought id see if it got accepted on here and it did. Now I’m hooked on writing

Writing is a great way to exercise your mind, express feelings that can sometimes be hard to articulate with words. The lit community seems to be a pretty awesome bunch!

 

[Sweetdreams71]

Hopefully not a bad surprise?

Well, it's been a several year struggle, but I am still married to him at the moment.

 

[MindYaBitness]

Boredom and a love of naughty words

 

[LatinaCarmen1980]

I don't honestly remember, but I have enjoyed the meaningful connections I've made over the years. Yes, they do exist.

 

[CuriousRick]

I found the stories many years ago. A few years ago i was a bit bored and lonely, and joined the forums

 

[LisaMayTurner]

Three letters. Starts with an "F" and ends with an "N"

 

[ShaneoD]

I enjoyed the stories, then the threads, then realized you could DM each other (anyone remember the ones that jumped out when you changed screen) then became friends with some great people. (I should probably have wedged in the beautiful ladies near the start, and my complete inability to find my way around the old site too)

 

[Noone45]

Three letters. Starts with an "F" and ends with an "N"

Fun?

 

[TorontoShane]

Basically the stories and then the forum. Appreciate a sense of openness where people are safe to explore without judgement. Loved the stories realizing how cathartic it must be to write some of the topics, and the same for the forum, and just appreciate connecting with others.

 

[Jw75766]

Boredom and a love of naughty words

Dirty words are so much fuuuunnnn!!!

 

[kinkyyjulia]

Oh, many......

Share some!

 

[lliicckkss]

demise of yahoo

 

[Jw75766]

I enjoyed the stories, then the threads, then realized you could DM each other (anyone remember the ones that jumped out when you changed screen) then became friends with some great people. (I should probably have wedged in the beautiful ladies near the start, and my complete inability to find my way around the old site too)

Yea, I just ventured into the threads and dm myself this year. Used to just read the stories. For better or worse, here I am.... Probably sometimes getting under people's skin with my excessive posting (this does not mean what it likely sounds like...).

 

[Jw75766]

Share some!

I love the idea of outdoor sex. Not in people's faces but the excitement of potentially being caught. Hiking trails, lake or river.... Sex on a beach is amazing! Granted, taking precautions about getting sand in intimate places is a must. Neither participant enjoys getting their intimate areas sanded raw....

I love public groping. Again, not in people's faces, waiting for a time where no one is looking to act, again that fear of getting caught.

Finding the right person to explore pegging would be exciting. Feeling completely at the mercy of another, being able to put that much trust in another is very much a turn on for me. Wife would never go for it though. She would be revolted by the idea.

Since coming here on lit, I've discovered different kinds of fantasies I never considered before, couple examples, spit play, orgasm denial.

I'm all about letting a woman take charge. I definitely enjoy being in charge too, however, it gets old after a while. Allowing myself to follow, be vulnerable and at the mercy of another, having that strong woman take over, is very appealing as long as it's done out of respect and not torment.

Hope that gives a decent answer to your question.

 

[Carolina843]

Wild family fantasies

 

[Jw75766]

Wild family fantasies

Care to elaborate?

 

[FiddlerStrings]

Overactive imagination and hyperactive sex drive.

 

[Jw75766]

Overactive imagination and hyperactive sex drive.

I bet 99% of litsters have that same problem! Great place to address those issues!!

 

[Wonderer67]

About 15 yo, I was stuck in a loveless and sexless marriage. I had sorta fucked up.

I read a lot of stories. Found the forum but barely lurked.

We divorced in 2012, met my (now) wife shortly thereafter. She has a great sexual appetite. We explored lit together, explored our kinks together.

I lurked for a couple of years and joined in 2020.

 

[Jw75766]

About 15 yo, I was stuck in a loveless and sexless marriage. I had sorta fucked up.

I read a lot of stories. Found the forum but barely lurked.

We divorced in 2012, met my (now) wife shortly thereafter. She has a great sexual appetite. We explored lit together, explored our kinks together.

I lurked for a couple of years and joined in 2020.

That's awesome that you and your wife explore lit together! I bet you have some fun conversations and find new avenues to explore regularly.

 

[LeeKee]

About 15 yo, I was stuck in a loveless and sexless marriage. I had sorta fucked up.

I read a lot of stories. Found the forum but barely lurked.

We divorced in 2012, met my (now) wife shortly thereafter. She has a great sexual appetite. We explored lit together, explored our kinks together.

I lurked for a couple of years and joined in 2020.

Sad you hear about your first marriage. If I may ask, how long was it loveless&sexless before you had enough and decided to pull the plug? And was it difficult or not as difficult?

 

[Wonderer67]

Sad you hear about your first marriage. If I may ask, how long was it loveless&sexless before you had enough and decided to pull the plug? And was it difficult or not as difficult?

Me ex and I just maxed out and grew apart. Resentment crept in.

I would have stayed married, but she had an affair and fell in love with someone else. She ended it.

She gave me the biggest favor i could’ve ever asked for. I just didn’t know it at the time.

We’re both much happier and our kids are doing quite well.

And my (now) wife and I have a great sex life.

Life is too short.