Are you dominant or submissive

Tried switching once and I was so stressed out. I couldn’t give the other person what they needed, ended up feeling pretty bad. Definitely more submissive than not, but very beginner level 🫣
 
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Question: when I ask, "May I kiss and tongue your asshole?" -- who is influencing whom?


Yes, very dumb question. That's why I don’t make the decisions
 
The more that I learn and experiment with, the more submissive I believe I am. I don't know that I will ever get to experience many things due to how selective I am in partners. I have trust issues on top of that, lol.
 
I’m dominant. I know what I like and enjoy the control. I also like to give a submissive exactly what she needs and teasing her with it. It’s like an art and very fulfilling. I’m also fairly hung and so I like that excitement and craving desire in her eyes.
 
I am an Am dom/advanced rigger, love the look of rope and the helplessness/immovability of the Sub combined with the control of the situation. Favorite thing about being a rigger is the look of rope still on the skin after the rope has been removed.
 
I can honestly say I enjoy both. We don't practice it as a lifestyle, so it is easier to slip in and out of both roles. Some days I want to be forceful and other times I want to just relax and enjoy the attention.
 
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