iwatchus
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vacations are good backdrops for almost anything to happen.Do substantive events happen in the summer?
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vacations are good backdrops for almost anything to happen.Do substantive events happen in the summer?
This writer does…Do you think the average reader bothers with the rules?
This writer does…
Such faulty reasoning, Simon.
Your logic in that post was faulty, and it's not hard to point it out. What you are saying is:How? Don't just state big generalizations. Defend them.
Wait, you're saying that a Nude Day is actually a real holiday? Sir, you've written way too many E&V stories for me to ever believe that!Am I the only one who thinks the themes are chosen for calendar events spaced about two months apart?
My Winter Holidays winner has more than twice as many views and votes, and almost nine times as many comments as my next most viewed story.
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Yup; it's called survivorship bias.Laurel and Manu have been running the website for 25 years.
The website is successful and popular.
Therefore, everything they did about the website must have been the right choice.
Your Burden story could very easily be a Winter Holidays story. Sis is feeling down and crashes on the couch during the Holidays.I don't really expect all of them to appeal to me, but it's a little disappointing that none of them really do, and they don't seem to really change at all, at least not much. So yeah, I haven't done them.
Yeah, I think that's kinda the difference between how some of us think of these things and how you seem to. Not that one or the other is good or bad, it's what it is.Your Burden story could very easily be a Winter Holidays story. Sis is feeling down and crashes on the couch during the Holidays.
Being firmly on the Voyeur side of the category, I think Nude Day is probably the least erotic of the themes. The whole thrill of voyeurism is that it's forbidden, secret, shameful. Well, that and getting to see naked people. So half the thrill, I suppose.Wait, you're saying that a Nude Day is actually a real holiday? Sir, you've written way too many E&V stories for me to ever believe that!
Also known as a Just So story. Explaining how something happened based on circumstantial evidence that doesn't necessarily have anything to do with the real reason.Yup; it's called survivorship bias.
If you want to see more examples, just read anything written by a successful Silicon Valley entrepreneur, where he tries to convince you why those particular things he did for his startup were undoubtedly the cause of its success (i.e., getting bought up by Google et al.).
In reality, he almost certainly just got lucky, being at the right place at the right time, and whatever he imagines contributed to his success could equally likely have been neutral or even detrimental to it.
I see you want to get to the grit of this. So let's do it. It's interesting you can take what I said and interpret it as, “It’s how it’s always been, nothing will change.” That was never said, implied or insinuated by me.I think that’s a weird way of putting things. I see variants of that statement a lot around here. “It’s how it’s always been, nothing will change.”
Sure, might be true, but I see nothing wrong with talking about a different approach. Most online communities ossify if they don’t change over time. We do seem to have Zombie comps here. But hey, people like Zombies.
Also you seem to think I’m lying awake at night worrying about this. I was more interested in what people thought. It seems some agree with me and some don’t. Saying “It’s what it is, deal with it!” appears to be something longstanding members reach for very easily.
Perhaps this is part of why this place feels like a club for long-term members, not an organic community where new ideas are welcome.
I get it. I’ll let you get back to the normal topics being disussed ad infinitum. Much more comfortable.
Thanks. I found it challenging to come up with an original story when all I wanted to do was sneak off to the lake with my sister, but in the end I enjoyed the contest. It would just be nice to have more variety of contests, perhaps with a three year cycle or something.I may be biased because my nude day story was my favorite thing I have written. But I thought there were some clever valid entries. See @Actingup entry about the music festival as an example
Your logic in that post was faulty, and it's not hard to point it out. What you are saying is:
Laurel and Manu have been running the website for 25 years.
The website is successful and popular.
Therefore, everything they did about the website must have been the right choice.
For all we know, the contests could have been detrimental to Literotica's success, and other things could have offset their negative effect.
Without some kind of thorough analysis, you can't possibly know which choices helped and which didn't. It's like noting that a popular pastry shop has red shelves, and because the shop is successful, red shelves must have been helpful to the business. I am sure you realize that such a conclusion is faulty.
My preference would be to have no more than one chapter of a story in any leader board. That would allow for more standalone stories to rise higher on the leader boards. Off topic I realize, but something that has bugged me for quite some time.But the leader boards are dominated by chapter x of some series.
Someone in a different thread a few months ago suggested two leaderboards, one for series, one for solo stories. I liked that idea and would make it simpler for readers to find what they wanted and let authors writing stand alone stories to get more props.My preference would be to have no more than one chapter of a story in any leader board. That would allow for more standalone stories to rise higher on the leader boards. Off topic I realize, but something that has bugged me for quite some time.
I can feel the steam coming off of your keyboard. What I see a lot here is being dismissive of other people, especially new people, and then getting super upset when this is pointed out, or - heaven forbid - their views are dismissed. I have to add you are far from the worst offender in this respect. But it happens a lot. If you can’t see that, then that’s probably part of the problem.I see you want to get to the grit of this. So let's do it. It's interesting you can take what I said and interpret it as, “It’s how it’s always been, nothing will change.” That was never said, implied or insinuated by me.
What I did say was to try to change it by suggesting it to the powers that be. If they won't change, accept it and move on. Your interpretation and my statement aren't close to the same thing. What you attempted can be classified as a "Red Herring" coupled with "An Appeal to Emotion," informal logic fallacy.
And no, I do not believe you were "interested in what people thought". Had you been, you would have couched it in much different terms. And you wouldn't be taking what I said as a dismissal of your opinion, but only as it was offered, my view of the "problem".
It feels to me like you are looking for validation of your opinion. And when someone disagrees with it, you retreat to the "they are ossified around here and not an organic community where new ideas are welcome" dismissal of anyone else's view.
Additionally, because I don't see the same view as you, you are now going to go into the "it's a good ol' boys club and that's what's wrong with it here" foofaraw? FFS. Yes, most who post here have been around a long time, but if you open your eyes and observe the goings-on, you'll find that there are a lot of tussles that go on, because "the club" isn't all of a like mind. In fact, I'll go so far as to say most have a dearly held opinion on almost everything (yes, me too).
However, it's much easier to dismiss it as a good 'ol boys club instead of observing, absorbing and actually thinking about what's said. It's much more comfortable to snuggle down in that safe mental place where you know everything and never have to consider a challenge to your beliefs.
Before I end, let me address your original premise. You were griping about the contests being too restrictive because they had a theme writers were required to adhere to. I don't agree it's a problem, but I get that you do.
If we don't like something we have things we can do about it: try to change it, accept it as is AND/OR gripe (or discuss) it ad nauseam. That is just plain facts. I can't see more options to be used. If there are more, please feel free to show them to me.
And with that me thinks I've emptied my craw and will be quiet for a spell. Yeah, don't think I can't hear the sighs of relief.
Comshaw
Without the theme, the contest size could be huge, overwhelming the readers with sheer size, and confusing them with unpredictable content. I doubt any reader wants to pick stories off a list of a thousand stories with miscellaneous content. They get that every day from the New list.
Someone in a different thread a few months ago suggested two leaderboards, one for series, one for solo stories. I liked that idea and would make it simpler for readers to find what they wanted and let authors writing stand alone stories to get more props.
Everything you said is 100% Grade A "poor me" bull fertilizer, except for us arguing with each other. Yes we do, but in so doing we grow and learn as authors and people.I can feel the steam coming off of your keyboard. What I see a lot here is being dismissive of other people, especially new people, and then getting super upset when this is pointed out, or - heaven forbid - their views are dismissed. I have to add you are far from the worst offender in this respect. But it happens a lot. If you can’t see that, then that’s probably part of the problem.
TBH many on-line communities are like this, it’s not a special Lit problem.
I can see you arguing with each other, it feels like youve been doing it for decades. But it often feels (emotion here, not science) that the one thing old timers have in common is disdain for young whippersnappers who don’t understand how things are here, or question it.
Search your feelings, you know it to be true.