Sugar daddies, are they even real?lol

[Good_girl_4_u]

Never mind wow

 

[esclaro]

I don't think you get out much. Sugar daddies and babies are all over the place. Oy!

 

[Good_girl_4_u]

I don't think you get out much. Sugar daddies and babies are all over the place. Oy!

Well, maybe where you live lol

 

[esclaro]

Well, maybe where you live lol

Everywhere in the world there are old men with money and young chicks with pussy. A match made in heaven. If you are not able to find a sugar daddy you are not trying very hard! Hell, even Lit has its share!

 

[Good_girl_4_u]

Well that is true. Maybe I'll get lucky on lit lol. I'm to shy to walk up to some stranger like that though irl lol.

 

[esclaro]

Well that is true. Maybe I'll get lucky on lit lol. I'm to shy to walk up to some stranger like that though irl lol.

You don't have to walk up to a stranger. This is why they invented the Internet.

 

[Good_girl_4_u]

Lol. I've looked those site up they seem. Kinda phoney. Lol.thank you for the suggestions though..I really appreciate it. I'll try some more sides lol

 

[Meekly_Anna]

Men who grant women financial benefits in exchange for the pretence of mental closeness and sexual affection. The technical term is prostitution. Everything else is just pretty words.

 

[Good_girl_4_u]

Yeah but I'm not talking sexual. I've heard of men who just want a woman to pretend to give a shit. Someone to talk to and whatnot. I'm not saying there aren't a lot who expect favors

 

[Poetdontknowit]

There are certainly older guys with cash who would like companionship with someone younger, and prettier I suppose. Most of those though... yeah, looking for sex. Horny is powerful. But yeah, if cash is exchanged it's still prostitution, under the guise of a relationship. I think finding someone you connect with is more fulfilling.

 

[Poetdontknowit]

And, to be fair, a strong independent woman is sexy as hell. Especially if she makes it on her own. Personally I wouldn't pay for play... or time. I mean, not if a real spark was impossible. If I'm going to disappoint, Imma do that for free.

 

[esclaro]

Men who grant women financial benefits in exchange for the pretence of mental closeness and sexual affection. The technical term is prostitution. Everything else is just pretty words.

How about man who goes to work every day while the woman stays home and takes care of him and the house? Uncommon today but very common back in the day.

I did various kinds of professional work during my career. I did not consider myself superior to any sex worker. We were both selling our time and skills.

 

[esclaro]

Why is it when people cannot come up with a cogent argument, they simply say, well you are nothing but a prostitute. As though that is the worst and lowest thing in the world. I can easily think of much worse.

 

[Meekly_Anna]

How about man who goes to work every day while the woman stays home and takes care of him and the house? Uncommon today but very common back in the day.

I did various kinds of professional work during my career. I did not consider myself superior to any sex worker. We were both selling our time and skills.

Did I say I feel superior?
It's just a question of taxonomy.
And I'm working full time.

 

[esclaro]

Did I say I feel superior?
It's just a question of taxonomy.
And I'm working full time.

No, I don't think it is a question of taxonomy. Otherwise you would have used some other term like sex worker. Of course you could have said, dirty whore, so I guess kudos are in order for saying prostitute.

 

[Meekly_Anna]

No, I don't think it is a question of taxonomy. Otherwise you would have used some other term like sex worker. Of course you could have said, dirty whore, so I guess kudos are in order for saying prostitute.

A person receiving money for taking part in sexual acts is a prostitute. Everything else is either an insult or whitewashing.
I have no problem with prostitution, provided people selling it doing that on their free will, have health and social insurance and are meeting their customers on equal terms.

 

[esclaro]

A person receiving money for taking part in sexual acts is a prostitute. Everything else is either an insult or whitewashing.
I have no problem with prostitution, provided people selling it doing that on their free will, have health and social insurance and are meeting their customers on equal terms.

Oh, God forbid we whitewash what those filthy sluts are doing by calling it sex work.

 

[Meekly_Anna]

Oh, God forbid we whitewash what those filthy sluts are doing by calling it sex work.

You used the terms slut and filthy. Not me

 

[esclaro]

From Merriam-Webster,

"The words prostitute and prostitution in their senses relating to sex work are now increasingly rejected as offensive.
"… the word 'prostitute' itself has very much fallen out of favor. Very few people who are engaged in sex work describe themselves as prostitutes outside their own communities, and in
some circles the word prostitute is considered a derogatory term. …"
—Melissa Gira Grant, quoted at Vox.com, 11 Aug. 2014

 

[esclaro]

Taxonomy my ass!

 

[esclaro]

You used the terms slut and filthy. Not me

Good for you, Karen.

 

[Meekly_Anna]

Good for you, Karen.

I don't know who you are, I don't know where you come from, I don't know your name and I don't care about any of these things. You haven't contributed anything meaningful to any discussion, you just stand out because of your belief that your opinion alone is relevant.
You are wrong about that. Neither you nor your opinion are relevant. Proof? You are trying to insult me, even though you neither know me nor know anything about me and I have written nothing that would justify an insult.
You are welcome to continue to masturbate your opinion in this thread, but I will not follow your comments any further.
I wish you a pleasant rest of your life.

 

[SusanHoward]

I enjoy men who treat me well and like to see me looking nice!

 

[esclaro]

I don't know who you are, I don't know where you come from, I don't know your name and I don't care about any of these things. You haven't contributed anything meaningful to any discussion, you just stand out because of your belief that your opinion alone is relevant.
You are wrong about that. Neither you nor your opinion are relevant. Proof? You are trying to insult me, even though you neither know me nor know anything about me and I have written nothing that would justify an insult.
You are welcome to continue to masturbate your opinion in this thread, but I will not follow your comments any further.
I wish you a pleasant rest of your life.

Actually I pointed out that insisting on using the words prostitute and prostitution is now considered offensive. Words which you use to strike a blow against those who do sex work. Clearly YOU think the only opinion that matters is yours as a privileged white woman who works full time!

 

[lovecraft68]

My cousin is one of them. Early fifties, single, makes fantastic money and has a 23 year old girl living with him. Free place to live, doesn't pay for groceries, he bought her a used car, buys her clothes, sends her to have her hair and nails done and gives her a cash allowance every week. And all this in exchange for sex, and considering how often he travels and the fact he has some health issues, she's not even working that hard in that aspect. I've met her several times, she's not the ditz or bimbo you'd expect, intelligent girl and mature as well, doesn't dress trashy either when they go out.

A lot of people would judge both of them, but they're not hurting anyone and whatever makes you happy.