Meeting Married Men

Fuck I would love to..

It's been a while and I am not ashamed to admit feeling needy and craving attention. The kink of getting it from another man who may equally feel the same heightens the fantasy for me..

Helping out each other with an urgent sense of need and want...

I also feel needy and crave the attention of other men. This has gone as far back as I can remember, but now that I'm getting older I am finding that craving growing. I daydream about all my relationships with men having a sexual component.
 
Fuck I would love to..

It's been a while and I am not ashamed to admit feeling needy and craving attention. The kink of getting it from another man who may equally feel the same heightens the fantasy for me..

Helping out each other with an urgent sense of need and want...
Hot!
 
Agreed, someone who would understand the need for being discreet and safe. No meeting someone in a park, but fuck, I would love to meet up with someone whom I could pass by on my way home from work now and then... Hard sitting still just thinking about it.

S Fl.
Yes why can’t I just walk by a smoking hot man in the park and we both nod and escape to wooded area to blow each other ha. Is that too much to ask
 
I’ve only been on this forum for about a year, but my wife has been on for several years (She has now been banned) but so far I have had 2 hook ups and one was married. Also had 2 “no shows”, and both were married. I think there is no silver bullet answer as to how to find man who want their cock sucked by a man, but you just have to always be looking an never be afraid to ask. 100% of the times you don’t ask results in a “no” by default.
 
I’ve only been on this forum for about a year, but my wife has been on for several years (She has now been banned) but so far I have had 2 hook ups and one was married. Also had 2 “no shows”, and both were married. I think there is no silver bullet answer as to how to find man who want their cock sucked by a man, but you just have to always be looking an never be afraid to ask. 100% of the times you don’t ask results in a “no” by default.
Why was your wife banned?
 
Yes why can’t I just walk by a smoking hot man in the park and we both nod and escape to wooded area to blow each other ha. Is that too much to ask
You just have to be at the right park, and it will happen exactly like this. Possibly with the exception of the "smoking hot" part, but maybe not!
 
She was banned (she thinks) for a discussion about sexual experiences before she was 18. They gave no warning or reason. She made a serious error thinking it was a private discussion when it was in the open forum.
Wow...and you can't contact someone to explain? That kind of sucks
 
I have noticed more men actually making eye contact in public.
Which if you ask my neighbors wife men don't make eye contact with each other which I think is an incorrect assessment.
 
East Texas mature guy here who would love to find a fellow married friend who would like to get together occasionally for some masturbation pleasure. I’m open to oral with someone I can feel comfortable with, with King of Clubs and other frot positions at the top of the list. Let’s plan something.
 
I have noticed more men actually making eye contact in public.
What does "more" mean?

More than people say/imagine?

More than you used to notice, before something changed?

More at the gay bar than at the sports bar?

if you ask my neighbors wife men don't make eye contact with each other which I think is an incorrect assessment.
I myself said the same thing either earlier in this thread or maybe in another thread about men signaling sexual interest to each other.

So, it isn't zero. Of course men make eye contact with each other. But it's brief and not deep, unless they're either very close in some kind of established inter-relationship (not to say "relationship") with each other, or, they're signaling sexual interest to each other.

But your neighbor's wife might be comparing man-to-man eye contact in the wild (by which I basically mean "strangers" or even "acquaintances who aren't close") with the eye contact straight men give to women in the wild, or to the eye contact women give to each other in the wild. in which case, I don't think it's incorrect at all. Men look at women because they want to see, and they want to see if there's a reaction, a mutual look. Women look at women because women use the eyes to communicate. Men do very little of that, by comparison.

And I'm not scrolling back however many pages to refresh my memory or find out, but, I think the only reason the subject of eye contact has come up at all in this thread is because we're talking about men signaling sexual interest in each other. By comparison, that is obviously going to be a different level, quality, and depth of eye contact than what happens among guys who aren't looking for MSM, which is almost certainly what your neighbor's wife had in mind.

Anyway, I don't know what you meant when you said you're seeing more of it. Is it because you have started looking for it? Is it because you have started giving it, and you've been seeing that sometimes you get it back?
 
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What does "more" mean?

More than people say/imagine?

More than you used to notice, before something changed?

More at the gay bar than at the sports bar?


I myself said the same thing either earlier in this thread or maybe in another thread about men signaling sexual interest to each other.

So, it isn't zero. Of course men make eye contact with each other. But it's brief and not deep, unless they're either very close in some kind of established inter-relationship (not to say "relationship") with each other, or, they're signaling sexual interest to each other.

But your neighbor's wife might be comparing man-to-man eye contact in the wild (by which I basically mean "strangers" or even "acquaintances who aren't close") with the eye contact straight men give to women in the wild, or to the eye contact women give to each other in the wild. in which case, I don't think it's incorrect at all. Men look at women because they want to see, and they want to see if there's a reaction, a mutual look. Women look at women because women use the eyes to communicate. Men do very little of that, by comparison.

And I'm not scrolling back however many pages to refresh my memory or find out, but, I think the only reason the subject of eye contact has come up at all in this thread is because we're talking about men signaling sexual interest in each other. By comparison, that is obviously going to be a different level, quality, and depth of eye contact than what happens among guys who aren't looking for MSM, which is almost certainly what your neighbor's wife had in mind.

Anyway, I don't know what you meant when you said you're seeing more of it. Is it because you have started looking for it? Is it because you have started giving it, and you've been seeing that sometimes you get it back?
I was asked by a female friend about 6 years ago what do I have to do to get you to pay attention to me?
I was perplexed and asked what are you talking about?
Well she had sexual interest and I totally because of who she was had no idea she had sexual interest in me.
She said if you would pay attention you have people checking you out all the time when we are together.
I had no clue and that is when I started to pay more attention. I still find myself so caught up in my day-to-day that I don't slow down to pay attention but when I do men and women will hold eye to eye contact. More will also when doing so smile and say hi.
What's the next step though? I am the type of guy people get to know and then they can be comfortable. Many people tell my I am intimidating when they first meet me so that doesn't help when wanting to meet people.
 
I was asked by a female friend about 6 years ago what do I have to do to get you to pay attention to me?
I was perplexed and asked what are you talking about?
Well she had sexual interest and I totally because of who she was had no idea she had sexual interest in me.
She said if you would pay attention you have people checking you out all the time when we are together.
I had no clue and that is when I started to pay more attention. I still find myself so caught up in my day-to-day that I don't slow down to pay attention but when I do men and women will hold eye to eye contact. More will also when doing so smile and say hi.
What's the next step though? I am the type of guy people get to know and then they can be comfortable. Many people tell my I am intimidating when they first meet me so that doesn't help when wanting to meet people.
You just wrote my story. Wish I had a friend like her when I was single. I'd have had a lot more fun. I don't think people find me intimidating though.
 
You just wrote my story. Wish I had a friend like her when I was single. I'd have had a lot more fun. I don't think people find me intimidating though.
She never found me intimidating she would have moved in the first day we met she told me.
Others do but it's a barrier I put up
 
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