Why is it so arousing to talk to strangers on Lit about masturbating?

[devakama469]

I used to masturbate regularly with a guy, getting deep into our fantasies for years until my account was terminated. We rarely shared pics or videos but he still made me cum so hard just because of how synced up we were.

If I hadn’t lost contact with him, I would’ve absolutely met up with him.

But, if I may ask, were you into him, as in, having sexual fantasies about interacting with him? Or, rather, that his stories were hot and picturing them aroused you, without you fantasizing about interacting with him?

I don't have sexual attraction toward men, so I wouldn't be on the first camp. But I have very little taboo and have had very explicit conversations with other guys online, where I have shared my fantasies and experiences in great detail, and they theirs, and picturing all of that as we talk, reliving my experiences in my mind, and imagining the other party reliving theirs (I have watched real people have sex live at swinger clubs, and I've loved it), has indeed been quite steamy and arousing, priming myself for good solo masturbation sessions.

 

[Sprocketman74]

For me it's just the connection with another person. I like to interact.

 

[devakama469]

For me it's just the connection with another person. I like to interact.

This sums it up very well for me. I love to connect in general with people, and needless to say, so much the better if its over subjects I'm passionate about. And I am most definitely quite passionate about sexuality!

 

[perturbedmusic]

But, if I may ask, were you into him, as in, having sexual fantasies about interacting with him? Or, rather, that his stories were hot and picturing them aroused you, without you fantasizing about interacting with him?

I don't have sexual attraction toward men, so I wouldn't be on the first camp. But I have very little taboo and have had very explicit conversations with other guys online, where I have shared my fantasies and experiences in great detail, and they theirs, and picturing all of that as we talk, reliving my experiences in my mind, and imagining the other party reliving theirs (I have watched real people have sex live at swinger clubs, and I've loved it), has indeed been quite steamy and arousing, priming myself for good solo masturbation sessions.

It was very much of the first camp. We fantasized heavily sit fucking one another, with only the rarest departures into wife swapping and prior experiences.

 

[devakama469]

It was very much of the first camp. We fantasized heavily sit fucking one another, with only the rarest departures into wife swapping and prior experiences.

Have also done that, of course, but with ladies in my case And it's indeed extremely hot!

But the point is that, whatever anyone's sexual inclinations, or whether the parties conversing are fantasizing about each other, or just sharing things they've done with others, and/or any random unfulfilled fantasies they might have, having the connection to talk about those things is indeed extremely arousing!

 

[ThinkWrite]

Why?…because I don’t otherwise (sadly) get to talk to people about masturbation. So connecting on here with like minds is very nice!

 

[perturbedmusic]

Have also done that, of course, but with ladies in my case And it's indeed extremely hot!

But the point is that, whatever anyone's sexual inclinations, or whether the parties conversing are fantasizing about each other, or just sharing things they've done with others, and/or any random unfulfilled fantasies they might have, having the connection to talk about those things is indeed extremely arousing!

Absolutely. Someone else is much more stimulating than just watching porn. It heightens the fantasy so much more.

 

[devakama469]

Absolutely. Someone else is much more stimulating than just watching porn. It heightens the fantasy so much more.

Porn can be sooo incredibly boring at times… unless it's real people sharing their own content (which, at least to me, completely disqualifies most, if not all, OnlyFans, Fansly, or any of that for-sale crap); but, when you come to think of it, if anyone is sharing that type of content with you, then you're pretty much back at connecting with them in the way we've been discussing here

 

[Sprocketman74]

Real people are much more exciting and there is so much paid or professional people or bots, etc in the online space. I like the idea of someone sitting at home horny, a normal person with real fantasies and desires in the moment.

 

[devakama469]

Real people are much more exciting and there is so much paid or professional people or bots, etc in the online space. I like the idea of someone sitting at home horny, a normal person with real fantasies and desires in the moment.

This, 100%!

 

[Sunlover102]

I like the naughty connection.
Sharing fantasy and real world scenarios.
It's just orgasmatic when you find 'that' person to play along with.

Receiving an unexpected picture is fun too.
And if they like to receive.

 

[ThinkWrite]

Real people are much more exciting and there is so much paid or professional people or bots, etc in the online space. I like the idea of someone sitting at home horny, a normal person with real fantasies and desires in the moment.

Exactly…real person, their interests, experiences, and reactions to the conversation.

 

[LeSabreur]

While there appear to be a good number of lifestyle folks on Lit, my impression is that the vast majority of people participating here are just ordinary folks...human beings with healthy sex drives who may not have the opportunities in real life to exercise them the way that they would like. I'm certainly in that camp. I'm very, very ordinary: smart, funny, charming, very well liked and respected at work and among my friends and family members...and naughty as hell, with lots of kinks and forbidden desires.

While we're always on guard in real life, the freedom to be naked, baring ourselves by exposing these forbidding desires to other human beings in a safe environment, is exhilarating.

Talking about the hotwife porn I like, shaving my cock and balls in the bright sunlight of my patio, walking around the yard and the house naked, binding my cock and balls until they're purple, bulging and rock-hard, prolonged stroking sessions...all this is quite exciting to discuss. I've always been rather an exhibitionist, but men in particular are extremely discouraged in our society from exposing ourselves for fear of significant consequences (and the last thing I want to do is to offend others, never mind the legal ramifications). Here...well, it's not only safe, it's welcome! We can be our true selves without fear of judgment, and certainly without fear of consequences. Hey, everyone, look at my dick! It's swollen and dripping in anticipation! I grew up ashamed of touching myself, even more ashamed of my "weakness" in lacking the ability to stop, and now I can be PROUD of my cock and THRILLED to share my story with others.

 

[Uncut1969]

Love to chat with people and get each other off with our like minded kinks ! No hang ups just sexual tension release! Have done whereby and we so hot hearing and doing things they wanted
Next best thing than actually having a man in room

 

[desire30]

Love to chat with people and get each other off with our like minded kinks ! No hang ups just sexual tension release! Have done whereby and we so hot hearing and doing things they wanted
Next best thing than actually having a man in room

it is wonderful to make myself turned on with someone on line

 

[xdresssissytoes]

it is wonderful to make myself turned on with someone on line

Mmmm.....fondling each other's lust......probing for kinks and forbidden desires......

 

[desire30]

with the right person and comfort level those forbidden desire come out

 

[xdresssissytoes]

with the right person and comfort level those forbidden desire come out

Yes....opening up to exposing what turns us on....dropping defenses...indulging in making fantasies come true......

 

[gin53man]

with the right person and comfort level those forbidden desire come out

you're absolutely right

 

[desire30]

you make me want ..need to get naked and let myself go. youj telling me .... ?????

 

[marriedchappy]

Wise words, indeed! Looking at porn wis at best a tiny fraction as arousing for me as a good, intense, inhibited conversation about sexual experiences!

Well any time you want to chat just hit me up.

 

[gametime07]

I had a fake twitter account once that I used for porn only. I connected with a guy and we became pretty good online friends. We would share pics of each others cocks even though he wasn't into anything bisexual. We would talk about our wives and and share pics of their panties and bodies (from neck down). He really got off on me talking about how I would love to watch him fuck his wife with his nice 7 inch cock and maybe help them out. Rub her breast, lick her clit, things like that. I finally got him liking the fact that maybe his cock would slide out of her and I would give it a few licks. I made him cum a few times a week as we role played with that.

 

[Piperman1971]

So hot talking to guys on lite ,had some great wanks guy's telling all the dirty things they want to do to my wife .
I'm a cuck wannabe had guys wanting to fuck my wife and even been cam showing her curvaceous body, watching g them wanking and cumming over her

 

[Stoicbutfun]

For me it’s the ability to be yourself and not judged, so release yourself and I would hope it works both ways!

 

[CuriousinPennsylvania]

Here...well, it's not only safe, it's welcome! We can be our true selves without fear of judgment, and certainly without fear of consequences. Hey, everyone, look at my dick! It's swollen and dripping in anticipation! I grew up ashamed of touching myself, even more ashamed of my "weakness" in lacking the ability to stop, and now I can be PROUD of my cock and THRILLED to share my story with others.

Very well stated. I especially liked the lines: "Hey, everyone, look at my dick! It's swollen and dripping in anticipation!" Love edging and having my precum ooze down my cock.

Yes, I always carried that guilt (instilled in me by religion) about masturbating, but I have enjoyed it so much that I've overcome (or is it over-cum?) thoughts about how evil it is.