Knowing wife/gf has had large cock

[carln3346]

I know that my wife has had bigger and that's ok

 

[sterculius]

My wife has told me that her ex husband had an extremely large cock, much bigger than my own small penis, and that they often engaged in anal sex. A number of her former boyfriends had similar big cocks. I found this to be quite arousing as I'm excited by humiliation. She added that her ex was a premature ejaculater and rarely satisfied her. She has also told me that the strongest and best orgasms she has had have been though cunnilingus with me.

 

[Johnnybirussell]

Hmm

Maybe get her to dialogue with you could be very hot.

 

[twister947]

I'm average. Right in the middle of a very wide bell curve. The law of averages and normal distribution suggests that no, she probably has not encountered John Holmes.

 

[slowpoking]

Don't sweat it. You don't need a large cock to make a woman cum, you need a large amount of empathy.
It's not that size doesn't matter, it's that size is one factor and not the most important one. If you're average sized, then half the men any partner will have been with will be larger than yours.
Honestly, the best part of a big dick is unwrapping it. Focus on what makes you a great lover instead of worrying about what makes someone else a good lover.

Bulls-eye and very well put.

 

[screwher]

Mrs. Screwher experience with large cock has been hit and miss. In her cases it's been more about the man attached to it than anything else. Her first was her first boyfriend and the first guy to fuck her. But he was immature and selfish and treated her like crap. So it wasn't very pleasant.

The second was her first lover in our hotwife lifestyle. He was not only well hung but knows how to pleasure a woman. Quite frankly I loved that he would fuck her brains out! He's not officially out of the picture, it's just been awhile since they hooked up.

 

[lovesexfun]

i would say enjoy the stories she will tell you , I am also looking something to happen with my GF.

 

[OldFred65]

My wife, a former hooker, has had cocks of all sizes, shapes, and colors, as have I since becoming bi. We both think too much is made about size.

 

[Bigspurt]

Size?

I'm pretty sure that I am stuck with what I have. I had a mistress for years who said that I was the largest she had ever had. That's not saying much. 6 1/4 long and 5 1/2 girth, I do recall banging against my wife's cervix from time to time. Not any longer. I haven't shrunk, maybe she is a bit longer. I don't remember any discussion about past lovers and their size.

I guess the only thing that does matter is that if what is presented to the wife isn't sufficient then she might be looking elsewhere.

On the other hand, I think that I would like to see her on her back whimpering, with her legs wrapped around a guy's waist while he fucks her hard with his 8 or 9 incher.

 

[Flabuckeye]

My wife's ex was hung very well. She left him for me and I am average. We have been married for over 37 years and no complaints.

 

[old_hippy_46]

Recently found out my gfs ex bf was very hung. I’ve been having a lot of mixed feelings about It and has definitely been a shot to my confidence. Was wondering how other people handle finding out that news? Does It not matter to you? Does It hurt your feelings? Are you happy for her that she got to experience that? Make you insecure and feel bad for her having to deal with your smaller cock?

So I don't understand why it stresses you out. It was in her past she is with you now. So quit sniveling.

 

[Cabeza]

My wife had a brief fling in college with a guy we refer to as “porn star Gerry” because apparently he had a porn star sized dick. I know this because I asked her. She claims it was nothing special, maybe a bit uncomfortable. She seems to enjoy my size - I’m above average but not huge - so as long as we enjoy each other, who cares?

 

[Escierto]

I read the title of this thread and for a second I thought it was asking if your wife or gf has a large cock. Which of course, she does.

 

[wouldloveto]

as long as we enjoy each other, who cares?

I have a car analogy that I think fits this...

Driving a very high-horsepower car is exhilarating, but driving a balanced car is much more rewarding.

 

[screwher]

The second was her first lover in our hotwife lifestyle. He was not only well hung but knows how to pleasure a woman. Quite frankly I loved that he would fuck her brains out! He's not officially out of the picture, it's just been awhile since they hooked up.

My sexy wifey recently renewed her relationship with her first lover once we entered our lifestyle. He’s fucking hung and they’re having fantastic sex again. Obviously I’m thrilled for her.

 

[OneEyedSteve]

It's never bothered me about any of my former or current partners ex's. I get turned in by hearing about their past exploits, and ask what's the biggest they've ever had. I know that I've never had any difficulties showing a woman a good time, so what they've done before doesn't affect me

 

[Husbandlookingfore3rd]

Happy for her and intrigued about different sized and shaped cocks felt

I am definitely happy for my wife that she got the pleasure of some really large cocks . I would like for her to get a really large uncircumcised one now since she never had an uncut one before .

 

[Sgts19]

I know my wife has been with at least two guys who were very big.

One was a cpl we swapped with several times. The very first time his wife and I were talking while I recharged for round 2. We could hear them down the hall and his wife told me they didn't fuck much because he was so big. Never did see them together but heard them very clearly a few times and she sure sounded like she was having fun.

The other I found out was her old boyfriend of many years. Before I even knew what she looked like I heard them fucking in the next room. My fuck buddy was her roommate.

She's never said anything about my size and we've been married 47 years. I think it's more of a guy thing bigger is better etc etc. My take is it's something different instead of the same ol. Lets face it fucking the same person for all those years does get a little ho hum...for both.

 

[dennissara]

I love to grind and if I have a hard time fitting it in, I can't grind out my orgasm...so there's that consideration.

 

[Conquen69]

My wife has had bigger cocks than mine which is average length and a bit girth. I love that she has and hope she has another.

 

[TravisAW]

Mrs AW hasn't had many partners and has said that I'm biggest. I don't consider myself to be anything special, though. Average.
She's had a couple of big toys (not huge, just clearly the size you'd expect a girl to want to experience at some point).
She's also never expressed an interest in trying bigger, despite having had the opportunity while with me (stayed at a friend's after going out, friend brought a hung guy home but Mrs AW went to bed after dismissing advances from HG's friend as well as an invite to see HG in all his glory).
Would it have bothered me? No - so long as she had been honest and told me all the details...
Similarly, if she wants to in the future, I'd happily indulge the living out of a fantasy that we both have - book a hotel room, new lingerie, etc. make it special for us both.

 

[MongoSex]

Recently found out my gfs ex bf was very hung. I’ve been having a lot of mixed feelings about It and has definitely been a shot to my confidence. Was wondering how other people handle finding out that news? Does It not matter to you? Does It hurt your feelings? Are you happy for her that she got to experience that? Make you insecure and feel bad for her having to deal with your smaller cock?

I know mine has had a couple of thick two-handers that cummed like firehouses (in her mouth), so I’m told. Reaction:
1. Wish I had been there to watch it all and watch her lose her self,
2. Wish I had video of it,
3. Good for her.
4. Wish I was hung like a horse and could fill a coffee cup too.

 

[MongoSex]

Interesting thread. We have been playing with another couple, and he is certainly bigger than I am. Thicker with a huge mushroom head. Wife has just said he feels good but hasn't offered a whole lot more details. I've always wondered if there's more to it than just "good".

I’m afraid that would be a yes my friend. When they say little as an answer and then ignore the subject, you have your answer. I know. Gotta live with it. I let mine know the scratch an itch policy is okay by me as long as it’s safe and sane, and that it works both ways. Ok so far.

 

[MongoSex]

My husband, who I consider to have a very healthy sized penis, does NOT seem fond of this subject.

It's only come up once and it was sort of by accident. I said something like "God I love your cock" (which, over the course of our marriage I've probably said a thousand times in the heat of the moment) but once he replied something along the lines of "That's because you're just a dirty size queen." (I admit it, I am )

Then I made the mistake of saying "Well, if that was true I would have married someone else because ...." I was willing to let it drop but he just had to ask "Because why?"

... and I answered (truthfully unfortunately) "Because you're big sweetie, but you're not the biggest I've ever had."

I should have known from the look on his face (and the sudden decrease in throbbing in my adoring hand!) that I needed to shut up. But, I was actually pretty turned on by the conversation and so, of course, didn't. "I'm not?" he replied. "Not even the top ten," I admitted foolishly.

"Definitely the top twenty-five though," I added to tease him a little as I admired the giant tower of yummy pink flesh swaying in the air inches from my face. When he didn't say anything I knew instantly that I had made a big mistake so I went back to adoring him with my tongue and mouth and hands hoping he'd drop the subject.

He didn't.

He asked something like "You've had twenty-five guys bigger than me?" in total disbelief as I did my best to win an Oscar for gagging on his cock (it was an exaggeration - he's definitely in the top twenty). I immediately tried to take back everything I had just said. I came back up for air gasping and wiping the drool off my mouth. "No, I was kidding. Probably only one or two," I lied.

But he didn't buy it. We ended up not having sex that night and the subject has never come up again.

For any other women out there who might be reading this thread, my advice is don't bring up the subject unless he does and then if he does, before you admit anything, try to figure out the answer he wants to hear before you tell him the truth!

And that just continues the frustration. If you ask a question, the answer should be straightforward truth and you should listen and accept it. You asked!

 

[MongoSex]

Mrs AW hasn't had many partners and has said that I'm biggest. I don't consider myself to be anything special, though. Average.
She's had a couple of big toys (not huge, just clearly the size you'd expect a girl to want to experience at some point).
She's also never expressed an interest in trying bigger, despite having had the opportunity while with me (stayed at a friend's after going out, friend brought a hung guy home but Mrs AW went to bed after dismissing advances from HG's friend as well as an invite to see HG in all his glory).
Would it have bothered me? No - so long as she had been honest and told me all the details...
Similarly, if she wants to in the future, I'd happily indulge the living out of a fantasy that we both have - book a hotel room, new lingerie, etc. make it special for us both.

Good man. I do the same and it’s great for us, and our friends. New level of Great!