SensualKat78
Open minded
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UPDATE
I am going to do what my favorite friend SensualKat did/does and just take a break from here to recenter myself.
I had said that before and it didnt stick because I enjoyed this place, but I am at the point where since the trolls repopulate, other Lit people and their followers come on my thread to either argue or defend or whatever and just threadcrap all over, and then I have had to deal with people I thought were actual friends start to like comments that diss me and such possibly simply because I had rejected their romantic overtures...so its just made this place less than pleasant to be on now. Its not a welcome or fun safe space anymore...and maybe a break will allow me to believe in this place again.
I am not here for drama. I used this place to relax. I enjoyed the banter. I enjoyed the attention. I enjoyed the friendships.
I thought of you as friends.
I appreciated the support during the LA fires when it was only a couple blocks from my home. I appreciated the support and humor of my X key troubles. I loved doing the survey that about 100 of you took. I loved the march madness pool we did. I fondly remember the advice on the job opportunities presented to me. I appreciate all of the kind words and messages when I posted content...and when I didnt.
I am sorry this thread has devolved so much to become a place of drama and anger and sadness as opposed to one with fun and silly and interesting topics to discuss and some flirty content to potentially tantalize and arouse you.
I am sorry.
You will be missed.UPDATE
I am going to do what my favorite friend SensualKat did/does and just take a break from here to recenter myself.
I had said that before and it didnt stick because I enjoyed this place, but I am at the point where since the trolls repopulate, other Lit people and their followers come on my thread to either argue or defend or whatever and just threadcrap all over, and then I have had to deal with people I thought were actual friends start to like comments that diss me and such possibly simply because I had rejected their romantic overtures...so its just made this place less than pleasant to be on now. Its not a welcome or fun safe space anymore...and maybe a break will allow me to believe in this place again.
I am not here for drama. I used this place to relax. I enjoyed the banter. I enjoyed the attention. I enjoyed the friendships.
I thought of you as friends.
I appreciated the support during the LA fires when it was only a couple blocks from my home. I appreciated the support and humor of my X key troubles. I loved doing the survey that about 100 of you took. I loved the march madness pool we did. I fondly remember the advice on the job opportunities presented to me. I appreciate all of the kind words and messages when I posted content...and when I didnt.
I am sorry this thread has devolved so much to become a place of drama and anger and sadness as opposed to one with fun and silly and interesting topics to discuss and some flirty content to potentially tantalize and arouse you.
I am sorry.
Kat, you couldn't be any more correct. Spot on.
UPDATE
I am going to do what my favorite friend .....
I am sorry.
You're my fav friend as well, loveUPDATE
I am going to do what my favorite friend SensualKat did/does and just take a break from here to recenter myself.
I had said that before and it didnt stick because I enjoyed this place, but I am at the point where since the trolls repopulate, other Lit people and their followers come on my thread to either argue or defend or whatever and just threadcrap all over, and then I have had to deal with people I thought were actual friends start to like comments that diss me and such possibly simply because I had rejected their romantic overtures...so its just made this place less than pleasant to be on now. Its not a welcome or fun safe space anymore...and maybe a break will allow me to believe in this place again.
I am not here for drama. I used this place to relax. I enjoyed the banter. I enjoyed the attention. I enjoyed the friendships.
I thought of you as friends.
I appreciated the support during the LA fires when it was only a couple blocks from my home. I appreciated the support and humor of my X key troubles. I loved doing the survey that about 100 of you took. I loved the march madness pool we did. I fondly remember the advice on the job opportunities presented to me. I appreciate all of the kind words and messages when I posted content...and when I didnt.
I am sorry this thread has devolved so much to become a place of drama and anger and sadness as opposed to one with fun and silly and interesting topics to discuss and some flirty content to potentially tantalize and arouse you.
I am sorry.
It breaks my heart that drama and bullshit can chase someone away. That's not what this forum is supposed to be about it's not what the platform is supposed to promote, it's supposed to be about open mindedness and acceptance. That's not what we're seeing and it's not what should be acceptable.
I understand your decision to take a break and personally support it fully if you choose to do so. It breaks my heart to see the way things are going but just know that those of us who truly consider you a friend will be waiting for you to come back if you choose to do so. My DM is always open to you as you've always been available to me. I do know there's at least a few of us that you are the sole purpose we come to Lit for.
You are more special to people than you realize or give yourself credit for. While you're away destressing, just remember those of us who truly appreciate you for who you are and never question your genuineness, your personality or the quality of our friendship with you.
I am not "destressing" so much as...I didnt ask for the drama. And when there is some from time to time which can happen to anyone but especially to a female on a male dominated site, I always try to take it to a dm to resolve. I dont want to air grievances publicly and I also would prefer to solve them privately, esp since theres always two or more sides to any story or pov. Furthermore, getting others to whiteknight for me or others is not needed and usually only adds gasoline to the fire, as much as I may appreciate where the person's heart may be.It breaks my heart that drama and bullshit can chase someone away. That's not what this forum is supposed to be about it's not what the platform is supposed to promote, it's supposed to be about open mindedness and acceptance. That's not what we're seeing and it's not what should be acceptable.
I understand your decision to take a break and personally support it fully if you choose to do so. It breaks my heart to see the way things are going but just know that those of us who truly consider you a friend will be waiting for you to come back if you choose to do so. My DM is always open to you as you've always been available to me. I do know there's at least a few of us that you are the sole purpose we come to Lit for.
You are more special to people than you realize or give yourself credit for. While you're away destressing, just remember those of us who truly appreciate you for who you are and never question your genuineness, your personality or the quality of our friendship with you.
Take care of you, Kit.I am not "destressing" so much as...I didnt ask for the drama. And when there is some from time to time which can happen to anyone but especially to a female on a male dominated site, I always try to take it to a dm to resolve. I dont want to air grievances publicly and I also would prefer to solve them privately, esp since theres always two or more sides to any story or pov. Furthermore, getting others to whiteknight for me or others is not needed and usually only adds gasoline to the fire, as much as I may appreciate where the person's heart may be.
So between the trolls, between childish behaviors, between miscommunications and misunderstandings, it just isnt what my soul needs when I am trying to have fun. And I dont know if other people can respect that.
I'm sure your heart speaks volumes that you don't know how to put into words and that matters most.I wish I could have said this as well as he did.
Hi @LilKitKat,UPDATE
I am going to do what my favorite friend SensualKat did/does and just take a break from here to recenter myself.
I had said that before and it didnt stick because I enjoyed this place, but I am at the point where since the trolls repopulate, other Lit people and their followers come on my thread to either argue or defend or whatever and just threadcrap all over, and then I have had to deal with people I thought were actual friends start to like comments that diss me and such possibly simply because I had rejected their romantic overtures...so its just made this place less than pleasant to be on now. Its not a welcome or fun safe space anymore...and maybe a break will allow me to believe in this place again.
I am not here for drama. I used this place to relax. I enjoyed the banter. I enjoyed the attention. I enjoyed the friendships.
I thought of you as friends.
I appreciated the support during the LA fires when it was only a couple blocks from my home. I appreciated the support and humor of my X key troubles. I loved doing the survey that about 100 of you took. I loved the march madness pool we did. I fondly remember the advice on the job opportunities presented to me. I appreciate all of the kind words and messages when I posted content...and when I didnt.
I am sorry this thread has devolved so much to become a place of drama and anger and sadness as opposed to one with fun and silly and interesting topics to discuss and some flirty content to potentially tantalize and arouse you.
I am sorry.
Do you Kit. I can’t imagine the frustration. I mean I see things, but I don’t have to live with that level of frustration.UPDATE
I am going to do what my favorite friend SensualKat did/does and just take a break from here to recenter myself.
I had said that before and it didnt stick because I enjoyed this place, but I am at the point where since the trolls repopulate, other Lit people and their followers come on my thread to either argue or defend or whatever and just threadcrap all over, and then I have had to deal with people I thought were actual friends start to like comments that diss me and such possibly simply because I had rejected their romantic overtures...so its just made this place less than pleasant to be on now. Its not a welcome or fun safe space anymore...and maybe a break will allow me to believe in this place again.
I am not here for drama. I used this place to relax. I enjoyed the banter. I enjoyed the attention. I enjoyed the friendships.
I thought of you as friends.
I appreciated the support during the LA fires when it was only a couple blocks from my home. I appreciated the support and humor of my X key troubles. I loved doing the survey that about 100 of you took. I loved the march madness pool we did. I fondly remember the advice on the job opportunities presented to me. I appreciate all of the kind words and messages when I posted content...and when I didnt.
I am sorry this thread has devolved so much to become a place of drama and anger and sadness as opposed to one with fun and silly and interesting topics to discuss and some flirty content to potentially tantalize and arouse you.
I am sorry.
The ones who care will be here.UPDATE
I am going to do what my favorite friend SensualKat did/does and just take a break from here to recenter myself.
I had said that before and it didnt stick because I enjoyed this place, but I am at the point where since the trolls repopulate, other Lit people and their followers come on my thread to either argue or defend or whatever and just threadcrap all over, and then I have had to deal with people I thought were actual friends start to like comments that diss me and such possibly simply because I had rejected their romantic overtures...so its just made this place less than pleasant to be on now. Its not a welcome or fun safe space anymore...and maybe a break will allow me to believe in this place again.
I am not here for drama. I used this place to relax. I enjoyed the banter. I enjoyed the attention. I enjoyed the friendships.
I thought of you as friends.
I appreciated the support during the LA fires when it was only a couple blocks from my home. I appreciated the support and humor of my X key troubles. I loved doing the survey that about 100 of you took. I loved the march madness pool we did. I fondly remember the advice on the job opportunities presented to me. I appreciate all of the kind words and messages when I posted content...and when I didnt.
I am sorry this thread has devolved so much to become a place of drama and anger and sadness as opposed to one with fun and silly and interesting topics to discuss and some flirty content to potentially tantalize and arouse you.
I am sorry.
Good morning everyone! Hope you all have an awesome day!
I'm sorry this happened to you Kit. You are the one person on here that doesn't deserve it. Honest, fun, and straightforward. I will miss you every day you're not here. Yes, I will miss the incredibly sexy pictures, but I will miss the dialogue, banter, and chats more. You make it really fun and there is so much more to you than a beautiful face and incredible body. As amazing as they are, you as a person are even more amazing. I hope you don't leave for good, but I respect that you have to do what's best for you and makes you happy. I'll still check every day to see if you're back. Take care of yourself Kit. You're an incredible personUPDATE
I am going to do what my favorite friend SensualKat did/does and just take a break from here to recenter myself.
I had said that before and it didnt stick because I enjoyed this place, but I am at the point where since the trolls repopulate, other Lit people and their followers come on my thread to either argue or defend or whatever and just threadcrap all over, and then I have had to deal with people I thought were actual friends start to like comments that diss me and such possibly simply because I had rejected their romantic overtures...so its just made this place less than pleasant to be on now. Its not a welcome or fun safe space anymore...and maybe a break will allow me to believe in this place again.
I am not here for drama. I used this place to relax. I enjoyed the banter. I enjoyed the attention. I enjoyed the friendships.
I thought of you as friends.
I appreciated the support during the LA fires when it was only a couple blocks from my home. I appreciated the support and humor of my X key troubles. I loved doing the survey that about 100 of you took. I loved the march madness pool we did. I fondly remember the advice on the job opportunities presented to me. I appreciate all of the kind words and messages when I posted content...and when I didnt.
I am sorry this thread has devolved so much to become a place of drama and anger and sadness as opposed to one with fun and silly and interesting topics to discuss and some flirty content to potentially tantalize and arouse you.
I am sorry.