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Nope. It would be the worst experience of my life, hands up. (See what I did there?)
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Nope. It would be the worst experience of my life, hands up. (See what I did there?)




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I knew drugs were involved. But I still don’t know how someone shoves his gorilla fist up your twat without some discussion first. This just doesn’t seem proper. Fisting needs a discussion beforehand. Or beforefist, in this instance.


I would do this. I think its important to break down the stigmas and to allow men to support and care about each other. I think we deserve to have the closeness and supportiveness and love that women have been allowed to have in the last 10 or 15 years. A man should be able to hug or hold another man when he needs it and nobody gets to judge if or if not its 'gay' I hate the labels of it all. I'm not really anything, I'm on a spectrum for most things.

I mean I know that I most likely wont ever get the chance to actually try anything with a man. For a lot of the same reasons as my difficulties with women. And relationships would likely not be any easier. But other men who have the chance and the option should be encouraged to see, to experiment without fear or judgement.
 
How many is too many?

GANGBANG (<—hot porn)

We all enjoy a good gangbang and no matter how reserved you are, sometimes you just need to get fucked.
If you’re all in, I’m probablyyy already bent over. I’m a follower, through and through 🄰
Ladies:

How many penises is too many penises for you in a gangbang scenario (assuming everyone involved only has your best interests at heart)?
Depends on time, place, and moon phase, obviously.

But if we’re being honest, probably two. Not because I’d be overwhelmed but because I’d be distracted. I’m very performance-oriented and there’s only so much of me to go around if I want to do it well.

Also… everyone having my best interests at heart? Boringgggggggggg
On a scale of 1-5 (5 being ā€œfuck my brains outā€), how interested are you in being fucked by multiple guys?
I reject the math, I’m answering in women. If 1 is Ellen DeGeneres and 5 is Bonnie Blue, I’m probably somewhere in the Sandra Dee range šŸ’…šŸ¼
Would you be interested in being the center of a circle jerk?
Absolutely. I love watching and being up close without a dropcloth? Dreamyyyyyy 🄰 I won’t even ask for a parka šŸ’¦
Are you more interested in receiving kisses, oral and a good fingering, or do you want to be filled with cock?
I’m flexible(ish) and friendly, but… ideally? I’d be filled until I’m blushing, giggling, and leaking gratitude from every hole. 🄰🄰
What, in your opinion, would be the appeal of being gangbanged (even if you’re not personally into it)?
I mean, the fantasy is obviously fun. It doesn’t have to stop at two cocks, or three, or five. In my head, I’m more than capable of attending to whoever’s within reach or within hole… or even just within watching distance, if that’s what they’re into.

In my dreams, I can take it all - double penetration with a messy, pretty little smile. Drenched in sweat and cum and all the icky things that should make me squirm in the wrong way but kind of don’t.

Under the right circumstances, I could even see a non-disclosed number of fingers stretching me. Maybe even more than fingers. But… y’know. Fantasies are fantasies for a reason.

I’m still young, so… one day, maybe. šŸ˜‡
 
If you’re all in, I’m probablyyy already bent over. I’m a follower, through and through 🄰

Depends on time, place, and moon phase, obviously.

But if we’re being honest, probably two. Not because I’d be overwhelmed but because I’d be distracted. I’m very performance-oriented and there’s only so much of me to go around if I want to do it well.

Also… everyone having my best interests at heart? Boringgggggggggg

I reject the math, I’m answering in women. If 1 is Ellen DeGeneres and 5 is Bonnie Blue, I’m probably somewhere in the Sandra Dee range šŸ’…šŸ¼

Absolutely. I love watching and being up close without a dropcloth? Dreamyyyyyy 🄰 I won’t even ask for a parka šŸ’¦

I’m flexible(ish) and friendly, but… ideally? I’d be filled until I’m blushing, giggling, and leaking gratitude from every hole. 🄰🄰

I mean, the fantasy is obviously fun. It doesn’t have to stop at two cocks, or three, or five. In my head, I’m more than capable of attending to whoever’s within reach or within hole… or even just within watching distance, if that’s what they’re into.

In my dreams, I can take it all - double penetration with a messy, pretty little smile. Drenched in sweat and cum and all the icky things that should make me squirm in the wrong way but kind of don’t.

Under the right circumstances, I could even see a non-disclosed number of fingers stretching me. Maybe even more than fingers. But… y’know. Fantasies are fantasies for a reason.

I’m still young, so… one day, maybe. šŸ˜‡
Very informative and open!
 
If you’re all in, I’m probablyyy already bent over. I’m a follower, through and through 🄰

Depends on time, place, and moon phase, obviously.

But if we’re being honest, probably two. Not because I’d be overwhelmed but because I’d be distracted. I’m very performance-oriented and there’s only so much of me to go around if I want to do it well.

Also… everyone having my best interests at heart? Boringgggggggggg

I reject the math, I’m answering in women. If 1 is Ellen DeGeneres and 5 is Bonnie Blue, I’m probably somewhere in the Sandra Dee range šŸ’…šŸ¼

Absolutely. I love watching and being up close without a dropcloth? Dreamyyyyyy 🄰 I won’t even ask for a parka šŸ’¦

I’m flexible(ish) and friendly, but… ideally? I’d be filled until I’m blushing, giggling, and leaking gratitude from every hole. 🄰🄰

I mean, the fantasy is obviously fun. It doesn’t have to stop at two cocks, or three, or five. In my head, I’m more than capable of attending to whoever’s within reach or within hole… or even just within watching distance, if that’s what they’re into.

In my dreams, I can take it all - double penetration with a messy, pretty little smile. Drenched in sweat and cum and all the icky things that should make me squirm in the wrong way but kind of don’t.

Under the right circumstances, I could even see a non-disclosed number of fingers stretching me. Maybe even more than fingers. But… y’know. Fantasies are fantasies for a reason.

I’m still young, so… one day, maybe. šŸ˜‡
I love your essays
 
How many penises is too many penises for you in a gangbang scenario (assuming everyone involved only has your best interests at heart)?
I've only ever done one dick at a time.
I'm currently planning logistics for two dicks, one hole play.

But if everyone truly has my best interests at heart, there'd be quite a few dicks. The boys would be playing with each other and I'd wiggle my way into the action as it called me.

On a scale of 1-5 (5 being ā€œfuck my brains outā€), how interested are you in being fucked by multiple guys?
Would you be interested in being the center of a circle jerk?

5.
Not so interested in the circle jerk, but opening up to the idea of it.

Are you more interested in receiving kisses, oral and a good fingering, or do you want to be filled with cock?
What, in your opinion, would be the appeal of being gangbanged (even if you’re not personally into it)?


Must I choose?

My sexual appetite is much like my hunger. I want nibbles, and feasts, and everything in between.

My best orgasms come from a good fingering though.

For me- the carnal desire of being truly wanted is what appeals when thinking of a gang bang. That, and just being an absolute slut.

I'm kinda playing around with this dynamic this weekend. I've dubbed it my super slutty weekend. I am spending the night with a different lover each day this weekend (staying today) and having unhinged sex. I've never actually gone back to back with lovers like this and after today's shenanigans, I'm very much looking forward to the remainder of the debauchery.

I'm having a protracted gang bang of sorts.
 
Okay...

So I was fisted again today.

Another dude

Surprisingly- no lube.

(What the hell is happening to me?!)

This is just some erratic behaviour. I said erratic, not erotic.

But now you’re making me wonder… does it feel good?

Also, what does the guy get out of it? I’m trying to imagine a world where I think, ā€œMan… this girl is always just asking me to touch her pussy with my fingers. It would be a bigger turn-on if I was able to not just finger her, but shove my whole fist up there? That would give me the most pleasure.ā€

Funny story… I was once in a sex shop with my wife and this guy walks in the door very quickly, as if he was on a mission. He was a construction worker (he had on neon and reflective clothing, clearly dirty from a hard day of work). It was Friday at like 5pm, just quitting time.

He walks over to this big ass rubber fist hanging on the wall. Like, the shape and size of a man’s arm with a fist being made. He grabs that. Grabs a bottle of anal lube. Walks up to the counter and pulls out cash and some change. He kays it on the counter and walks out before the checkout girl even rings it up. This all happens in maybe 30 seconds.

When he leaves, I ask the girl, ā€œWhat the hell?ā€ She said that guy was in there every day that week, looking at the fist. He asked her what the exact cost was and said he would be back after payday. And sure enough, he was.

That guy’s Friday night was very eventful.
 
This is just some erratic behaviour. I said erratic, not erotic.

But now you’re making me wonder… does it feel good?

Also, what does the guy get out of it? I’m trying to imagine a world where I think, ā€œMan… this girl is always just asking me to touch her pussy with my fingers. It would be a bigger turn-on if I was able to not just finger her, but shove my whole fist up there? That would give me the most pleasure.ā€

Funny story… I was once in a sex shop with my wife and this guy walks in the door very quickly, as if he was on a mission. He was a construction worker (he had on neon and reflective clothing, clearly dirty from a hard day of work). It was Friday at like 5pm, just quitting time.

He walks over to this big ass rubber fist hanging on the wall. Like, the shape and size of a man’s arm with a fist being made. He grabs that. Grabs a bottle of anal lube. Walks up to the counter and pulls out cash and some change. He kays it on the counter and walks out before the checkout girl even rings it up. This all happens in maybe 30 seconds.

When he leaves, I ask the girl, ā€œWhat the hell?ā€ She said that guy was in there every day that week, looking at the fist. He asked her what the exact cost was and said he would be back after payday. And sure enough, he was.

That guy’s Friday night was very eventful.
So was he using it on himself? Why would one need ā€œa big ass rubber fistā€ unless using it on himself?

Also, what the hell? Don’t sex shop workers have some kind a HIPAA law? 😳
 
So was he using it on himself? Why would one need ā€œa big ass rubber fistā€ unless using it on himself?

I didn’t follow him home, so I don’t know. I presume this was for his gaping arsehole.

I did feel like I should have introduced him to the Vajankle, for a slightly kinkier time.

Also, what the hell? Don’t sex shop workers have some kind a HIPAA law? 😳

To be fair, he pretty much made it obvious. It was not done in secret.

That man had no shame in his game.
 
How many penises is too many penises for you in a gangbang scenario (assuming everyone involved only has your best interests at heart)?
I've only ever done one dick at a time.
I'm currently planning logistics for two dicks, one hole play.

But if everyone truly has my best interests at heart, there'd be quite a few dicks. The boys would be playing with each other and I'd wiggle my way into the action as it called me.

On a scale of 1-5 (5 being ā€œfuck my brains outā€), how interested are you in being fucked by multiple guys?
Would you be interested in being the center of a circle jerk?

5.
Not so interested in the circle jerk, but opening up to the idea of it.

Are you more interested in receiving kisses, oral and a good fingering, or do you want to be filled with cock?
What, in your opinion, would be the appeal of being gangbanged (even if you’re not personally into it)?


Must I choose?

My sexual appetite is much like my hunger. I want nibbles, and feasts, and everything in between.

My best orgasms come from a good fingering though.

For me- the carnal desire of being truly wanted is what appeals when thinking of a gang bang. That, and just being an absolute slut.
see, I’m wondering if this ā€œtabooā€ of being a slut will eventually go away. It seems like there’s been a bit of a snap back to women being derogated for having lots of sexual partners from the late 90’s early 2000’s.

No judgement from me of course. Fuck who ever you want. Enjoy this body and the life you have
 
see, I’m wondering if this ā€œtabooā€ of being a slut will eventually go away. It seems like there’s been a bit of a snap back to women being derogated for having lots of sexual partners from the late 90’s early 2000’s.

No judgement from me of course. Fuck who ever you want. Enjoy this body and the life you have
On the other testicle, isn’t being a slut hot and sexy? My concern about a society where anything goes is that taboo stuff will lose its appeal. Like a nude beach is boring, but skinny dipping where you’re not supposed to is thrilling.

We need a carefully constructed society where (legal) taboo stuff is looked down upon in polite society, but encouraged behind closed doors, just so it stays nasty! šŸ˜

I don’t want to devalue a slut by telling her she’s normal. I like that she’s a slut. That’s hot! 😁
 
Guys:

Have you ever gangbanged anyone?
Nope.
If your girl told you she wanted multiple dicks in her, how would you react?
Probably not well, but I have been thinking about this for awhile now, not the gangbang part, but the part where one partner wants something the other partner just can’t do and how to deal with that.

I have no answers, but the question is mind boggling.
If you took part in the linked gangbang image (above), what position would best suit you?
That’s a tough one because they all look like good places to be. 😁
But the way she talks it in her mouth just looks so šŸ’¦ šŸ†
Are you able to man up and fuck a girl the way she wants to be fucked with multiple guys, or are you a one on one fucker only?
I may be a one-on-one fucker only. But I aspire to be a gangbanger. šŸ˜Ž
 
Probably not well, but I have been thinking about this for awhile now, not the gangbang part, but the part where one partner wants something the other partner just can’t do and how to deal with that.
I think we know that the answer is to join Lit, right?

Beyond that? I guess it depends on how the one partner asks, and how the other says no. You make yourself very vulnerable by asking for something you're potentially going to be judged for wanting. And you can also change your partner's perception of you in a heartbeat.

This is Lit. A man can say something like "I've always secretly dreamed of my wife pegging me" and it barely registers a ripple in the Lit swamp. Back in the real world, when he finally blurts that out after twenty years, maybe it doesn't end so well. (Hypothetical rather than autobiographical example, in case anyone cares).

You hope you could discuss things without judgement. But I've seen the look of disgust, and it isn't pretty.

We need a carefully constructed society where (legal) taboo stuff is looked down upon in polite society, but encouraged behind closed doors, just so it stays nasty! šŸ˜
"We demand rigidly defined areas of doubt and uncertainty." - Majikthise.

But yep. Part - all? - of the fun of taboo stuff is that you shouldn't be doing it together. It's amazing how different your regular missionary sex feels when one of you is (partially) dressed as a priest and the other as a Catholic schoolgirl. Or so I should imagine.
 
How many penises is too many penises for you in a gangbang scenario (assuming everyone involved only has your best interests at heart)?
When is it officially a gangbang? 3? 4? I mean, 2 is a threesome but what if those penises are REALLY big? Some penises might be more like a penis and a half, and then we are already up to 3… Not all penises are the same. I think we can all agree on that.
On a scale of 1-5 (5 being ā€œfuck my brains outā€), how interested are you in being fucked by multiple guys?
Well, there’s interested and then there’s INTERESTED. I’m interested. I’m not INTERESTED. If I was a person who happened to like to watch the occasional tasteful erotic flick, gangbang might just be one of the genres in which I might be interested. Maybe. Am I going to arrange being a part of a real gangbang? No. That is something that needs to live in my fantasies.
Would you be interested in being the center of a circle jerk?
No, this one doesn’t do anything for me.
Are you more interested in receiving kisses, oral and a good fingering, or do you want to be filled with cock?
A fantasy gangbang would include:
*Me
*3 men - comfortable with themselves, normal body types, talking, friendly with each other, everybody happy, but attention on me
*Unplanned - happens organically, nice evening turns hot and things progress, a very pleasant surprise
*receiving all of the above
Or
It could have a different feel
A little scary
Embarrassment
Some shame
I’m not feeling this way this morning so it isn’t as natural to talk about but sometimes it’s a huge turn on.
Not sure why that is exciting to me too but it is. šŸ¤·ā€ā™€ļø

What, in your opinion, would be the appeal of being gangbanged (even if you’re not personally into it?
It could be either being worshipped or ot could be scary or a little embarassing.
Like any fantasy- stepping into another world. Exploring something totally different. Pushing boundaries. Finding your limit.
 
In my dreams, I can take it all

You make yourself very vulnerable by asking for something you're potentially going to be judged for wanting. And you can also change your partner's perception of you in a heartbeat.
This is the biggest concern I think most couples have. Open communication is vital in a relationship, but we all have a need to be seen a certain way and we are maybe afraid to let out those secret little fantasies.
Fantasies are fantasies for a reason.
Exactly.
That is something that needs to live in my fantasies.
I wonder at what point a fantasy becomes so strong it turns into more of a need. I suppose that’s when you should bring it up to your partner hoping it ends well.
The boys would be playing with each other and I'd wiggle my way into the action as it called me.
This is interesting because, I would think, the gangbang scenario would be about you, the woman, being worshipped, pleasured, etc.
Are you having the guys play with each other to take some of the heat off of you, or do you just like to watch guys doing stuff with each other?
3 men - comfortable with themselves, normal body types, talking, friendly with each other, everybody happy, but attention on me
I totally understand the ā€œattention on meā€ part and being serviced(?) by multiple people. The embarrassment and slightly uncomfortable part also makes it super sexy.

Probably not well . . .
To clarify, I would love to hear her fantasies and I would find her gangbang fantasy very exciting and erotic. We could watch that genre of porn together and talk about it to get each other all hot and bothered.

However, if she handed me a list of guys she wanted me to invite over on Thursday for a gangbang, I may have a problem with that. 😁
 
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