Cock Talk

Guys:

Have you ever gangbanged anyone?
Nope.
If your girl told you she wanted multiple dicks in her, how would you react?
Probably not well, but I have been thinking about this for awhile now, not the gangbang part, but the part where one partner wants something the other partner just can’t do and how to deal with that.

I have no answers, but the question is mind boggling.
If you took part in the linked gangbang image (above), what position would best suit you?
That’s a tough one because they all look like good places to be. 😁
But the way she talks it in her mouth just looks so 💦 🍆
Are you able to man up and fuck a girl the way she wants to be fucked with multiple guys, or are you a one on one fucker only?
I may be a one-on-one fucker only. But I aspire to be a gangbanger. 😎
 
Probably not well, but I have been thinking about this for awhile now, not the gangbang part, but the part where one partner wants something the other partner just can’t do and how to deal with that.
I think we know that the answer is to join Lit, right?

Beyond that? I guess it depends on how the one partner asks, and how the other says no. You make yourself very vulnerable by asking for something you're potentially going to be judged for wanting. And you can also change your partner's perception of you in a heartbeat.

This is Lit. A man can say something like "I've always secretly dreamed of my wife pegging me" and it barely registers a ripple in the Lit swamp. Back in the real world, when he finally blurts that out after twenty years, maybe it doesn't end so well. (Hypothetical rather than autobiographical example, in case anyone cares).

You hope you could discuss things without judgement. But I've seen the look of disgust, and it isn't pretty.

We need a carefully constructed society where (legal) taboo stuff is looked down upon in polite society, but encouraged behind closed doors, just so it stays nasty! 😍
"We demand rigidly defined areas of doubt and uncertainty." - Majikthise.

But yep. Part - all? - of the fun of taboo stuff is that you shouldn't be doing it together. It's amazing how different your regular missionary sex feels when one of you is (partially) dressed as a priest and the other as a Catholic schoolgirl. Or so I should imagine.
 
How many penises is too many penises for you in a gangbang scenario (assuming everyone involved only has your best interests at heart)?
When is it officially a gangbang? 3? 4? I mean, 2 is a threesome but what if those penises are REALLY big? Some penises might be more like a penis and a half, and then we are already up to 3… Not all penises are the same. I think we can all agree on that.
On a scale of 1-5 (5 being “fuck my brains out”), how interested are you in being fucked by multiple guys?
Well, there’s interested and then there’s INTERESTED. I’m interested. I’m not INTERESTED. If I was a person who happened to like to watch the occasional tasteful erotic flick, gangbang might just be one of the genres in which I might be interested. Maybe. Am I going to arrange being a part of a real gangbang? No. That is something that needs to live in my fantasies.
Would you be interested in being the center of a circle jerk?
No, this one doesn’t do anything for me.
Are you more interested in receiving kisses, oral and a good fingering, or do you want to be filled with cock?
A fantasy gangbang would include:
*Me
*3 men - comfortable with themselves, normal body types, talking, friendly with each other, everybody happy, but attention on me
*Unplanned - happens organically, nice evening turns hot and things progress, a very pleasant surprise
*receiving all of the above
Or
It could have a different feel
A little scary
Embarrassment
Some shame
I’m not feeling this way this morning so it isn’t as natural to talk about but sometimes it’s a huge turn on.
Not sure why that is exciting to me too but it is. 🤷‍♀️

What, in your opinion, would be the appeal of being gangbanged (even if you’re not personally into it?
It could be either being worshipped or ot could be scary or a little embarassing.
Like any fantasy- stepping into another world. Exploring something totally different. Pushing boundaries. Finding your limit.
 
In my dreams, I can take it all

You make yourself very vulnerable by asking for something you're potentially going to be judged for wanting. And you can also change your partner's perception of you in a heartbeat.
This is the biggest concern I think most couples have. Open communication is vital in a relationship, but we all have a need to be seen a certain way and we are maybe afraid to let out those secret little fantasies.
Fantasies are fantasies for a reason.
Exactly.
That is something that needs to live in my fantasies.
I wonder at what point a fantasy becomes so strong it turns into more of a need. I suppose that’s when you should bring it up to your partner hoping it ends well.
The boys would be playing with each other and I'd wiggle my way into the action as it called me.
This is interesting because, I would think, the gangbang scenario would be about you, the woman, being worshipped, pleasured, etc.
Are you having the guys play with each other to take some of the heat off of you, or do you just like to watch guys doing stuff with each other?
3 men - comfortable with themselves, normal body types, talking, friendly with each other, everybody happy, but attention on me
I totally understand the “attention on me” part and being serviced(?) by multiple people. The embarrassment and slightly uncomfortable part also makes it super sexy.

Probably not well . . .
To clarify, I would love to hear her fantasies and I would find her gangbang fantasy very exciting and erotic. We could watch that genre of porn together and talk about it to get each other all hot and bothered.

However, if she handed me a list of guys she wanted me to invite over on Thursday for a gangbang, I may have a problem with that. 😁
 
I think we know that the answer is to join Lit, right?
I quite realize this was serious, but it made me laugh for some reason. :p

And you can also change your partner's perception of you in a heartbeat.
So true.

This is Lit. A man can say something like "I've always secretly dreamed of my wife pegging me" and it barely registers a ripple in the Lit swamp. Back in the real world, when he finally blurts that out after twenty years, maybe it doesn't end so well. (Hypothetical rather than autobiographical example, in case anyone cares).

You hope you could discuss things without judgement. But I've seen the look of disgust, and it isn't pretty.
I think this is why it's so important to keep those corridors of communication open. At relationship inception and throughout. Expressed desires may, or may not, but acceptable at any point. But to broach them *boom* after twenty years opens the door to all kinds of issues, like:

You've keeping this hidden all this time? What else have you been keeping from me? What else are you lying about?

Oof. Kinda hard for a conversation to go anywhere but down. 🤷‍♀️
 
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Since this is cock talk… I’m curious about foreskins. I was listening to a podcast where they were talking about someone smuggling a pair of earring in his foreskin. And another man playing a game where he’d put something in his foreskin & others having to guess what it was by the outline. I’ve never been with a man who wasn’t circumcised so I’m clueless about foreskins… but all those things sound very dubious or at least painful! Is a foreskin really a good place for carrying things?
 
Since this is cock talk… I’m curious about foreskins. I was listening to a podcast where they were talking about someone smuggling a pair of earring in his foreskin. And another man playing a game where he’d put something in his foreskin & others having to guess what it was by the outline. I’ve never been with a man who wasn’t circumcised so I’m clueless about foreskins… but all those things sound very dubious or at least painful! Is a foreskin really a good place for carrying things?
I would suggest pulling it out in the supermarket to carry your groceries home in but some men have a very large foreskin so you could put things in it. I don’t know how uncomfortable it would be for them.

I am the opposite of you and never been with a man that was circumcised. I admit that I like watching the skin move on and off the head when I am giving them a wank. It mesmerises me.
 
I would suggest pulling it out in the supermarket to carry your groceries home in but some men have a very large foreskin so you could put things in it. I don’t know how uncomfortable it would be for them.

I am the opposite of you and never been with a man that was circumcised. I admit that I like watching the skin move on and off the head when I am giving them a wank. It mesmerises me.
To the first part 😂

To the second I would love a good mesmerizing wank from you 😘
 
Since this is cock talk… I’m curious about foreskins. I was listening to a podcast where they were talking about someone smuggling a pair of earring in his foreskin. And another man playing a game where he’d put something in his foreskin & others having to guess what it was by the outline. I’ve never been with a man who wasn’t circumcised so I’m clueless about foreskins… but all those things sound very dubious or at least painful! Is a foreskin really a good place for carrying things?
🧐 I don’t think that’s how foreskin works but interesting idea 😳
 
We all enjoy a good gangbang and no matter how reserved you are, sometimes you just need to get fucked.

Ladies:
How many penises is too many penises for you in a gangbang scenario (assuming everyone involved only has your best interests at heart)?

More than 3 would be too many. Three penises probably don't count as a gangbang. I'm far more interested in a MFM threesome.

On a scale of 1-5 (5 being “fuck my brains out”), how interested are you in being fucked by multiple guys?

For the threesome situation, it would be a 5. A three man gangbang might be the subject of fantasy or a viewing/reading choice, but it's not an IRL desire of mine.

Would you be interested in being the center of a circle jerk?

I'll pass on this one.

Are you more interested in receiving kisses, oral and a good fingering, or do you want to be filled with cock?

All of the above, often in that order.

What, in your opinion, would be the appeal of being gangbanged (even if you’re not personally into it)?

I think it depends on the fantasy situation. For me, one fantasy is being an object of desire and center of attention. The other situation involves the imaginary character of "my Dom" sharing me with friends or colleagues. The appeal there is feeling that my Dom is proud of me and wants to show me off. There are also feelings of uncertainty, as to what to expect, embarrassment, and slutty-ness.
 
I would suggest pulling it out in the supermarket to carry your groceries home in but some men have a very large foreskin so you could put things in it. I don’t know how uncomfortable it would be for them.
Curse my parents for depriving me of this opportunity. Assholes.
I am the opposite of you and never been with a man that was circumcised. I admit that I like watching the skin move on and off the head when I am giving them a wank. It mesmerises me.
FYI: I’ll let you know next time I’m across the pond if you’d like a different experience. I’m giving like that.
 
I think we know that the answer is to join Lit, right?

Beyond that? I guess it depends on how the one partner asks, and how the other says no. You make yourself very vulnerable by asking for something you're potentially going to be judged for wanting. And you can also change your partner's perception of you in a heartbeat.
Yep. Probably better to establish a kink level before committing. Though things can change of course. There’s always divorce.
This is Lit. A man can say something like "I've always secretly dreamed of my wife pegging me" and it barely registers a ripple in the Lit swamp. Back in the real world, when he finally blurts that out after twenty years, maybe it doesn't end so well. (Hypothetical rather than autobiographical example, in case anyone cares).
Out of all things I can imagine you saying in real life, that is not one of them.
You hope you could discuss things without judgement. But I've seen the look of disgust, and it isn't pretty.
I think most couples don’t have as open communication as might be ideal. I know where to draw the line on talking about fantasy. It’s pretty short.
"We demand rigidly defined areas of doubt and uncertainty." - Majikthise.

But yep. Part - all? - of the fun of taboo stuff is that you shouldn't be doing it together. It's amazing how different your regular missionary sex feels when one of you is (partially) dressed as a priest and the other as a Catholic schoolgirl. Or so I should imagine.
I don’t think that is too much of a stretch for you to imagine.

But I’m gonna steal that one for some day in the future.

I suppose it probably works for more than missionary. A good throat fucking for example.
 
Since this is cock talk… I’m curious about foreskins. I was listening to a podcast where they were talking about someone smuggling a pair of earring in his foreskin. And another man playing a game where he’d put something in his foreskin & others having to guess what it was by the outline. I’ve never been with a man who wasn’t circumcised so I’m clueless about foreskins… but all those things sound very dubious or at least painful! Is a foreskin really a good place for carrying things?
I assume that’s gotta hurt.
Unlike Apisto, I’m glad my parents chopped mine off. Well, they didn’t do it themselves, I imagine there was a doctor involved.
But a metal earring rubbing in that area? 😳
No thank you!
Three penises probably don't count as a gangbang. I'm far more interested in a MFM threesome.
I count this as a gangbang, for what it’s worth. 😁
 
Since this is cock talk… I’m curious about foreskins. I was listening to a podcast where they were talking about someone smuggling a pair of earring in his foreskin. And another man playing a game where he’d put something in his foreskin & others having to guess what it was by the outline. I’ve never been with a man who wasn’t circumcised so I’m clueless about foreskins… but all those things sound very dubious or at least painful! Is a foreskin really a good place for carrying things?
Since I'm not circumcised I try to answer this.
It is easy to put small things under the foreskin. A pair of earrings would fit under mine depending on shape and size. Big round or big stones, no. But small once, yes. No sharp edges please. :oops:
 
Curse my parents for depriving me of this opportunity. Assholes.

FYI: I’ll let you know next time I’m across the pond if you’d like a different experience. I’m giving like that.
Aww, you sexy little bunny. So thoughtful and kind. What if I am not mesmerised by wanking a circumcised cock? I couldn’t have you being my first disappointing wank. That would break me ☹️
 
Since this is cock talk… I’m curious about foreskins. I was listening to a podcast where they were talking about someone smuggling a pair of earring in his foreskin. And another man playing a game where he’d put something in his foreskin & others having to guess what it was by the outline. I’ve never been with a man who wasn’t circumcised so I’m clueless about foreskins… but all those things sound very dubious or at least painful! Is a foreskin really a good place for carrying things?
Okay. Let's start with the basics. Like...what exactly was this podcast, and obviously you just found it by accident, right?

I have no (fore)skin in this game (well, whether I do or don't is something people find out on a need-to-know basis), but I am just wondering if someone has misunderstood the concept of a Prince Albert.
Curse my parents for depriving me of this opportunity. Assholes.
If that's where they were snipping, we have a far bigger problem here.
 
Aww, you sexy little bunny. So thoughtful and kind. What if I am not mesmerised by wanking a circumcised cock? I couldn’t have you being my first disappointing wank. That would break me ☹️
I suppose then that we’ll just go to the local strip club, get blotto and make fun of the punters.
If that's where they were snipping, we have a far bigger problem here.
looks like I probably missed something - I was skim reading posts and thought her post was in ref to circumcision.
 
Okay. Let's start with the basics. Like...what exactly was this podcast, and obviously you just found it by accident, right?

I have no (fore)skin in this game (well, whether I do or don't is something people find out on a need-to-know basis), but I am just wondering if someone has misunderstood the concept of a Prince Albert.

If that's where they were snipping, we have a far bigger problem here.
It’s called No Such Thing as a Fish… it’s not really surprising that they were talking about it - it’s all about weird facts & this was some 1950s-ish actor who supposedly did this.
 
Since this is cock talk… I’m curious about foreskins. I was listening to a podcast where they were talking about someone smuggling a pair of earring in his foreskin. And another man playing a game where he’d put something in his foreskin & others having to guess what it was by the outline. I’ve never been with a man who wasn’t circumcised so I’m clueless about foreskins… but all those things sound very dubious or at least painful! Is a foreskin really a good place for carrying things
While I have a foreskin, I've never transported anything in it, earrings sound a painful thing to put in there!

However..... I do know someone (100% definitely not me!) who told me once that the hockey team he was in had a conversation to see how many pennies they could fit in there. Apparently the winner could get over 50p's worth in his....

I have never tried this. No. Never. Why are you looking at me like that?
 
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